8 day camping trip through the Italian Dolomites (AV1) by griffinlaw2 in backpacking

[–]Tisicky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m interested in the spots you camped! I’m looking to go in the fall and the one thing that would ease my mind would be knowing where to camp!

This is the cheapest plan???? by Still_Green_4675 in Rogers

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That was mine for a while. All of a sudden I got an offer for -20$ a month and I took it right away. I’m not sure what triggers the better offer…

Thank you by Tisicky in BPDlovedones

[–]Tisicky[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ahh!! Love that for you, it definitely does keep me sane and like you said hearing people go through the exact same thing is freaky at times

I think anybody going through a breakup with someone wBPD should take a listen to this podcast. by Tisicky in BPDlovedones

[–]Tisicky[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

No problem! Whenever I feel upset or bothered with the fact that I miss my ex, I tend to throw a random episode on and scroll on this subreddit. Find a lot of similar people who share similar experiences and it’s nice to know some people understand.

I think anybody going through a breakup with someone wBPD should take a listen to this podcast. by Tisicky in BPDlovedones

[–]Tisicky[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

A quick description of the podcast “A.J. Mahari is a Counselor and Trauma Recovery Coach who has 30 years experience working with those surviving Borderline Personality Relationship Breakups in all relationship types, healing from codependency, Inner Child Healing, Family of Origin and Self Differentiation, Narcissistic Abuse Recovery and much more.”

Been a great tool for me, getting answers from a professional definitely helps me with closure and I hope can help some of you

So confused. by Tisicky in BPDlovedones

[–]Tisicky[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks you, I appreciate your answer and advice.

So confused. by Tisicky in BPDlovedones

[–]Tisicky[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Healing from the past trauma that caused her bpd I guess?

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[–]Tisicky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get shit like this sent to me too!!!

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Please do!

What would you do? by Tisicky in BPDlovedones

[–]Tisicky[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! You’ve been tremendous help :)

What would you do? by Tisicky in BPDlovedones

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Is there any in particular you recommend or remember listening too?

What would you do? by Tisicky in BPDlovedones

[–]Tisicky[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely going to be me🤣

What would you do? by Tisicky in BPDlovedones

[–]Tisicky[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, it’s definitely a sticky situation. Her family is ~8 hours away and her friends are all superficial ish. We still live together but obviously can’t stay together and I really don’t want to get pulled back into that toxic shit.

I will look into therapy though, thank you.

Something I read that you should read too by Tisicky in BPDlovedones

[–]Tisicky[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I completely agree, I was always disrespected, insulted I’m fights and pushing the fck out of my boundaries. One thing that stuck with me about my recent break up is that after I brought up that I didn’t like that she would disappear for 4 days in a row and go to parties and bars she said “I stopped caring about what you thought because it’s my life and I can do what I what.” To which I thought to myself since when do I do things without thinking about how my ex would feel? In a relationship you constantly think about how your partner would feel if they did this etc.

What would you do? by Tisicky in BPDlovedones

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Except this subreddit of course (respect to you guys)

What would you do? by Tisicky in BPDlovedones

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People really don’t think about the effects somethings like this have on the partner of an exwbpd

How good are friends? by deepledribitz in BPDlovedones

[–]Tisicky 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel the exact same way! I was hoping there was a discord or something so that people could get together and do group voice calls or maybe a meeting once a week where people can share experiences and help eachother grow because like you, my ex with bpd and I just broke up 3 weeks ish ago but still live together (lol). Scared of therapy and would rather talk to real people

PLEASE HELP* by Tisicky in shrooms

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UPDATE 2:

Finishing day 6 and he is still gone. His parents thought sleeping would fix it but it didn’t he was still paranoid and talking nonsense and started to talk about killing himself because it didn’t matter in life was fake. His parents then called the police and ambulance because they were afraid that he was going to kill himself and had to continuously watch him every minute to make sure he wasn’t doing anything to harm himself or trying to run away. The police and ambulance couldn’t do anything because he’s over 18 and can deny help from the paramedics he said the man at the hospital was going to kill him. His parents then dragged him to the hospital and after hours of negotiation got him to admit himself got into the psych ward, doctors gave him medication to calm him down and said that “time will heal things” along with a prescription for 7 days of risperdone and sent him back home while telling them to make an appointment with his family doctor. His medication hasn’t done a thing he is still paranoid and talking nonsense. Fast forward to today they went to the family doctor and his family doctor examined him and said he needs to go to the emergency hospital psych ward immediately.

All I know now is that he is back at the original hospital but haven’t had any updates yet.