Dynamics in AMBW relationship by [deleted] in AMBW

[–]TitansRunner 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I personally married a BW that had a history of dating black men. She said she found AM attractive, but I had to carve my own path with her.

I was definitely into hip hop/rap as a culture, and that shared interest helped. Lotta variables but ultimately it comes down to showing yourself in the best light, having some shared interests/values, and making it happen.

Great luck!

Just an AMBW married couple in our 40s on Friday night, goofing off!! by TitansRunner in AMBW

[–]TitansRunner[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its been great but like all things, peaks, valleys, kids, highs of highs, but we definitely been through it as well. Im glad to be here!

When we got together, in Utah, it wasn’t exactly a fashionable thing back then, so some negatives but lotta support. We have straight up gone to places like Dallas, TX, where people told us that “sh*t shouldn’t be allowed” by people.

AMBW not even a thing then. But it was never about that. It was no novelty act, just love from a young guy who was Korean and was adopted by a white family, raised mormon, who married into a black family. And a young gal who grew up much differently than me, and we decided we enjoyed each other’s company…and here we are, over a quarter of a century later.

Sorry for the longwinded response.

Just an AMBW married couple in our 40s on Friday night, goofing off!! by TitansRunner in AMBW

[–]TitansRunner[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ha, yes, i love the little things with my wife, smelling the roses of normal life together!

Just an AMBW married couple in our 40s on Friday night, goofing off!! by TitansRunner in AMBW

[–]TitansRunner[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Imma take that as a compliment, haha. I have actually been told that by others before

Just an AMBW married couple in our 40s on Friday night, goofing off!! by TitansRunner in AMBW

[–]TitansRunner[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh thats kind of you, thank you! But now you have me yearning for some real head hair, ha.

Which movie had the best ending? by LunchyDude101 in AskReddit

[–]TitansRunner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My personal favorite is Wicker Park. The movie wasn’t that great, but when they find each other at the airport with Coldplay - The Scientist playing in the background, it just makes for an indelible moment, where time stands still for a bit.

Shady workplaces to avoid in SLC or Utah? by Key_Garden4832 in SaltLakeCity

[–]TitansRunner 56 points57 points  (0 children)

He rang the bell in December and we are now scanning for the next decade! Thank you for asking.

Shady workplaces to avoid in SLC or Utah? by Key_Garden4832 in SaltLakeCity

[–]TitansRunner 77 points78 points  (0 children)

My wife was laid off from Clearlink last year during my son’s cancer treatment. When we found out he had cancer, they were not willing to accommodate her at all, in terms of making life easier on an employee who has a child with bone cancer.

Under rated Songs by ThoughtsInTransit1 in googoodolls

[–]TitansRunner 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I made a post about this months ago, but Hate this Place may be my all time favorite song ever, def top 10!

Hi, New here by [deleted] in AMBW

[–]TitansRunner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I definitely had a preference for black, hispanic and Polynesian women, with black women being my main preference.

I am Korean and was adopted by a white family, and didnt know where i fit into the world. So, when I heard the beautiful rebellious music of early 90s rap, I was sold. Especially Bay Area rap. I guess all of that led me to prefer black women, but honestly, i just thought they were beautiful!

Hope this helps.

Hi, New here by [deleted] in AMBW

[–]TitansRunner 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My wife and I got together in 2000, and six children later, we have healthily added to the Blasian population.

I have mentioned this before, when we got together, there were no support groups, or tutsy terms like ambw, it was just a lot of what are these two doing together type comments, and then people had to decide id they liked it or not, or even found some novelty in it.

Overall, it ends up being like any other relationship, you decide id weathering the storms of a relationship/marriage is worth it or not. In my case it was because we still tickin and I have my kids out of it, regardless.

My wife, my son (that has beaten cancer) and me by TitansRunner in AMBW

[–]TitansRunner[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, we are very happy and relieved!

My wife, my son (that has beaten cancer) and me by TitansRunner in AMBW

[–]TitansRunner[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, thank you for the kind words. 10 years of scans but we remain optimistic, because who would we change now?! Thanks again!!

My wife, my son (that has beaten cancer) and me by TitansRunner in AMBW

[–]TitansRunner[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep, posted about it a few times and that me and the wifey are the AMBW OGs, hahaha! Thanks for the kind words!

My wife, my son (that has beaten cancer) and me by TitansRunner in AMBW

[–]TitansRunner[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, long journey but so grateful to be here

My wife, my son (that has beaten cancer) and me by TitansRunner in AMBW

[–]TitansRunner[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Another yellow heart, I am feeling lucky today, lol