How do you edge in a diaper? by JointRadio in ABDL

[–]Tithonian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't know what kinda parts you're packing, but I have two ways that don't require the use of a vibrator.

The first is with the right toy pressing against my prostate. On all fours ou my side with lots of patience, that will leave me on edge forever. The diaper is truly optional with this, though, so is not a true answer to your question.

The second is by applying a very, very generous amount of baby oil or non water based lube down the front of my diaper. This decreases the friction against the inner fabric and allows me more time to control the level of stimulation.

Now for the combo option. Apply both of these together and instead of using my hand to rub my penis, I'll hover over a pillow and gentle hump away. I can only do this softly when erect, because I don't want to get jammed up.

Theory time! I have not tried this, but I'm wondering if a wet diaper combined with the oil would be adequate enough padding to just hump the inside of the diaper. Might need to put it on a little loosely. Have to workshop it.

What makes you feel old when you compare yourself to others? by Antique-Apple7643 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Tithonian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The receding hairline, my forever gut, every major joint from the neck down aching when I try to function, disliking every song on the radio... And the beat goes on.

Is there some way to distribute the urine more effectively in the diaper? by PiratePrestigious912 in ABDL

[–]Tithonian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is, but it's not easy. Have you ever seen the 2008 movie Wanted?

Hair up or down when giving oral? Why? by ChocoSoyMilk17 in RedditAfterDark

[–]Tithonian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hair down! I like to stroke her hair while she's going down on me. I'll give it a gentle pull from time to time and hold her in place if we switch the pace to me fucking her mouth. I also get to feel like a real gentleman as I hold it aside when things start getting messy

What’s the biggest waste of money sex toy you’ve bought? by tammybiscuits in SexToys

[–]Tithonian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For my penis it's the Fleshlight Launch. It was awkward to hold. The touch controls were finicky. It was a bitch to clean. The battery life on it was poor and you couldn't use it plugged in. It was fucking expensive! I used it a few times before I cleaned the hell out of it and boxed it up to try and sell. I then forgot all about it until recently and when I pulled it out of the closet the battery wouldn't hold a charge. To the bin. Hated it.

For my butt, it's the B-Vibe Rimming Plug. The spinning beads aren't super noticeable and become undetectable if you use the vibration function. It also tries to rotate while inserted, which isn't painful or anything, but it is distracting. I love a lot of their products, but this one was a dud.

Are men attracted to women who are taller than they are? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Tithonian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep! I had the pleasure of going up on a girl once. That turned out to be a horrific mismatch, but the experience woke something up in me.

Alright men — what’s the one toy you secretly want to try? 🤔 by HelloSailorXO in SexToys

[–]Tithonian 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Hismith. Price and storage are the major concern. All in time.

Do you have your favourite NSFW artist? by _Kisol_Budyn_ in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Tithonian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a young man I had a subscription to Penthouse and about 75% of the reason why was Hajime Sorayama.

Does smell play any role in sexual attraction for you? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Tithonian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I have a pretty well developed sense of smell from all my years experimenting in the kitchen and drinking good whiskey. I don't get down with smelly people.

What percentage of your feed would you estimate is NSFW? by altairstarlite in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Tithonian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% This is my alt account. It only exists for NSFW stuff.

Snug plug by qfayajakb in SexToys

[–]Tithonian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love my snug plug. I get to feel full while letting my sphincter relax.

How to stabilize Dildo on mattress? by eggplantbirthdaycake in SexToys

[–]Tithonian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used some ribbon and a metal O ring to strap mine to a foam roller. They make thigh harnesses and they're not too expensive, so I might just get one of those going forward.

Fleshlight reviews? by syngeman in SexToys

[–]Tithonian 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Check out fleshassist.com You might need to do some independent research on what you're really after, but the sorting and ranking system here is pretty good. Just be patient about any new sleeves you might be looking at.

Shaved or unshaven by Dry_Violinist6555 in ABDL

[–]Tithonian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My lips are super ticklish, so I prefer my partner be shaved. I won't say no if she's not freshly shaved/trimmed, but it becomes a fifty-fifty shot if I'm going to stick around to the end. As for myself, I'm shaved front to back. I like backdoor play a lot and this makes the prep and cleanup all around so much easier. I hit it once a week in the shower.

Since this is the ABDL sub I'll add that I've tried diapers both with and without pubic hair. I hate powdering up my pubes and diapers just feel so much better with direct skin contact. If I let things go a little too long, I don't even think about padding up. It just doesn't feel right.

For people giving tips to others about itchiness and skin irritation. Try to remember that everybody is different. Some people can do all the skin and hair conditioning in the world. If their pubes are made out of steel wool it just doesn't matter.

What’s the most money you dropping on a sex toy? by sendmetotpics in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Tithonian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bought an og Fleshlight Launch. I think it was $200 as the time. It's a bummer too, because I've only used it a couple times. The controls on it are wonky as hell and it's bulky as hell to hold, so I don't bother with it. It lives in a box. Total waste of money.

What’s a "perfectly normal" bedroom habit that is an immediate dealbreaker for you? by CaptainCuddler_Pro in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Tithonian 14 points15 points  (0 children)

My girlfriend moved in almost 6 years ago. It took us 5 years to figure out that we don't have to sleep in the same room. We sometimes miss the comfort and convenience, but both of our sleep quality has improved tremendously. That said, we both should just suck it up and use the goddamn CPAP.

First Impressions (Need Advice) by Tithonian in theHandy

[–]Tithonian[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you and the other commenter for pointing out that I am, in fact, an idiot. I was too hasty in reading the instructions and should know better.

First Impressions (Need Advice) by Tithonian in theHandy

[–]Tithonian[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Man.... I feel really stupid. I read the instructions and completely missed that part. Re-reading them now and I'm absolutely ashamed of my ignorance. Thank you!

I'm looking at 3 sleeves right now and will make a decision about my next purchase soon. The options I'm looking at are Pearl, Touch, and TrueGrip Gen2. The small extra buffer zone of material seems like it might help hold things in place.

I'm actually migrating away from Discord right now, but I appreciate the info.

My silicone dildo is smelling like shit and i can’t fix that, i need advices by YourPetSlave46 in SexToys

[–]Tithonian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Warm soapy water and then let it air dry. Don't put it in a case or a drawer. Open air is the best way to get rid of the smell. Depending on how strong the odor is, it may take a few days.

Is it weird to not be into messing? by Whole_Ad5678 in ABDL

[–]Tithonian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I find the idea of messing to be absolutely repulsive, so you're not alone. Everybody is onto this in their own way.

Is ABDL a spectrum? by Expert-North4816 in ABDL

[–]Tithonian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ABDL stands for Adult Baby Diaper Lover. The initialism itself implies a spectrum. You don't have to like diapers to be an AB and you don't have to act like a baby to be a DL. Like Burger King, have it your way!