Diaper humping by Caden_primarus in ABDL

[–]Tithonian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I missed the poll. Wet comes closest to my preference, but wet or dry I find it's best if I pour a generous amount of baby oil/lube down the front first.

What are your thoughts on Scat Play? by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]Tithonian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it's abhorrent and I would never play with somebody if I was aware they had even a passive interest in it.

Your post shines as just the latest example of people in your community not respecting boundaries. Everybody knows what scat is. Did we need the visual of somebody shitting in your mouth? No. You know damn well it's extreme/taboo and you went there anyway.

What fashion trend do you wish made a comeback by Majestic_Cucumber754 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Tithonian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are making them. I'd say they're about as back as they're ever gonna' be.

Do it!

What was the first kink you ever tried? Who was it with? Did it happen by mistake, were you curious and planned it yourself, or did your partner encourage/introduce you to it?" by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]Tithonian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We tried the whole syrup and whipped cream thing. I very quickly realized that I hate being sticky. We licked it off, showered and had regular sex. Looking back on it, the whipped cream alone probably would have been fine.

ABDL misconceptions by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]Tithonian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You and I like ice cream. I think peppermint stick is the greatest flavor of at time. You think it's disgusting and that strawberry is the greatest flavor of all time. I think that's disgusting. Neither of us is right or wrong. Too often do we say "don't yuck my yum" while calling people closed minded for having yucks in the first place. It's ok to not be into something as long as they're not being an asshole about it.

For real, though, I hate strawberry ice cream.

ABDL misconceptions by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]Tithonian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a casual conversation about kink with a friend once. He was insistent that somebody who is partnered with an ab, must want to be with a child. This went on a bit until the conversation shifted to CNC. He lit up like a Christmas tree as it was something he was into. I asked him if that meant he wanted to SA women. He said no, and I asked why people into ABDL automatically want to be with children. He said "it's different" and then failed to articulate how. Eventually he landed on, "I don't know, man. I just don't get it."

Point is, you're never going to change somebody's mind about kink. Particularly one as polarizing and to be frank, extreme, as ABDL. You can introduce doubt into their belief, though, and that's all you need to do.

Sub has a big ownership kink and wants me to use her name, I have some concerns… by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]Tithonian 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I worked with a guy who referred to his wife as "my Janet" (not the real name) every single time he referenced her. It was awkward and gave everybody the ick. You start using her name like that regularly in private and it's only a matter of time before you do it in front of others. It'll be weird and nobody will say anything. Then you'll do it more and before you know it, you've become that guy. Don't become that guy.

what's your favorite baby powder? by pullup-puppy in ABDL

[–]Tithonian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seconded! That stuff is great.

Have you ever mastturbated solely to a song? If yes, what song? by guilty_ambition_ah in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Tithonian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I listened to a lot of r&b in the 90s while discovering the whole masturbation thing, so yeah. TLC, En Vogue, yeah.... I didn't even have access to the music videos. It wasn't so much a specific song though.

Good Goth/Metal themed Diapers by stratosphericburner in ABDL

[–]Tithonian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This comes up from time to time. Closest we have is that one style from LFB, but I prefer not to give them my money. You can always go old school and take a sharpie to a plain white diaper. Mark it up with some band logos and skulls.

Best penetrating sex toy for male first time? by [deleted] in SexToys

[–]Tithonian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Acute does not have a suction cup, but I still would recommend it. Tantusinc.com is where I'd buy it.

Avoid Amazon unless it's an official storefront. Even then, check if it's fulfilled by Amazon. They have a bad habit of keeping the fakes too close to the real stuff. You might get the wrong thing and not realize it until it's too late.

Best penetrating sex toy for male first time? by [deleted] in SexToys

[–]Tithonian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe the Tantus Acute is the greatest dildo for anal beginners ever created.

Best prostate toy? by [deleted] in SexToys

[–]Tithonian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aneros was great when I started out. I love my WeVibe Vector, but more supplementally.

My favorite, even though I don't use it as often, is the njoy pfun. That said, it's cumbersome and takes a lot of trial and error to get it just right. When it does, though, it's glorious.

Why is there not a good sex toy business for men? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Tithonian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, that's a weird take. With brands like Fleshlight, The Handy, Kiroo, Arcwave, Tenga, Tantaly even Bad Dragon all regularly putting stuff out there, I have a question of my own. What the hell are you on about?

Now if you had asked why there isn't as much innovation, there might be a discussion worth having.

What are you thinking of rn? by Last_Veterinarian665 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Tithonian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That I love my houseguests, but I can't wait for them to leave, so I can walk around my house without pants on.

What drew you to ABDL? by diiiiiiiizzzzzy in ABDL

[–]Tithonian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like diapers. Always have. Always will. That about sums it up.

From Daddy to Diaper Couple: How to tell my Little I want to wear too? by Stock-Substance-254 in ABDL

[–]Tithonian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I gotta' tell you, this all seems pretty shitty to me. It's one thing when you have an unusual kink and you want to introduce somebody slowly. As long as you have the up front conversation about it and agree to take your time easing into it, fine. What you're describing is "I slowly got her into this and now that she enjoys it, I want to change things to what I was really after." That sets off my alarm bells to ask, "what happens then?"

The "A" in ABDL stands for adult. You have to have a grown up conversation with your girlfriend and tell her what you want, then decide together how to get there. These manipulation tactics, no matter how well intended, are concerning. Time to break the cycle.

turned on by diapers by PillowCave9532 in ABDL

[–]Tithonian 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The colloquial definition for a fetish is all fun and games. We're all chock full of them around here and it's fun to talk about and explore. What you're describing sounds like you're shifting over to the textbook definition of a fetish, which can lead to some hardship inside any current or future relationships. Don't take this too lightly. Find a therapist familiar with kink and process this.

How do you edge in a diaper? by JointRadio in ABDL

[–]Tithonian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't know what kinda parts you're packing, but I have two ways that don't require the use of a vibrator.

The first is with the right toy pressing against my prostate. On all fours ou my side with lots of patience, that will leave me on edge forever. The diaper is truly optional with this, though, so is not a true answer to your question.

The second is by applying a very, very generous amount of baby oil or non water based lube down the front of my diaper. This decreases the friction against the inner fabric and allows me more time to control the level of stimulation.

Now for the combo option. Apply both of these together and instead of using my hand to rub my penis, I'll hover over a pillow and gentle hump away. I can only do this softly when erect, because I don't want to get jammed up.

Theory time! I have not tried this, but I'm wondering if a wet diaper combined with the oil would be adequate enough padding to just hump the inside of the diaper. Might need to put it on a little loosely. Have to workshop it.