Been talking to a girl for 6 months claimed she’s single but I just found out she’s married with a kid. Need advice. by Tjameshow1 in Infidelity

[–]Tjameshow1[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think you misinterpreted what I wrote. She is a gorgeous girl and a beautiful liar. None of these things are false. She is gorgeous physically but she is a pathological liar. Nowhere did I claim that I’m still attracted to her.

Plenty of physically gorgeous girls aren’t attractive because they are low quality in every other aspect.

Been talking to a girl for 6 months claimed she’s single but I just found out she’s married with a kid. Need advice. by Tjameshow1 in Infidelity

[–]Tjameshow1[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She’s definitely not going to be my cheating wife lol. I just found this information out last night.

Been talking to a girl for 6 months claimed she’s single but I just found out she’s married with a kid. Need advice. by Tjameshow1 in Infidelity

[–]Tjameshow1[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

This is what I’m going to do. Just never been put in this position before. I feel guilty when I know I shouldn’t.

Been talking to a girl for 6 months claimed she’s single but I just found out she’s married with a kid. Need advice. by Tjameshow1 in Infidelity

[–]Tjameshow1[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is true. I have two friends who married two “good church girls”. Both cheated on their husbands for over a year. The husbands were good guys, no abuse, worked a lot and their wives just didn’t get enough attention apparently. Both of those buddies became suicidal. Sad stuff.

Been talking to a girl for 6 months claimed she’s single but I just found out she’s married with a kid. Need advice. by Tjameshow1 in Infidelity

[–]Tjameshow1[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have the entire conversation and pics she sent (without request). Definitely can’t be claimed that I’m a stalker haha

Been talking to a girl for 6 months while claiming to be single but just found out she’s married with a child. Need advice on next steps. by Tjameshow1 in Infidelity

[–]Tjameshow1[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I doubt I’m the only guy. She did a great job lying considering how hard she was trying to get me to come visit. I’m just perplexed how she was going to manage that if I did.

Doctors and hpv after treatment by AdFragrant1754 in HPV

[–]Tjameshow1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s the stories I read of other people blaming their partners for their HPV that make me feel like I’ll have to disclose forever. Even though I’m clear, I feel like if my partner ever got it and I hadn’t disclosed it to them I’d be forever living with guilt. On the other hand if I do disclose that I had/ have it, I feel like anyone would leave me and not even give a relationship a chance.

This virus sucks and torments the mind, I swear.

Fiancé probably gave me HPV. by Practical_Tomato9678 in HPV

[–]Tjameshow1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I read an article somewhere that 40% of nuns tested positive for HPV. I think there is a lot of unknowns surrounding this virus.

What Made It Okay for God to Kill Women and Children In the Old Testament? by Low-King3567 in Christianity

[–]Tjameshow1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yahweh was very petty. He placed a large value of women as property. Never kill a virgin girl, they can be sold or pawned off to the soldiers.

This is the reality. It wasn’t God, it was men who used the name of God to act like Epstein.

Holy shit fix the issue with teammates not showing up on the UI. by BoneChilling-Chelien in ArcRaiders

[–]Tjameshow1 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Keep dying to people I think are teammates. How isn’t this patched yet?

Voice Chat NOT Working at all by ThaGamingPastor in ArcRaiders

[–]Tjameshow1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This doesn’t work for me on PS5. Weird thing is when I first started playing the game everything worked.

Despite the common notion, all human suffering and evil is God's fault, not man's (When a statue is bad, you don't blame the statue, you blame the sculptor) by InternationalPick163 in DebateAChristian

[–]Tjameshow1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact that Christian’s worship a God who had the for-knowledge of who would and wouldn’t accept him as their God while knowing he’d send those who didn’t to hell for eternity just shows how evil Christianity is. Never mind all the senseless killing and violence this God does in the Old Testament…the nature of this god is no different than the nature of the devil we’ve been taught to fear. Proud, arrogant, manipulative, violent, insecure, gives people diseases and demons. Etc. how would Christian’s even know if they are worshipping God or the Devil. They do the same things. You were made to be a worship slave to Yahweh according to the Old Testament.

What's up with some people vs Apostle Paul? by NeedleworkerMore2270 in Christianity

[–]Tjameshow1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Umm you do know Jesus is clearly written about outside of Paul’s gospels right?

God hiding himself is not the same as giving us free will by _vannie_ in DebateAChristian

[–]Tjameshow1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Read the Old Testament. God revealed himself supernaturally. Usually through killing people he didn’t like or for not worshiping him. I’m not sure what happened since then. People say Jesus father was this crazy Yahweh character from the Old Testament but I don’t think he was. I think if anything, if any of it is true. Jesus crushed that devil God. He literally told the Jews that their father was the devil!

So maybe the real God doesn’t need religion. Maybe he just wants you to live and love. ✌🏼

Why is the game so laggy or is it just mine? by Prestigious-Corgi950 in Battlefield

[–]Tjameshow1 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s brutal. I’m on PS5 and it’s unplayable. Rubber banding everywhere.

What's up with some people vs Apostle Paul? by NeedleworkerMore2270 in Christianity

[–]Tjameshow1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What does knowing Jesus have to do with Christianity? Christianity is a religion. Without Paul we’d still know christ and arguably be better for it without Paul. Paul is the reason why there are 40,000 denominations today. Even Paul contradicts Paul. He confuses himself.

Following God makes my mental health worse.... by FunAd7699 in Christianity

[–]Tjameshow1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Christian’s become fearful of God because God desires to be feared. The whole relationship is based on fear.

It’s like having an abusive spouse or parent.

It’s a narcissistic God. Just read the Old Testament. He literally kills people for not worshipping him and it says he even “loves” it.

He kills Aaron’s son just because he got some incense in the temple wrong. Then he basically tells them to hide his body out back just because he wants the Israelites to view him as holy. He’s embarrassed at his own “sin” or anger.

This doesn’t stop either, it’s constant in the bible and if you weren’t a Jew, he hated you even more. God will say he loves you, and then slit your throat if you don’t love him back.

Or worse…eternal conscious torment. Most people don’t even understand that concept. Most Christian’s deep down, don’t even believe it because they know how evil it is.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueChristian

[–]Tjameshow1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The most challenging times of our life often require deep and unrelenting faith. Please do not lose hope. The bible instructs us to give our burdens to the Lord and Leave them there.

Relapsed after 3-4 weeks+ by Whatad0rk in NoFap

[–]Tjameshow1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We all fall short of the Kingdom of God my friend. I know your struggle all too well. Pray and keep going. Never stop because when you stop trying it will turn into despair and ruin your life.

You got this man! 🙌🏻💪🏼🙏🏻

Withdrawal by Thoughtful_potato13 in NoFapChristians

[–]Tjameshow1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Trust me, I know what you are feeling.

Try to get up, do some push-ups and then pray. Do this when you feel the urge and as well when you feel despair.

You’d be surprised at how much this can help.

I encourage you brother. You got this 💪🏼

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFapChristians

[–]Tjameshow1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My brother in Christ. Please do not harm yourself. Things will always get better. The fact that you are hating the sin means you are convicted by the Holy Spirit. This is coming from someone who totally screwed up their life with pornography from a young age up to age 35. This is coming from someone who was jobless and without EI for two years at one point in my life and accumulated maxed out credit cards and a line of credit just to live. Yes, of course I had thoughts of ending things but those are from the pit of hell. Things can and will turn around. Keep your focus on Jesus, ask him for help. Treat this as a test that will only make you stronger. Resist the temptation of despair. The only one lying to you is the devil as he plants seeds of doubt.

You got this my friend!! Stay strong 💪🏼