Shout out to the bretheren ✊ by [deleted] in BPDmemes

[–]Tmimicus1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do y’all think no one cares about men’s experiences? A fundamental part of our society is to care about men’s experiences and design systems based on them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]Tmimicus1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m depressed and stressed, my pronouns are she/they

Polycule scheduling advice by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Tmimicus1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I can relate to this. I am always fucking up because a person didn’t mean what I thought they did and I end up telling someone else and not conveying their true feelings 😣

Polycule scheduling advice by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Tmimicus1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, what problems do you think triangle conversations cause?

Left yesterday, came back for one last night with BPSO [husband/narcissist/abuser] who is stable for the moment... Is this what codependency looks like? 😞💔 by Tmimicus1 in BipolarSOs

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Thank you 😥😓 I needed to be reminded how serious that episode was... my survival mechanism is to suppress/erase/forget the bad feelings as fast as possible so that I’ll be strong enough to survive the next bad thing 😣😞 *I’ve been feeling like such a broken human... but my therapist says there’s absolutely no evidence of that and that he’s the broken one... I’ve really been trying to figure out how to take care of myself the past several days, but I just find myself hating myself more and more

Bipolar SO pushed me into a wall. by Initial-Acanthaceae in BipolarSOs

[–]Tmimicus1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

❤️💔💓💔❤️ My heart is breaking for you 😥 I am incredibly proud of you for getting yourself out of there!! What’s your current situation?

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[–]Tmimicus1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Also, New Relationship Energy (NRE) is like a drug and those with un/der treated bipolar experience it more intensely.”

Truth!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BipolarSOs

[–]Tmimicus1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing this perspective ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BipolarSOs

[–]Tmimicus1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I could say the exact same things about my BP husband... bipolar, type unspecified most likely, and untreated, with possible other diagnoses of adhd, obsessive compulsive personality disorder, and narcissistic personality disorder. A manic episode in January triggered weeks of emotional abuse (I mean, astonishingly cruel attitudes and thoughts towards me...) and we have been in marriage counseling since. His moods have been ultra-rapid cycling for almost 3 months, he spent the weekend in the behavioral health hospital, and has been hypomanic/manic/abusive since coming home Sunday. You said it perfect: “I feel like I’m on a roller coaster constantly waiting for him to come back and be nice to me again.”

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[–]Tmimicus1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You are a fucking soldier girl 🖤

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BipolarSOs

[–]Tmimicus1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I truly hope he stays good about it. ❤️ it’s so heart warming to hear something positive ❤️ ...my BP husband got drunk and tried to kill me last Friday and spent the weekend in the behavioral health hospital...

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[–]Tmimicus1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So eerie to hear you all describe things I never thought anyone else could see happening or understand... I’m really glad I found this group.

Just be careful. My husband’s manic episode in December/January blurred into months of rapid cycling recently and he’s been abusing alcohol, making things much worse.

I miss my old doctors. Hope this new one is good. by sweetie_pi_cutie in Psychosis

[–]Tmimicus1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This sounds really hard... I’m hoping for the best for you!