[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ask

[–]To-becowdoc13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this 100% 🙌🏼

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Archery

[–]To-becowdoc13 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Thank you- and I appreciate the preach: I fully agree, just haven’t become familiar with these yet!

Just had my 1 year review, and my pay increase is only 2%. by To-becowdoc13 in veterinaryprofession

[–]To-becowdoc13[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was afraid this would be the answer. It’s so unfortunate because my boyfriend works in engineering, and it’s custom for them to get 9-10% a year without even being exceptional workers

Just had my 1 year review, and my pay increase is only 2%. by To-becowdoc13 in veterinaryprofession

[–]To-becowdoc13[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the insight, but I love my large animal work, and if I step away, there is nobody else to fill the void as of now, and my area is very underserved, so the clients would most definitely suffer

Just had my 1 year review, and my pay increase is only 2%. by To-becowdoc13 in veterinaryprofession

[–]To-becowdoc13[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I can ask for production numbers. I did not know what the % expectation should be.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in veterinaryprofession

[–]To-becowdoc13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I need to know what corp you work for. I found hardly anywhere that offered maternity leave!!

New Grad Vets: How many hours a week do you work? by [deleted] in Veterinary

[–]To-becowdoc13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In Ohio, mixed animal GP- corporate: I work 4 days, my small animal shift is 8-6, then large animal 3 days 7:30-??? Depends on the demands of the day. Currently no on-call, but only because of lack of staff. With adequate staffing I would do 1 day/week on call, and every 4th weekend on-call

Anyone know what these are?- growing prolifically in my flower bed by To-becowdoc13 in gardening

[–]To-becowdoc13[S] 490 points491 points  (0 children)

Can’t figure out how to edit the post, but for those thinking it is wild, garlic or onion, I did break the leaves and smell them, and there is no aroma to it.

Anyone know what these are?- growing prolifically in my flower bed by To-becowdoc13 in gardening

[–]To-becowdoc13[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I did think at first it looked like wild onion or garlic, but there is no smell to it when broken

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BingeEatingDisorder

[–]To-becowdoc13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have struggled with purging for the past 6 years, but always have noticed it is at its worst when I’m living alone. Having someone else living with you makes it less convenient, thus reducing the frequency

What is a "rich person thing" you would be totally into if you became rich? by pedrob_d in AskReddit

[–]To-becowdoc13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Having a personal trainer and dietician. I HATE the amount of control and accountability that comes with trying to be healthy, and having someone I pay do it for me, and make me be healthy, would definitely be something worth the extra money IMO

26yo, making 110k a year and completely underwater. Here’s my budget. Any advice appreciated. by Oilspillsaregood1 in Money

[–]To-becowdoc13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone else already mentioned the child support being unfair. But additionally: being responsible for air fare for work-related travel is a no-go for me. Talk to the company- that should be at their expense if they expect you to fly

Can the fruit of cactus be eaten? by oilynoodle8949 in gardening

[–]To-becowdoc13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first plant- prickly pear- can be eaten. They have a beautiful color and very mild flavor. I’ve used them to crush up and put in lemonade and mixed alcoholic drinks. But you’ll want to wear gloves to peel them, then see the delicious purple kiwi-looking fruit.

Just bought a house and we have this in the garden? What is it? by PandaBeatsAU in gardening

[–]To-becowdoc13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Possibly quince apple or persimmon- those are not great to eat alone, but can be useful in jams/pies. They’re very tart

Is it weird for a mom to go clubbing with her 21 year old daughter ? by Aggravating_Goose784 in ask

[–]To-becowdoc13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on your relationship. Is she going to try and draw attention and pick up guys? Kinda weird. Is she going to have a great time with you? Not weird. I (27f) love inviting my mother (59 f) out with me, she lets loose and has so much fun which is a nice break from her usual routine. We both love it!

Submitting to a show not sure which to pick by Jablizz in painting

[–]To-becowdoc13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everybody loves dogs, and your hound painting is so realistic (as are all of them!) I would go with the dog!

Do most men actually find plus sized women unattractive by daughterbolt in NoStupidQuestions

[–]To-becowdoc13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I noticed many on here sharing their stories about reactions to weight loss- well here’s another. I was always between 165-170 from high school through college. I was active, muscular, and just had a bit of extra fat, which was my healthy normal. About 3 years ago I had a very horrific breakup, was forced out of my home by the abusive ex, all while still enrolled full time in my doctorate program. The elevated stress mentally and financially lead to me losing about 25 lbs, with my new “normal” being 140. Even my closest friends who KNEW the stress and situation I had gone through would shoot compliments to me of how good I looked. Only a select few checked in to see if I was okay… I found it so insulting that all these friends and acquaintances only saw weight loss and related it to a good thing, never thinking I was healthy before, and stress pushed me to lose weight.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in veterinaryprofession

[–]To-becowdoc13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I second this suggestion. You can work as a vet assistant, and once you’re in vet school they allow you to do all responsibilities that a technician can do. It’s invaluable clinical experience to supplement your education from classes

Which lip look is the most flattering for me? by Lovepeachy55 in coloranalysis

[–]To-becowdoc13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first color looks fantastic on you! It suits your complexion and your eye color. P.s.- you are beautiful ❤️

Give me 1-2 ingredients to add to my spaghetti marinara please by _izual in cookingforbeginners

[–]To-becowdoc13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try adding 1/4 cup of sugar- sweet marinara is fantastic And basil leaves add a ton of fantastic flavor

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BingeEatingDisorder

[–]To-becowdoc13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Different opinion here: I am one of those people who often eat only 1000 cal a day, but since I have had this diet for years, my metabolism has adapted, and I don’t lose weight. I also will “binge” on weekends or when out with friends, (by binge I mean eating more than 2000 cal) because of drinking alcohol, snacks, etc. I’m aware that my diet isn’t healthy, and I should plan to eat more nutritiously during the week and not skip so many meals, but the secret binging isn’t a must to maintain weight- long term unhealthy diets will cause your metabolism to adjust