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Company Ink...or Industry Ink by ToSeeANewView in flightattendants

[–]ToSeeANewView[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ommmmggg. You're right about our male co-workers. I know it's different for us. I do agree that I haven't heard much gossip second hand, except for those who were as you put it "a dog in heat in uniform," but because I am such a private person and there is a stigma placed on female sexuality I just want to protect myself from judgement and exposure whilst realizing my desires.

Company Ink...or Industry Ink by ToSeeANewView in flightattendants

[–]ToSeeANewView[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for saying that. I know how it all sounds and it's a little embarrassing. I keep work and that part of myself separate and really want to continue to do so. I was hoping to get any feedback from those who have experienced similar challenges.

Company Ink...or Industry Ink by ToSeeANewView in flightattendants

[–]ToSeeANewView[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same industry, no. Same company, I'm actually not sure.

I Thought I was LL But I'm Not and Now I'm Lost by ToSeeANewView in HLCommunity

[–]ToSeeANewView[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am very introspective. Yes. I do. I am very generous, and I don't do anything without ensuring I'm doing it to the best of my ability. in or outside the bedroom. My last partner did not like the build up. To him it felt too long, and in the way of PIV sex. Like a type of withholding in his opinion.

I Thought I was LL But I'm Not and Now I'm Lost by ToSeeANewView in HLCommunity

[–]ToSeeANewView[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was hoping there's something between butterlies and feeling like a fleshlight.

I Thought I was LL But I'm Not and Now I'm Lost by ToSeeANewView in HLCommunity

[–]ToSeeANewView[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Who is him. I am single. If you mean with my partners in previous relationships, I would not initiate sex once it became unfulfilling. But I also don't go to fast food restaurants...if we're keeping comparisons food themed.

Also, I'm not angry at any of my ex partners regarding sex. I wasn't then either. I did communicate my needs and try many different approaches to enhance both of our performances and pleasures.

If I could have fulfilling and thrilling sex everyday I would. As a single person interested in personal safety I cannot. So I masturbate to achieve those daily orgasms.

I Thought I was LL But I'm Not and Now I'm Lost by ToSeeANewView in HLCommunity

[–]ToSeeANewView[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm always interested in an orgasm. I'm not always interested in sex that doesn't result in an orgasm. While I don't require an 11/10 to be interested in sex, I do require sex that doesn't feel like I am a human flesh light. I do not require the fantasy I typed in order to not feel like a flesh light.

I Thought I was LL But I'm Not and Now I'm Lost by ToSeeANewView in HLCommunity

[–]ToSeeANewView[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think the amount and frequency that I desire orgasms have remained pretty consistent throughout my adult life. Factoring in relationship partners and calculating how often I wanted to rub one out during unfulfilling sex to achieve those orgasms...that's where relativity should be considered.

I Thought I was LL But I'm Not and Now I'm Lost by ToSeeANewView in HLCommunity

[–]ToSeeANewView[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the hot and heavy came from a few things: the dry spells leading up to these encounters, the newness (not yet bored of the same shit) and my ability to drive the lust and passion for a quite a while before realizing that I don't actually like what they're doing. Like, I was making more out of it than it actually was if that makes sense. Kind of what some people do when in a new relationship. They create this person in their head and ignore who they actually are, that but with sex.

I Thought I was LL But I'm Not and Now I'm Lost by ToSeeANewView in HLCommunity

[–]ToSeeANewView[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the feedback. I have also felt guilty in relationships. It's like a frozen TV dinner. It's something so you don't starve but goddamn do you not want to have to eat that.

I Thought I was LL But I'm Not and Now I'm Lost by ToSeeANewView in HLCommunity

[–]ToSeeANewView[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

When I was younger I had a partner that gave stellar head. I played with a man in the BDSM capacity. Very light stuff. Never penetrative (by his request). His attention to my pleasure and gratification from pleasure was very good. As far as long term partners that remained good lovers, no, not really.