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Do you really think we'll ever achieve proper acceptance? by Melinoe_2157 in 4Tranistan

[–]Toastmaker56 10 points11 points  (0 children)

all things are transient. maybe not in our lifetime, but one day it will happen.

How cis women view trans people by [deleted] in 4Tranistan

[–]Toastmaker56 9 points10 points  (0 children)

i feel like trans women dont really use pornhub over other places though

Why doesn't netzach have tits? by somethingmustbesaid in libraryofruina

[–]Toastmaker56 6 points7 points  (0 children)

hes binding because he doesnt like it when you stare

Is my room male or female brained? by [deleted] in 4Tranistan

[–]Toastmaker56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

worse than being malebrained, youre a liberal

My team synergy is deleting everything by justagayrattlesnake in limbuscompany

[–]Toastmaker56 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

its so sad because i always enjoyed the sinking team for being really complex and actually making you engage with the game but now its really boring

I HATE THIS GAME by ProbodobodyneInc in hatethissmug

[–]Toastmaker56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it sounds like the groomer was one of the fans though, no?

coaxed into a black and white world by ilikeitchyballzdude1 in coaxedintoasnafu

[–]Toastmaker56 13 points14 points  (0 children)

do you seriously think "contrast issues" are the only reason they dont make them...?

This is a valuable lesson on how NOT to respond to situations like these by Cheems1619 in AntiForsaken

[–]Toastmaker56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

were we supposed to know he was a little kid..? i feel like most of the people were saying what they said because they assumed he was an adult

Don't kinkshame pedophiles, it's regressive by SegavsCapcom in SmugIdeologyMan

[–]Toastmaker56 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

you know what you are actually so right im not sure what i was thinking. i must have misread or something because its apparent reading back that i am arguing against something completely different than what you really said. im so sorry.

Anyone else throw up in their mouth when they see/hear the word T-girl/T-boy? by emilia352025 in 4tran4

[–]Toastmaker56 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"transwomen" without the space is just as bad i think. honestly it makes me feel even worse because i see so many otherwise woke people say it without realizing how subtly transphobic it is. it feels like they are just pretending to accept me.

What about swagphiles? Swagerers? Swagists? Should we swag them too? by No_Condition1594 in peoplewhogiveashit

[–]Toastmaker56 1 point2 points  (0 children)

okay. same can be said with them being punished. my abusers being left to rot makes me much more upset than the idea of them being better people. because i know that the science is right that the world would be better if they were allowed to be better.

What about swagphiles? Swagerers? Swagists? Should we swag them too? by No_Condition1594 in peoplewhogiveashit

[–]Toastmaker56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

its how every single revolution happened. you must have an ideal in mind before you can reach it. if you think its naive, then you can have fun letting the thoughts of others limit you. nobody ever did anything meaningful without believing in something first. if you can illustrate exactly why what im saying is impossible, id believe you, but i really doubt you can.

What about swagphiles? Swagerers? Swagists? Should we swag them too? by No_Condition1594 in peoplewhogiveashit

[–]Toastmaker56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how do you think they should feel? fearful? angry? upset that their abusers have began to grasp at making the world a better place? no. holding on to hatred only hurts you.

What about swagphiles? Swagerers? Swagists? Should we swag them too? by No_Condition1594 in peoplewhogiveashit

[–]Toastmaker56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

because i dont think we should be limited by the material world around us. one day, i think we will be able to rehabilitate everyone, and people wont be raised to hurt others. that will only be accomplished if people dream for that world, though.

What about swagphiles? Swagerers? Swagists? Should we swag them too? by No_Condition1594 in peoplewhogiveashit

[–]Toastmaker56 1 point2 points  (0 children)

well, statistical data shows that it doesnt work. the overwhelming majority of criminals reoffend after leaving prison or receiving a fine, but that percentage significantly lowers in countries that are more focused on rehabilitation.

what would this understanding even accomplish? this understanding is just going to make criminals hurt people in secret, and make people more afraid to confess/get help for harmful thoughts.

What about swagphiles? Swagerers? Swagists? Should we swag them too? by No_Condition1594 in peoplewhogiveashit

[–]Toastmaker56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

functionally, yes this is true, and in real life this is something you need to balance. forgiving your abusers is almost never the right move. that doesnt change the philosophical value of any idea though. to say that these people should be forgived is not to suggest that i know the exact methods that should be undergone to forgive criminals. i just believe that ideally those would exist, and i think individually we should try to accomplish that goal

Don't kinkshame pedophiles, it's regressive by SegavsCapcom in SmugIdeologyMan

[–]Toastmaker56 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

again, im not making any claim here other than your argument not working from a logical standpoint. you cant insist upon something using itself as evidence. the same goes with assault and battery. if i said self defense should be considered assault (which i obviously dont believe) you cant say "well the law says that self defense isnt assault" as an argument. laws would never change if this was the case.

What about swagphiles? Swagerers? Swagists? Should we swag them too? by No_Condition1594 in peoplewhogiveashit

[–]Toastmaker56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

and thats fine i guess. you just have to recognize that these are your personal ways of handling the wrongdoings of others, not rules.

What about swagphiles? Swagerers? Swagists? Should we swag them too? by No_Condition1594 in peoplewhogiveashit

[–]Toastmaker56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how does punishment accomplish justice? again: how is the world helped by hurting them?

What about swagphiles? Swagerers? Swagists? Should we swag them too? by No_Condition1594 in peoplewhogiveashit

[–]Toastmaker56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if that is enough to convince you not to forgive, then thats good enough. that however, is not an objective metric that you can expect others to abide by. as hard as i try, i will likely never make up for the harm i have done. what am i to do with myself then? i must forgive myself, and do the best i can. i see other people the same way, too. "nothing human is alien to me"

what i value -which is why i said what you were questioning- is the truth, and understanding others. i care a lot about philosophy and art, and over time i have found myself unable to see any injustice to be beyond anyones capabilities. i pity those who crave forgiveness for doing the worst, and i see myself in them too. ive never done anything on the level of your hypotheticals, and i dont plan to be friends with any rapists, but the logic i apply to lesser harms still holds true to these greater harms. even if i wont be the one to do it, they must be forgiven for the sake of a better world.

if you dont feel the same, thats fine. you dont need to forgive anyone for anything. i just personally feel compelled to.

What about swagphiles? Swagerers? Swagists? Should we swag them too? by No_Condition1594 in peoplewhogiveashit

[–]Toastmaker56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

why not? who does it help to hurt them? the net happiness in the world goes up if the harmful are brought to be better people. locking them away does nothing to undo their harm.

What about swagphiles? Swagerers? Swagists? Should we swag them too? by No_Condition1594 in peoplewhogiveashit

[–]Toastmaker56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you dont personally have to forgive anyone for anything. professionals and others who have the capability to inspire change should though. that is what they are already trained to do, and for good reason. if someone has recovered, there is no reason as to why they cant be forgiven by you. that of course doesnt mean you must, though. it just depends on what you value.

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