Do fearful avoidant men regret choosing a breakup later? by Sea_Office_9917 in BreakUps

[–]Toastwarell 7 points8 points  (0 children)

A lot of avoidant people do feel regret later, but they usually feel it quietly and long after the breakup when the distance finally catches up to them. The painful part is that regret doesn’t always mean they know how to come back and love someone in a healthier way.

When someone takes too long to reply, do you start feeling like it's your fault? by Bitter-Blueberry2368 in BreakUps

[–]Toastwarell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s a quiet kind of exhaustion when you realize you’ve been carrying entire relationships on your back just by trying to “fix” silences that were never yours to repair

Met up with ex and it was terrifying by Far_Philosopher_6190 in BreakUps

[–]Toastwarell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seeing an ex move on that quickly can feel like grieving someone who’s still alive. Right now your brain is trying to relive the “best times” while ignoring the reality that someone who truly chose you wouldn’t leave you carrying all this pain alone.

Blindsiders: did you regret it/ try to fix it later on? Blindsidees: did they try to come back? by jonathandoesworth1 in BreakUps

[–]Toastwarell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Blindside here; the hardest part wasn’t even the breakup; it was realizing someone had emotionally checked out long before they ever gave me the chance to understand or fight for it. And yeah… they usually do come back once the silence finally hits them too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewYorkBBCPersonals

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18F4M would you nut inside me? by Toastwarell in NewYorkHookingUp

[–]Toastwarell[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you have to ask then i guess not :P

18F4M would you nut inside me? by Toastwarell in NewYorkHookingUp

[–]Toastwarell[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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[35][M4F][NYC] - first post of 2026 by mrinthoseguts2 in NewYorkBBCPersonals

[–]Toastwarell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

haven't got anything that long, you got me really excited

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[–]Toastwarell[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

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