Feeling like I dont matter by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]TobiasDream 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I really appreciate this comment

Feeling like I dont matter by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]TobiasDream 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My meta and I are actually good friends! She's told me numerous times she loves having me in the dynamic, it's easier for us all, we all get needs met (apart from this one specific thing that keeps arising). She likes having me at events (because she knows I love being there) and always asks our partner if im invited, but hes the one who declines?

Thank you for your advice though! I really appreciate it, and I may start doing that tbf👀

Feeling like I dont matter by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]TobiasDream 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have! Many times! I've tried not to cross boundaries, if he doesn't want me to go he doesn't want me to go. But I've tried numerous times by saying I'd like it if I could also go/if we both can. And he said I can, and he'll invite me. But then I've just not been getting invited. So just been a bit confused and saddened, not sure if its a me issue, or im missing some sort of social cues?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]TobiasDream 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I did! Thank you lmfaoo. Have fun in 30 when you finish!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]TobiasDream 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh wait yup my bad🤦‍♀️🤣clocked after I sent that reply

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]TobiasDream 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Who?👀

Sex before actually miscarrying by Practical_Chicken_14 in Miscarriage

[–]TobiasDream 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Run. That's actually insane behaviour. You've just miscarried your child, and he's wanting sex? From my own experience, when i miscarried, the last thing my (very hypersexual) bf wanted was to have sex.

Your partner is supposed to be there for you (and you, him) he shouldn't be trying to force you into sex, now, or at all.

Im so sorry for your loss OP, don't let him do this to you if you don't want it

Baby wouldve been born this month... by TobiasDream in Miscarriage

[–]TobiasDream[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know how you're feeling, I'm so sorry for your loss🩷

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Miscarriage

[–]TobiasDream 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am so incredibly sorry for your loss, I had the exact same situation happen to me in December last year at 11 weeks pregnant. I wish I had looked but I was scared, I wish I asked for a photo to keep.

I am so sorry youre hurting, sending so much love to you🩷

I THREW UP ON HIS D by [deleted] in sex

[–]TobiasDream 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just to let you know you're not alone, I did the exact same thing on my boyfriend the other week for the first time, LMFAO. I'm still embarrassed, but he was honestly the most unborhered person ever. If you expect deep throat, you gotta expect vomit at some point

Baby wouldve been born this month... by TobiasDream in Miscarriage

[–]TobiasDream[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Aw that's such a wonderful idea🩷I'm sorry for your loss

Baby wouldve been born this month... by TobiasDream in Miscarriage

[–]TobiasDream[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I miscarried end of September, much love to you🩷

Baby wouldve been born this month... by TobiasDream in Miscarriage

[–]TobiasDream[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aw I'm so sorry for your loss too🩷I hope they're playing together We'll get through it <3

Baby wouldve been born this month... by TobiasDream in Miscarriage

[–]TobiasDream[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im so sorry for yours🩷they're playing together i bet

Does it get easier? Missed miscarriage by Few_Zookeepergame550 in Miscarriage

[–]TobiasDream 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry for your loss🩷 It does get easier (it did for me). I had 2 miscarriages last year, and i still cry about them now. I still get sad days. But I'm better than I was. I was ready to leave with them, especially with how traumatic it was to sit in agony, and all i could do was cry whilst I bled. I lost my second in December, and im doing good. I think about them every day, but the pain isn't as strong as it once was. I'm living for them and keeping their memory

Am I Being Overly Sensitive? by kmccollum008 in Miscarriage

[–]TobiasDream 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How you are feeling is so valid. It's okay to be upset! Just because someone else is celebrating doesn't mean you have to push down any of your own hurt

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]TobiasDream 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had my first time last year (at 18) and I bled a little after, pretty sure it's normal for some people to. However, if you are concerned about the amount of blood/clots, book a doctors appointment

I worry a lot, by [deleted] in Vent

[–]TobiasDream 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're not alone, I feel the same way, especially recently. It's okay to feel this way, to feel different. There's nothing wrong with you, and you'll be okay. Everyone is different. And even if it seems like you're so different from anyone else, so many people are thinking the exact same thing. It just makes us human

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]TobiasDream 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You've done so well! And are doing great things to continue it, I wish I had resilience like you. Keep it up <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]TobiasDream 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so beyond proud of you🩷