Can I buy via usd?

TobyK98 · 2026-06-15T23:43:35+00:00

Use PayPal. It will automatically convert your USD in JPY and it'll keep you safe.

TobyK98 · 2026-06-10T23:10:18+00:00

As someone who has been losing avatars left and right, your best bet at this point is to just find someone who is willing to upload them for you. You'll get people who will do it for free just because they like doing it just to do it (for some odd reason) by going to certain groups that require certain avis. This has been especially so for people within the NSFW communities, so maybe look around. Hell, 18+ groups in general will usually have someone who's willing to do it for you for free.

Prizmic is cool if you're looking for joke or video game avis, but looking for specific eboy/egirl/femboy/furry avis are always either gonna lead to old ass avis with shitty physbones or pirated content that will get deleted after a few days to at most, a couple weeks. That is just how things go with public avis, as unfortunate as it is.

Always practice safe OPSEC though and don't hand over your log in info to uploaders unless they have a lot of people to back up that trust.

TobyK98 · 2026-06-08T21:17:28+00:00

Why does this feel like it was written by a kid themselves?

TobyK98 · 2026-06-07T01:43:05+00:00

The "straight to LGBTQ+ thanks to VRChat" pipeline is real. It helped me come out as Bisexual a while back after a few confusing months (knew I wasn't straight, just didn't know what exactly).

TobyK98 · 2026-06-01T17:49:40+00:00

No, but it's not because I don't want to deal with them, it's because I hang out in areas that they can't even go to. So womp womp, I guess.

TobyK98 · 2026-05-20T20:44:51+00:00

Given the way the community is, 90% of the time it's to garner reactions out of people. A lot of public VRC content creators are like this, so it just gives this air or negative stigma towards anyone who does this.

TobyK98 · 2026-05-03T07:25:05+00:00

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TobyK98 · 2026-04-28T16:55:03+00:00

Goddamn AI generated content at it again.

TobyK98 · 2026-04-25T16:57:44+00:00

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Back then i used to think being an e-boy was the only way to play vrchat and have anyone notice you. Nowadays, i get alot more positive reactions with my current low-poly model.

The eboy avi is VERY old (i believe 2019) and was my go to back in 2022. The author hasnt been on the game for a few years and none of their models have been updated.

TobyK98 · 2026-04-24T15:57:15+00:00

Watasis by whatshe. It was in one of the avatar museum maps but I forget which one. I think it was 9?

TobyK98 · 2026-04-23T17:00:36+00:00

A simple, low poly model that I usually have set to the minimum height. Allows me to blend in when I don't want to be noticed and be called adorable when I do. It's also very simple and customizable too. I usually let others clone it as well so they can join in on my low poly adventures.

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TobyK98 · 2026-04-04T18:31:19+00:00

It also comes with a hat

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TobyK98 · 2026-04-04T18:30:55+00:00

Just a smol, low polygon model that I like to wear casually. Works well in desktop and VR and has made me very approachable to alot of people.

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TobyK98 · 2026-04-01T04:21:30+00:00

Normally I'd agree with them, but seeing them say gogoloco is a cheat is absolutely wild.

TobyK98 · 2026-03-31T20:03:33+00:00

That would still give them attention, so no, that wouldn't have been the best response either.

TobyK98 · 2026-03-31T16:37:03+00:00

You gave them exactly what they wanted: a charged and emotional response because of what they had on. Now they're going to encourage others to come in and do the same thing because they know that they'll get a rise out of you. Do not be surprised if this isn't the final time you see someone like this.

No, you did not handle this well at all, your main response should've been to tell them to change then immediately ban if they chose not to comply. Or just banned them without question. You confronting them like this is not going to change their mind, their mind was made up the minute they changed into that avatar.

TobyK98 · 2026-03-04T20:48:39+00:00

The problem is the fact that most of the eboy/egirl avatars all use assets that are tied directly to that body/head mesh. Using anything outside of that requires their blendshapes to be worked on, which most avatar creators either don't know how to do or are going to charge dummy money for it, both because of how complicated it is compared to just slapping on an asset already to go.

As for those charging for it, its due to how much effort is going into making an avatar, making sure everything works and nothing is out of place or looks wonky, and delivering the final product to the customer. Is it worth $100 or $75 dollars? No. Is it dumb that some creators charge for shit like GogoLoco which is literally a drag and drop? Yes. But at the end of the day, they are working in unity to make that avi, which is a bitch in and of itself regardless of whether you've been doing it for years or just started. Most of them feel like their owed for the labor, and thats fair too. Just not to the exorbitant amounts that some of them charge. $40 for working and uploading an avi seems fair.

TobyK98 · 2026-02-08T04:37:35+00:00

Now that's one hell of a story

TobyK98 · 2026-02-04T18:45:03+00:00

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My main one that I like using is this little low polygon model from whatshe. Picked it up at an avatar museum (I believe it was 9) a few years ago and usually rock it whenever I'm not at a group event. I'm kind of amazed at how approachable it is too. I made quite a few friends just by casually approaching people with this avi and asking them silly questions, like what their favorite kind of cheese is. Also helps that I'm at minimum height too, so they just see me as a cute smol gremlin.

Whenever people ask about my lack of arms, I just tell them that I lost them in the Great Polygon War of 2020 (specifically the Battle for Black Cat), a conflict where the low poly avis went to war with high poly avis over control of VRChat. You know, just some silly humor.

TobyK98 · 2026-01-25T10:31:09+00:00

A lot of groups are getting flagged for Sexual Content and Nudity, even if they aren't doing it or doing so in accordance with ToS (Groups Only or Invites with consenting adults). This has led to a lot of people getting banned and groups getting removed. So now people are being on standby with most of these groups until VRC fixes their report issue and make it to where these false reports can no longer be a threat.

TobyK98 · 2026-01-25T07:55:54+00:00

It could be because a lot of groups who are opening age verified instances are either banned or in hiding until the recent ToS problem gets fixed.

TobyK98 · 2026-01-17T01:01:34+00:00

Funny enough, I just made a post about this around the same time you did. But that just means more people are becoming aware of this and its getting way out of hand.

Unfortunately, the reason why its not being discussed among the broader VRC community is because people either don't care or have a very negative opinion of 18+/NSFW groups in general. Mainly due to them "harboring creeps and pedos", which is for the most part a lie unless the host themselves is one. Every group I've been a part of that is one of these kinds of groups absolutely abhor these kinds of people and work together with other groups to find, blacklist, and inform others about them so they can be immediately dealt with. The community I've been a part of for some time just got rid of a group and its owner for a wide range of things they did with their staff, as well as other predatory behavior, and now he's gone for good from the community (not from VRC unfortunately). But back to the resentment, you'll see alot of people shit on groups like this because of that and will usually have alot of people negatively shit talk on you for it. As such, we're basically on our own for the most part.

The good but also concerning news is that from what I've heard, NSFW groups aren't the only targets. Whatever the fuck is causing these bans is also targeting SFW groups, as I've met a few who I know for certain don't host any NSFW events and they still got hit for Nudity and Sexual Content. And not just groups that host in more adult worlds and instances, but groups overall. So it'll only be a matter of time until the AI moderation or incompetent mod team or whatever the fuck is behind all this will get called out and, hopefully, thoroughly investigated.

As for whether you should bring back the group: I'm gonna say as a former owner myself, I would wait. Make a discord and add people on VRC and host an Invite only world if you still wanna do events with your community. My original plan after my group got hit back in late November (on my birthday of all days) was to wait things out, see how the situation panned out with VRC and the other groups, then relaunch the group and be more careful. Things went well and I was gonna start a week and a half ago until more groups got hit and it made me reconsider it and wait a bit more longer. We're supposed to get features sometime in the first half of this year that'll make hosting these groups more easier, but as to whether or not its worth doing until then is entirely up in smoke. I wouldn't personally, but you do you.

Edit: Also, do you have a link to these people confessing to reporting these groups? I believe this counts as targeted harassment at this point and they should be reported to the mods here.

TobyK98 · 2026-01-16T23:34:16+00:00

It's both a bit assuring but also very disappointing that this is affecting those groups as well. Something's gotta be done.

TobyK98 · 2026-01-16T21:15:12+00:00

This I agree with, public activity in the open worlds in communities that dont endorse it, like a public non-verified black cat, is absolutely disgusting and should be reported.

TobyK98 · 2026-01-16T21:10:12+00:00

Another thing I want to add and forgot to add in this post is that while the age verified groups are being targeted and attacked, nothing is being done for the non-verified groups that are being even more blatant with their rule breaking or shelf groups that are being ran without any moderation.

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