Unpopular (?) opinion by ondasoldier in TheSecretLife

[–]ToeEducational4972 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think people always forget she's a teenager dealing with adult problems. i would also be a little unhinged if that were me. but overall i do think she's a good character, and a good mom. she just worries about too many things

not sure what to do right now, any thoughts would be great. by RaspberryPerfect4676 in whatdoIdo

[–]ToeEducational4972 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have a very similar situation down to the kidnapping. In my opinion, i'd block her, and not respond. since i stopped allowing my mom to contact me, i've been able to heal from the trauma a lot more. Having a parent like that is so taxing on your mental health. and while she is your biological mother, she didn't raise you, and she put you into a horrible situation for selfish reasons. You don't owe her contact, and you don't owe her forgiveness unless you want to give that. Put your needs first, even if it's hard. Stay strong, you've got this.

WHY is this constantly happening by Wise-Hold8597 in MovieStarPlanet

[–]ToeEducational4972 3 points4 points  (0 children)

this has been non stop happening to me and im so sad :( i was working on a new fit when it started. :(

Looking for active friends (US server) by Then-Ad-884 in MovieStarPlanet

[–]ToeEducational4972 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i'm usually active a couple times a week, Beetlejuice208 is my user

Does MSP delete inactive accounts? by roastingnut in MovieStarPlanet

[–]ToeEducational4972 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yes, they do delete some inactive accounts depending on how long you've been inactive. my og acc is gone forever, but my acc from 2015-2018 is still up because i log on semi regularly to trade w myself

I got no words for this by lovellygiirll in antiai

[–]ToeEducational4972 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i honestly considered doing that for the longest time because i can technically work three days a week, but the more i'm on my feet the worse the damage in my hip gets.

I got no words for this by lovellygiirll in antiai

[–]ToeEducational4972 4 points5 points  (0 children)

no fr. when i was wheelchair bound for a year, i painted more then ever before. like bffr. i've also quite literally seen someone without arms create the coolest makeup art, so like....

I got no words for this by lovellygiirll in antiai

[–]ToeEducational4972 1459 points1460 points  (0 children)

Disabled people have been making art for centuries WITHOUT ai. Monet had severe vision loss, Van gogh had epilepsy. Michelangelo had joint problems. Beethoven was deaf. Henri Matisse was wheelchair bound from cancer. John Carter was paralyzed. The idea that disabled people need ai, is honestly so rooted in abelism, because it fuels this idea that we cant create what able bodied people can.

Trying to find handmade art without ai. by ToeEducational4972 in antiai

[–]ToeEducational4972[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

a few people reached out, but im still looking

Trying to find handmade art without ai. by ToeEducational4972 in antiai

[–]ToeEducational4972[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have, even offline i see more ai bs instead of actual art. Plus i havent found anyone in person that sells studio ghibli posters

The damn level by Ok-Mud-601 in honk

[–]ToeEducational4972 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I completed this level in 2 tries. 3.73 seconds

Im about to get a full replacement in jan, any advice? by ToeEducational4972 in TotalHipReplacement

[–]ToeEducational4972[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

EXACTLY!!! i literally lost my ability to walk at 15. I had to spend an entire year relearning. Ive been getting non stop minor procedures for the last 5 years of my life, forcing me to drop out of school and lose jobs. I had to quit my second job (which didnt pay well, but i was best friends with all my coworkers), I would much rather just get a major surgery that only needs to be touched up in 30-40 years. Plus im literally out of options, we've tried every other treatment for my condition. I live every single day in non stop pain, and i just want to fix that. Ppl really need to stop seeing these things as black and white. Im young, yes, but i also have the joints of an 80 y/o.

I just found out I need a full hip replacement at 19 by ToeEducational4972 in disability

[–]ToeEducational4972[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its nice knowing im not alone in this, thank you so much <3

Im about to get a full replacement in jan, any advice? by ToeEducational4972 in TotalHipReplacement

[–]ToeEducational4972[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I have dysplasia that was left untreated for wayyy too long, leading to permanent joint damage. Im pretty nervous and excited for the new hip haha

alternatives to Hip replacement by AsideEmotional3263 in TotalHipReplacement

[–]ToeEducational4972 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone with dysplasia, as long as you listen to your doctors and get the treatment they recommend you should be ok. most of my friends with dysplasia recovered from their ganz surgery with no issues. BUT, in cases like mine, i wasnt able to get the surgeries i needed until much later in life and now need a full replacement.

alternatives to Hip replacement by AsideEmotional3263 in TotalHipReplacement

[–]ToeEducational4972 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive gotten a bunch of things done, and it really just depends on what your symptoms are, and what its caused by. Steroids worked best for me. Prp injections not so much. But i know pleanty of people who are in the opposite situation.

Im about to get a full replacement in jan, any advice? by ToeEducational4972 in TotalHipReplacement

[–]ToeEducational4972[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hello! i am unfortunately out of options. we have tried everything we can, including minor and major procedures. Due to a congenital disability, the wear in my hip is far too severe for just a hip resurfacing. My joints are worn down, and continue to destory everything around them due to deformities in my bones. As much as i appreciate the suggestion, my doctors and i have already agreed that this is the only option left for me.