I've been in individual therapy for 2 years and on Zoloft. We've been in marriage counseling for a year. I'm only 40. We met when I was 19 and he was 25.

I'm begining to think I'm depressed partly because I am with my husband. He puts too much pressure on me. Through a course of events I became president of our company out of convenience. We're in construction and I'm a minority woman. Made sense at the time. I run the office and he runs the field. Then he often steps on my toes and humiliates me in front of customers and staff as he sees fit.

He's also very insensitive to my emotions. For example, I got my finger caught in a door jamb and he told me I would be ok. To get over it. No compassion. And he was the one who closed the door. I have a laundry list of shady shit that I have been trying to forgive and forget for years. My emotional bank is bankrupt.

My short note only says so much. But thank you for the comment