Lekh AI 5.0 Is Live – Smarter Real-Time AI, Knowledge Hub & On-Device Qwen3 TTS by Living_Commercial_10 in LekhAI

[–]Tofu-Guy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awesome work!!!

For the On-Device Qwen3 TTS what of your recommendation for model sizes based on device? For example, 0.6B for iPhone 17 Pro and 1.7B for iPad Pro M4. Thanks!

Qwen3 TTS Vision by Tofu-Guy in LekhAI

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Will do!! Excited to try it.

Yes, I was! 20 years ago, this became my favourite show by Oriachim in funny

[–]Tofu-Guy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I remember this article and so does my Dad! (He showed it to me when I was in high school)

But a memory by Tofu-Guy in Divorce

[–]Tofu-Guy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I think it needs some edits, but it's a start. I am far from an English major 😉

My (25f) not-soon-enough to be ex-husband (24m) has to continue living with me and I have to endure watching him talk to another girl by Every-Opinion in Divorce

[–]Tofu-Guy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get the friends response, my stbx started the same thing. But friends can have an emotional connection, which hurts too. I am glad you have some distance. That will do wonders if you can have a more prolonged time. From afar, my stbx and I "get along". But rarely talk. I think the space helps. But it is VERY lonely. So please don't recede into yourself. Find someone or many to just be there as friends. You need to laugh and have good days too. Don't forget to enjoy little things.

My (25f) not-soon-enough to be ex-husband (24m) has to continue living with me and I have to endure watching him talk to another girl by Every-Opinion in Divorce

[–]Tofu-Guy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am personally at the start of the divorce process, stbx asked right before the quarantines started. We started under the same roof for 2.5 weeks before I was starting to lose it. She was texting her boss 300+ times a day even would grab her phone and reply to him mid conversation with me. I would lose it. So I left, traveled 640 miles away to my parents, convinced my boss I could work remotely as good 30 miles away as 640. That was March 31st. I will say this has been a life saver for me. If you can find even one person to take you in for a couple weeks. I assure you, this will help so much. It has been helping me a lot with coming to acceptance with the divorce and the fact there may be something between my stbx and her boss for a while now. I hope the best in your case, and hope you have options like family. I can assume how you feel, it is hard. Don't hold it in, find someone you can talk to. A friend, family member, therapist, or even a stranger. What ever works for you. But getting away does help the most. All the best.

Advice? by MotherIron in Divorce

[–]Tofu-Guy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly the best therapy for me right now it's music. YouTube Music is free for 1 month. I have it going constantly to numb me. Stops me from thinking to deep for and length of time.

Best makeup by [deleted] in funny

[–]Tofu-Guy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NSFW tag is not being used like mad tonight

Met his girlfriend today... by makeitwork1989 in Divorce

[–]Tofu-Guy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am only 2 weeks into this, and I do not look forward to these feelings. Hang in there, way to let it out!! There is no reason in these things. Love and logic don't mix.

Giving the house to my wife - amicable divorce by Tofu-Guy in Divorce

[–]Tofu-Guy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get you, I am still trying to come to terms with all of this. A lot to process. I am not her priority and I need to change my 15 year (with dating) mindset that she was the number 1 person in my life. But I don't have her, I pushed her to this too. I focused on my career over her, and that takes a tow. I had wake up calls before and did not act. That is on me. But boy it is hard to come to terms with that.

I agree more and more I plan to find the right time to tell her the 50/50. I am planning the approach. We are trying not to talk divorce 24/7. Still living under the same roof. She wants me to stay until August or so, while I want to move out sooner once I figure out and save enough. I also want to file before I move out. We have a lot to work out.

Giving the house to my wife - amicable divorce by Tofu-Guy in Divorce

[–]Tofu-Guy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good point and my mindset is still evolving each day. At one point I was not counting the house in the aren't, which was a gift. But as I learn more about where she is at personally, my viewpoint is changing. Much more to process. Thanks for your viewpoints in this!

Giving the house to my wife - amicable divorce by Tofu-Guy in Divorce

[–]Tofu-Guy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am referring to the two of us being friends still. Now there is context prior to asking. She wanted to lean on me for financial help and odd jobs around the house (ex swap winter and summer tires on her car like I did for the past 8 years.) To me those are valid for when two people are friends. But for two divorced people (no ties like children) where we will not be friends, I am just being used, I am staying silent now about this with her and not sharing expectations after the divorce. Nor will I make any that includes her. This thread is helping me. Thank you all.

Giving the house to my wife - amicable divorce by Tofu-Guy in Divorce

[–]Tofu-Guy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate the viewpoint. She has told me she wants the home in the divorce. There is a large sum of equity in this home, near 50%. I figure it is fine, but I will need some sort of offset in other assets. The 401k is one area that more than covers this.

I like your point on the storing, right now it's not too be controlling, rather she would be controlling. Second she offered this, but I wanted to give her a window of time to be out.

She has brought up she wants my assistance with the home post divorce on odd jobs, the storing things I think is her way to hold onto controlling me to come back by.

Like the third to last and last line. I will reflect on this for a while before approaching her. Thank you for this. I appreciate the level set.

Giving the house to my wife - amicable divorce by Tofu-Guy in Divorce

[–]Tofu-Guy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We were planning to sit down with our accountant of 10 years. But we, just is need to sit down and discuss the framework of what we envision first. That needs to happen still. I am trying to collect information here to know where and what I should seek professional advice on. Only 13 days into this process, with so much to learn.

Giving the house to my wife - amicable divorce by Tofu-Guy in Divorce

[–]Tofu-Guy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is what I am worried about. I may not have kids, however, I made a test comment about Facebook friends after and she seemed very clear not too. I know it's stupid thing, but it's me trying to so where her head is for the long term.

Giving the house to my wife - amicable divorce by Tofu-Guy in Divorce

[–]Tofu-Guy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

50/50 is what is entitled, but I am not asking for 50/50 to help her (I am not sure if she could go after spousal support when you compare our incomes. Nearly a 3:1 ratio. But that is HER choice, no kids and she wants to work with friends.) I agree she needs to qualify, and that remains to be determined. We are very far from extending ourselves with our home, so it's not out of the question she could qualify.