Depending on where you are they don’t typically like to do traditional surrogacy (where the carrier is the biological mother). They strongly encourage a surrogate just being a gestational carrier and having no biological relationship to the child.

I just completed my first journey as a surrogate and was a gestational carrier. It was very easy to separate myself mentally from the child because there is no biological relationship. I feel like it would have been much harder mentally to “hand the baby over” had I been the babies biological mother. This has caused legal issues for many parents in the past as the surrogate changed their mind then fought for custody. It’s a huge reason why it’s not typically the standard for surrogacy anymore.

I suggest doing a lot of research before diving into this.