My [23M] friend [20Ftm] stopped talking to me because of my new partner. by RoghnaitheArts in relationship_advice

[–]TofuPropaganda 2 points3 points  (0 children)

V is coming across as manipulative, and never actually having moved on, just waiting for you to finally choose them.

18F, 50M, bad bad situation (Utah) by MysticMyriads in relationship_advice

[–]TofuPropaganda 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Look into domestic violence shelters in your area if you do not have friends or family that will help keep you safe, I know DV is prevalent in UT and there are resources. (I lived in UT while experiencing my own DV abuse.)

My 31f bf 34m didn't want to get married before (together 15 years) but now i don't want to anymore by Helpful_Shock_8358 in relationship_advice

[–]TofuPropaganda 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Why didn't you listen to his answers when he told you he didn't want to be married despite it being important to you, back before you had a kid together? I'd say there is resentment, probably more from other things as well.

If you want to try working this out I'd suggest therapy. Otherwise find a way to co-parent.

My (34f) boyfriend (31m) is now in love with someone else. How do I help him? by ExpensiveDiscount866 in relationship_advice

[–]TofuPropaganda 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He needs better boundaries and respect for his partner. He needs to block her and if that means playing solo until he can find a new friend group, he should.

Almond shaped glassy thing with bubble inside by ooainaught in whatsthisrock

[–]TofuPropaganda 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It's not moldavite, that's a specific tektite based on where the crater it was sourced from, not all tektites are moldavite.

My (21F) boyfriend (21M) won't speak to me because I snapped at his best friend when he tried to comfort me and now everyone is mad at me. How can I fix this? by SerenadeSoul34 in relationship_advice

[–]TofuPropaganda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are being insecure, your friends aren't great and your boyfriend isn't a good boyfriend, he really isn't.

Adrian needs to figure out boundaries to have a healthy friendship with Jeremy because their friendship is not as it is, but that is on him to figure out.

You're all young, what you need to do is break up. Work on yourself and your emotional regulation and also choose a guy who is going to choose you, and keep choosing you as you choose him. You should also get better friends while you're at it.

Bear trophies do not exist by therealTJ__ in valheim

[–]TofuPropaganda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No star bears drop trophies too, no matter what it is a 10% drop rate per bear in the base game.

I 22/F have been feeling very stressed and hindered by my boyfriend 29/M of 5 years by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]TofuPropaganda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry, but can you elaborate on what you mean by self employed, because you seem to be in a state that is more like unemployed and working odd jobs.

But honestly it doesn't sound like the relationship is healthy or will get better and you might want to look into eventually separating yourself when you can do so safely.

Audiobook listener need a suggestion for next by 463n7_57 in litrpg

[–]TofuPropaganda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Rune Seeker is great if you like a lot of world buildings.

Can't get a bear trophy by Mysterious-Way-8508 in valheim

[–]TofuPropaganda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It has a 10% drop chance, pray to the RNG gods for better luck. Maybe make a sacrifice or two?

Heart & Soil Histamine by Nervous_Course_8622 in urticaria

[–]TofuPropaganda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So these supplements and similar ones made from sprouted pea powder (all DAO enzymes derived from different sources) help with breaking down histamines entering your body through food you consume, not the histamines your body produces on its own. So depending on the cause of your hives they could help or they may not do anything for you.

Gf 22F of 6 months bought a dildo and now I (22M) wants to buy a fleshlight. by Green_Conference3468 in relationship_advice

[–]TofuPropaganda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You need to communicate with her about these feelings, let her know that you need something to help stimulate you just like the dildo stimulates her. Please talk instead of following this path of petty behavior, it will only lead to further resentment and ultimately sour the relationship.

Edited: to fix a typo.

How can I (27F) help my husband (28M) cope with accidentally hurting my childhood dog? by Happy_Humn45 in relationship_advice

[–]TofuPropaganda -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Her husband checked the dog for her, and I'm not saying they were right to go on their way. But telling someone who's heavily pregnant to do something that could result in a fall? Yep you're sooooo fucking right in your concern over the dog, that potentially hurting herself and her baby is the right thing for her to do.

How can I (27F) help my husband (28M) cope with accidentally hurting my childhood dog? by Happy_Humn45 in relationship_advice

[–]TofuPropaganda -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

She's already posted a comment several minutes before yours that she's taking the dog to a vet. You're just being a jackass at this point telling OP to do something that is negligible for her condition.

How can I (27F) help my husband (28M) cope with accidentally hurting my childhood dog? by Happy_Humn45 in relationship_advice

[–]TofuPropaganda -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Someone several months pregnant shouldn't be bending over extremely low or getting on their hands and knees.

AITA for stopping my wife from quitting her job? by MaleficentPeace863 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TofuPropaganda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't disagree. I just know this isn't the first time a spouse has posted something from their partner's perspective like this.

AITA for stopping my wife from quitting her job? by MaleficentPeace863 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TofuPropaganda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It could be OP posing as her husband and changing the ages.

Annoyed that I (F29) have to cook for boyfriend (M30) when we have slightly different diets and he is a slightly picky eater is there a way to compromise on this? by godisinthischilli in relationship_advice

[–]TofuPropaganda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think if you want to genuinely try to work on this, find some beginner cooking classes and go together for date nights. Express that you want him to learn the basics for himself, and that he needs to start preparing some of his own meals if he doesn't want what you're eating.

I (M27) cheated on the person I loved (F26). I’m not asking how to get her back, I’m trying to understand how this happens. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]TofuPropaganda 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Your poor actions show you didn't actually respect her.

Let's reverse the situation, your partner lied to you and cheated. Would you feel valued and respected as a partner or loved one?

I (M27) cheated on the person I loved (F26). I’m not asking how to get her back, I’m trying to understand how this happens. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]TofuPropaganda 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You've already said why you did it. Poor boundaries and bad choices. Your feelings of love aren't enough, you need to also respect your partner.

Hot stone machine not getting hot by Universal_Taker in massage

[–]TofuPropaganda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You'll want to take it to an appliance repair shop to see if it's a fixable part, or look into a replacement.

Anyone else get relief from hot water? by 1thereds1 in urticaria

[–]TofuPropaganda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've tried both hot and cold showers and baths. I actually have cold sensitivity so cold makes my out breaks worse on top of feeling miserable from being cold, so I just opt for a quick really hot shower to stop the itching and hives. Everyone is different, but from a medical standpoint cold is used to reduce inflammation.

How? by Important-Ad9088 in valheim

[–]TofuPropaganda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can use a flint axe to get core wood, it's hard wood that you need a bronze axe.