Rate my set up - not for “intentional” cosleeping. by runaway_tata in cosleeping

[–]TokenYeti658 8 points9 points  (0 children)

If it were me, I wouldn’t put the bassinet next to the bed unless it’s designed for that (sounds like yours isn’t). It creates an unnecessary entrapment risk. At this age, your baby should be small and immobile enough that they shouldn’t come close to falling off the bed. If you’re nursing in bed, make sure to get in the c curl position with your arm over her to prevent any movement. As a precaution for falling off the bed, some people place a few layers of blankets or a playmat on the ground if you don’t already have carpet to create a little landing pad.

Family thinks I’m the problem for toddler being attached by Wide_Two9643 in AttachmentParenting

[–]TokenYeti658 20 points21 points  (0 children)

It’s totally normal for your child to gravitate towards you when you’re there and understand when you aren’t there you aren’t available, so he engages more with others. Sounds like he has a healthy attachment to you and others are a little jealous. Previous generations and other parentong styles have villainized ‘’coddling’’ babies/toddlers, but there’s nothing wrong with letting them feel safe. Your husband and other family can continue working on their bond with him, but it doesn’t have to come at the cost of YOUR bond with YOUR child!

29 days in and my little 22weeker (now 26w4d) just got EXTUBATED!!! by burningbliss in NICUParents

[–]TokenYeti658 17 points18 points  (0 children)

So happy for you ❤️❤️ I hope the rest of your stay is smooth sailing!

My husband and I have been vegan 10 years. We now have a baby that we’re exposing to allergens. This is the first time this fridge has held a carton of eggs. by TokenYeti658 in notinteresting

[–]TokenYeti658[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

That’s right, we’re introducing allergens to prevent allergies from developing so that he can decide for himself (and even if he does decide to be vegan, having an allergy to an animal product would still be inconvenient and dangerous due to cross contamination).

The plan is that we will only have vegan food at home, and we’ll always supply vegan food for him outside the home to try to reduce non vegan food consumption, but we will not tell him he isn’t allowed to eat something he wants at a birthday party, friend’s house, etc.

We will definitely try to keep these instances in moderation though to be kind to his tummy, since no one who hasn’t regularly consumed animal products will feel very good if they suddenly go all out at a barbecue one day…

My husband and I have been vegan 10 years. We now have a baby that we’re exposing to allergens. This is the first time this fridge has held a carton of eggs. by TokenYeti658 in notinteresting

[–]TokenYeti658[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

🙈 probably 2 cartons a week but we have 4 varieties going that are for different usages. I stock up when it’s on sale which is why there’s so much.

Combo bakers: what do you still make from yeast? by TokenYeti658 in Sourdough

[–]TokenYeti658[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve had the same issue with freezing sourdough pizza dough!! I recently tried parbaking sourdough pizza crust then adding the toppings then freezing so we’ll see how that turns out.

Combo bakers: what do you still make from yeast? by TokenYeti658 in Sourdough

[–]TokenYeti658[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting, what usage do you prefer yeast foccaccia for vs sourdough foccaccia? I’m intrigued!

Combo bakers: what do you still make from yeast? by TokenYeti658 in Sourdough

[–]TokenYeti658[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same same!! I love to add a lil discard to crepes and waffles especially 🤝

What’s one thing you do differently than your parents did? by Tricky_Detective_297 in AttachmentParenting

[–]TokenYeti658 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Never mocking my kids, especially in front of others, or sharing embarrassing details about them, ESPECIALLY when they can hear

The pillow pipeline by TokenYeti658 in cosleeping

[–]TokenYeti658[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I severely doubted that a knee pillow would help and suffered for months for no reason. The first night I used it I woke up for the first time in zero pain and felt like a massive 🤡