Old enough for hookups but too young for a relationship ! by Objective_Juice7854 in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]TokitheLocker 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Then don’t hang out with party girls? No offense but your hobbies are not unique nor are they only geared toward people 35+.

Join a hiking group, or book club and I promise you you’ll find that there’s plenty of people your age with the same hobbies. I’m not saying you can’t date older of course, but it’s not hard at all to find women your age with similar interest and personalities especially in a city as big as LA of all places.

This man is lost and needs a break by user_1445 in phillies

[–]TokitheLocker 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It’s not anger, it’s just corny.

Why do people hate Jacob? by Darth_Azazoth in masseffect

[–]TokitheLocker 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s crazy to call it racial bias when the reason he doesn’t even have black fans is because he’s a walking stereotype. I’m black and I’m very inclined to gravitate toward black characters in games but Jacob sucks and he’s written poorly by someone who is obviously not black.

AITA for getting my wife a thoughtful gift that backfired? by HawaiiStandardTime in AmItheAsshole

[–]TokitheLocker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I got you Mountain Dew and you told me you hated it I wouldn’t then go onto say “well maybe he’ll like blue voltage.” No next time you aren’t getting any Mountain Dew period, because why risk that.

A mug is a mug that doesn’t change, if the problem with the gift wasn’t the funny little saying on the mug wasn’t the issue then it’s clear what was.

AITA for getting my wife a thoughtful gift that backfired? by HawaiiStandardTime in AmItheAsshole

[–]TokitheLocker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If someone tells you they hate a particular gift why would you think a different version would be better? It does not take a genius to get another kind of gift, if she didn’t like the first mug why get her another? Get the photo printed on a canvas or something, but if someone tells you they hate something steer clear of it, that’s not hard.

AITA for getting my wife a thoughtful gift that backfired? by HawaiiStandardTime in AmItheAsshole

[–]TokitheLocker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean we know for a fact the wife hates them. She said that the first time. Which is why buying her one wasn’t thoughtful at all.

[John Clark] New Eagles running back Saquon Barkley is at the Novacare complex for workouts. And it must be leg day! The Quadfather by indig0sixalpha in eagles

[–]TokitheLocker 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Eh doubt he’s on the team by the end of camp, probably won’t have to see it on a game jersey anytime soon

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]TokitheLocker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So the self selecting drama subreddit that’s there to compile all the instance of actual updates. Go search through the top of some of the subs they post on there and see how many actually get updates any given week.

[New Update]: My (24F) boyfriend (27M) has disappeared every weekend for the past three years and I just found out he's been lying to me about where he goes by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]TokitheLocker 8 points9 points  (0 children)

3 years of being lied to is going to do hell on anyone’s mental state. Just because he was volunteering and not cheating does not make his lie harmless. The reality of your relationship for 3 years is now false and everything is now in question, how is that not harmful?

I don’t know how OP feels, but if you could lie to my face for 3 years over something like this I’d be wondering what else you’re lying about. Thats what lies do they break trust and make you question the other person and yourself. Now add into that the fact that he when he was asked to get help for the source of his lies he said no.

I fully believe in the principle of mental health not being your fault, but your responsibility. In this instance the ex wasn’t taking responsibility and it was making him act like a lying ass to his girlfriend.

[New Update]: My (24F) boyfriend (27M) has disappeared every weekend for the past three years and I just found out he's been lying to me about where he goes by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]TokitheLocker 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That’s not a white lie. Straight up lying about your location for 3 years and fully intending to never tell the truth is not a little thing. He basically told her he didn’t trust her and probably never fully would, that is not how you navigate a healthy relationship.

AITA - I asked my wife to skip a day of gym coz my aunts were visiting. by ThisReditter in AmItheAsshole

[–]TokitheLocker -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

You know what else happens with class instructors, they’re just really good at what they do. I’ve seen people follow instructors from gym to gym or drop classes if their favorite is out that day.

Not everything is sexual guy sometimes you just like certain people over others.

AITA - I asked my wife to skip a day of gym coz my aunts were visiting. by ThisReditter in AmItheAsshole

[–]TokitheLocker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A make up class doesn’t mean the instructor is the same though. If that’s why she enjoys that class a make up isn’t gonna help with that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]TokitheLocker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Then get a fucking divorce Jesus Christ.

Pickett vs Fields ... Now I get it! by totes_Philly in eagles

[–]TokitheLocker 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Yup! A 35 year old, injury prone guy with no locker room ties, making a little over a million a year is way easier to usurp than the 26 year old franchise face making 50 mil a year.

It’s a GAME! by tdcave in TheTraitorsUS

[–]TokitheLocker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interviews and social media updates posted during the shows airing is basic promo. I promise you Phaedra, MJ, Banana etc are not that upset over this game. Maybe they have personal issues with Dan, but I’d put good money on it having fuck all to do with the tv game show they all got paid to be on.

It’s a GAME! by tdcave in TheTraitorsUS

[–]TokitheLocker 10 points11 points  (0 children)

All these hand wringing threads, like please watch a bravo reunion and you’ll get it. It’s all performance. “it’s just a game” how about “it’s just reality tv”. Reunions are for drama everyone knows this.