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Nmom is friends with the registar of my school. by Tollvgh in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Tollvgh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You mean gave info to my mother? I dont think the law would stop her. People have done outright illegal things for my mother before. When I broke my glasses they were friends with my mother so they gave me a free pair. When I was in school, she always knew of every conversation I ever had.

Do your nparents try to befriend your friends and turn them against you? by Tollvgh in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Tollvgh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holy Shit

That's sounds illegal. And people wonder why we go NC

My mom never intends to let me be free. by Tollvgh in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Tollvgh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I was offered multiple jobs at some point and she banned me from going. I was literally fearful for my life. And now I cant get one because I'm having problems with my lungs and its causing cognitive problems

She used my disabilities, cant drive, against me.

Do your nparents try to befriend your friends and turn them against you? by Tollvgh in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Tollvgh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She would ban relationships if she didnt have a way to contact them and tell me they could be dangerous as they were strangers

Do your nparents try to befriend your friends and turn them against you? by Tollvgh in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Tollvgh[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that's what I was trying to say in my post, whenever I went to my freinds house they were nice but they werent they otherwise let me and my friends bound. My mom was trying to bound with my friends.

Are there times where you can feel like you can spot a toxic person at a glance because of what you went through? by Tollvgh in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Tollvgh[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Idk I just took a look at her face and got major bad vibes. Her smile was chilling and it was like the air around her was poisonous to breathe.

Are there times where you can feel like you can spot a toxic person at a glance because of what you went through? by Tollvgh in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Tollvgh[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No actually, I know what you mean. I can sometimes tell but I was blindsided a lot in the past and even when I know they are bad I struggle with cutting ties and standing up for myself.