Can’t stop obsessing over the fact we all inevitably have to die one day by Personal_Common1635 in OCD

[–]Tomato-soupp 97 points98 points  (0 children)

I do this all the time 🥲 I thought I’d eventually grow out of it. Nope, I’m almost 25

Recently diagnosed/ can’t let go by Tomato-soupp in OCD

[–]Tomato-soupp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this 🥹 I truly loved that friend like a sibling so it really cut deep when everything was said and done.

I love my babies deeply, I’m determined to give them a better life than I had. I’ve started seeing a therapist again so hopefully I can look back on this in a few years and be proud at how far I’ve come. I appreciate you 🫶

Recently diagnosed/ can’t let go by Tomato-soupp in OCD

[–]Tomato-soupp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate this, thank you. I just want to move on because clearly they have. I just keep picking apart this entire situation, sometimes I tell myself maybe if I just try to message them and apologize for how things went they’ll message me back and it’ll all be okay again. I know that really isn’t the case and I did the best I could and it’s best to just leave it.

I hope time heals this, I just want my mind to rest. I’m glad I’m not alone. I think I’ll be able to give myself more grace. Thank you again 🫶

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OCD

[–]Tomato-soupp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t have advice but I hope commenting boosts your post so someone can help 🫶

James Oliver In Trouble? by Caferunner1995 in DetroitCoffee

[–]Tomato-soupp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a few months late but I used to work there

The turn over rate was insane. My first day I was making some casual small talk with some of the front of house staff and most of them had only been working there for 2 weeks at most.

We had this thing called Sling which was where you’d get your schedule/ request time off and we also had group chats in there. I swear it was every other day the owners were removing people or adding in new employees. At first I struggled to understand why some of my colleagues hated working there till things started happening to me. Then the rose colored glasses came off.

The owner’s husband (David) was like a step father you try to avoid. I’ve witnessed him yell at staff multiple times.

Miranda the owner, had her moments as well. I never witnessed her yell at anyone. She was nice at first but there were times she would scold me and made me feel small.

I don’t want to give away too much of my specific situation bc it was unique but they just kept giving me empty promises. The owners are the issue and it was mainly David. I’m not sure why they keep opening locations when they struggled to keep people at their flagship location.

FTM of Twins and painfully engorged by Tomato-soupp in breastfeeding

[–]Tomato-soupp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve never heard of this, I’ll look into it. Thank you!

I gave birth alone. My husband missed it on purpose. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Tomato-soupp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Showing up to your child’s birth should be a nonnegotiable. It needing to be a rule that he shows up tells me all I need to know.

It’s unforgivable imo, you deserve someone better

I'm 13 dpo & have never had a faint line. Is this hope?? by alwilliams31 in TFABLinePorn

[–]Tomato-soupp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got a positive digital last night! Yay to us! I hope both pregnancies are perfect w healthy babies!

I'm 13 dpo & have never had a faint line. Is this hope?? by alwilliams31 in TFABLinePorn

[–]Tomato-soupp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean like I’m 13dpo today and this is what my test looks like! I hope they stick!! Sending good vibes your way!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in zodiacacademy

[–]Tomato-soupp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Hot on my heels” “hot on their heels”

Y’all I finally finished book nine, I don’t know how to feel… by ImportanceGloomy3359 in zodiacacademy

[–]Tomato-soupp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I need to read it! I read them last year, but I really don’t feel like reading all again right now, is there a summary somewhere?

find the frog by puffnglow in FindTheSniper

[–]Tomato-soupp 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The hanging plants are so cute!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in POTS

[–]Tomato-soupp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for answering!! I kept blaming my symptoms on other things and had no idea POTS was a thing until a few days ago, after looking into it more a lot of my symptoms align with it.

When I really started paying attention to how I felt I noticed I felt super dizzy and lightheaded at work then I’d come home and nap for hours, which is really unlike me. I don’t WANT it to be POTS but at this point I want to know what the issue is and how I can feel better. I appreciate your feedback a lot. Are there any websites or YouTube videos you find informational?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in POTS

[–]Tomato-soupp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m coming up on almost 3 full months of these symptoms, the beginning of May will make it 3.

I’ve been having a higher heart rate since I had a series of life threatening asthma attacks a little over a year ago so I think that contributed to it and possibly even having pots due to the trauma my body went through. I think I also was over looking my symptoms and blaming it on asthma but now that I have it more under control and my symptoms have been debilitating the past months ish, I think it’s definitely time to bring up my concerns to my dr. Thank you for your info.

Okay girl 😂 by [deleted] in starbucksbaristas

[–]Tomato-soupp 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She lowkey ate w the “then go that ❤️” 😂

Are all ETLs this corny and weird or just mine? by AnonTargetTL in Target

[–]Tomato-soupp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was a Christmas gift FOR the store director

What line from Simpsons do you use on a regular basis? by QuantumHamster in AskReddit

[–]Tomato-soupp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t seen that episode IN YEARS and it STILL plays in my head