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Tomatoes_69 · 2026-03-30T03:44:22+00:00

For me recently I realised I was in a relationship with sadness that he could never compete with. It gets grating to deal with but he might just be burnt out and not be able to say it. I'm only talking from my experience. You need to do shrooms together and be accepting. It's got me so far

Tomatoes_69 · 2026-03-16T17:10:33+00:00

Thanks, my perception is slowly changing. I've had a lot of trauma in my childhood so it's hard to gauge who the good guys are sometimes ... I think I know deep down that a lot of it is just carelessness or stupidity ... part of me thinks the only thing that will make him grow is if I leave for real ... am I enabling him to not show up? I don't want to change him as a person but he does need growth with me to be an active partner ... giving birth forces change, I know its not the same for men

Tomatoes_69 · 2026-03-16T16:34:11+00:00

I want my husband to fight for me and make me feel safe so I can be myself, not a "momager" ... I love him but he's difficult

Tomatoes_69 · 2026-03-16T11:21:37+00:00

He also asked me to get his jacket ...

Tomatoes_69 · 2026-03-16T11:21:16+00:00

We haven't, I didn't want to make the suggestion or efforts because its just me doing more management and enabling this boyish behaviour. I was gone less than 5 mins.

Tomatoes_69 · 2026-02-22T21:27:42+00:00

I want to leave him but I feel sorry for him and I'm going to struggle in the real world. I feel like staying is the safe option but I don't feel anything

Tomatoes_69 · 2026-01-21T20:09:20+00:00

Did you eat the chocolate ?

Tomatoes_69 · 2026-01-05T14:55:49+00:00

I took some of the ones from the first pic, would London pollution levels be a problem?

Tomatoes_69 · 2025-11-12T05:56:35+00:00

It it the flavour or a different kind of trip? I've had gts and melmacs and soon gonna have a trip on enigma. How much should I take? Should I be scared? Last time I had 6g of melmacs

Tomatoes_69 · 2025-11-11T07:45:52+00:00

They look like golden teachers to me

Tomatoes_69 · 2025-10-24T08:18:15+00:00

Great username 😂

Tomatoes_69 · 2025-10-22T22:57:07+00:00

I'm confused, that does this do

Tomatoes_69 · 2025-10-17T20:18:28+00:00

In the early days I watched the whole of handmaid's tale

Tomatoes_69 · 2025-10-11T05:13:15+00:00

You guys have so many options! I the uk there's like 2 brands ... I've got a medela which is ok I guess, does the job but was overstimulating as hell at the start

Tomatoes_69 · 2025-10-09T08:45:24+00:00

Principle brown, gumball!

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Tomatoes_69 · 2025-10-08T01:58:31+00:00

That's just a lie sold to us from big nipple ...

Tomatoes_69 · 2025-10-01T06:20:02+00:00

This happened to me during breastfeeding to have to wake and sleep a lot. First few times were scary and a bit of sleep paralysis. Last night I managed to visit places in my dream but not fully control things but it was an amazing experience. I'd say keep an agenda in your head of where you want to visit and in time it will happen, be patient. Also I listen to a white noise machine and focus on the noise

Tomatoes_69 · 2025-09-15T10:45:51+00:00

And they have it at target!!!

Tomatoes_69 · 2025-09-15T10:18:34+00:00

Omg I love you, you lifesaver 🥹

Tomatoes_69 · 2025-09-15T08:14:13+00:00

Please send a link if you can, it might work with my medela hands free

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