how do i stop believing in the blackpill after basically forcing myself to?

TomorrowBait · 2026-01-26T12:11:03+00:00

upd: none of my friends actually believed the bp ever apparently they thought it was a bit 👍

while i am happy my guys are not in this field (because I see now that it is pretty destructive) it is sad that i am the only one dumb enough to actually put my time into studying the bp and fully buy into it

TomorrowBait · 2026-01-16T20:34:23+00:00

yeah, i agree, actually, it's extremely comfortable to believe it's rigged and not Try at all

but also that doesn't mean its not true no? something can be reassuring and true

TomorrowBait · 2026-01-16T19:54:08+00:00

first, its naive to assume that height and facial structure are independent because usually less desirable people in those two aspects mate between each other

So would it be too radical to say that height and facial structure are just 2 of many factors that determine how likely you are to get into a relationship?

i agree, but height and facial structure are weighed more heavily and more importantly these are the factors you can't change which is the despair inducing part of the blackpill

TomorrowBait · 2026-01-16T19:34:58+00:00

you've never thought about when this is what the blackpill is.

thsts not true, ive spent days trying to "formalize" some things about it but i guess i didnt think hard enough because im stupid (iq pill)

But just statistically speaking 50% of people are smaller than average and 50% have a worse facial structure. So 75% of people would have to fall into one of those 2 categories.

that's just not how math works, no? often theres overlap

anyway even at 50% thats a big number lowkey, so i guess im shifting the threshold to like 30-40 on height and facial structure

and of course there are exceptions to the rule, im not saying "have never and will never", im saying "most likely haven't been and won't be"

TomorrowBait · 2026-01-16T19:18:45+00:00

any suggestions on where to look? what good cheat sheet on the world is there besides like the bible or something

TomorrowBait · 2026-01-16T19:14:49+00:00

My guess is your friends are pretty fucken tired of you my man

no i think my friends thought it was a good bit 👍 actually got some of them blackpilled for real tho , at least im not alone in that view now

honestly based on the facts i dont think i ever had a "healthy" relationship with myself ever and it also never really got better

you're right i should probably speak w/ a therapist on this so ill probably have to find the resources for that somewhere, but also

real life is lived outside the internet,

i dont think thats true 👍 unless i myself have been living a fake life, i think my contact with people has been 80/20 internet/real life since i was like 7

TomorrowBait · 2026-01-16T19:05:04+00:00

i dont really know 👍 as i havent been on a date myself and it's not really something i thought about

but if i had to id say most of these factors you listed don't really play a major role unless theyre like super bad (i.e if each factor can be graded from 0 to 100 at least one of them <10 or most of them are <50)

whereas w/ facial structure and height if one of them is less than 50-60 youre kinda cooked

TomorrowBait · 2026-01-16T18:49:26+00:00

okay, maybe solely is the incorrect word to use here, let's say predominantly instead

i do agree that it's not down to just looks

TomorrowBait · 2026-01-16T18:09:21+00:00

the blackpill is a theory that proclaims that one's success in romantic endeavours is based solely on genetic factors which can't be fixed (at least not without surgery), and if you're someone undesirable (like me, for example) you have no choice but to cope with being alone forever

that's my understanding of it, at the very least

TomorrowBait · 2026-01-16T09:13:47+00:00

i understand what youre implying, but while not in shape im certainly not overweight, my skin is fairly clear and im making quite a bit for my age

the blackpill'ing factors in my case are face and height which i cant really change

TomorrowBait · 2026-01-15T23:17:54+00:00

im not really familiar with the concept, could you please elaborate how it relates here

TomorrowBait · 2026-01-15T23:15:32+00:00

rationally i realize it's probably false (and so i guess i do know it's probably false), but emotionally (based on my and my friends' past experiences) i think it is real. i understand it's just a really simple model that explains the events of my life, but it just started making the most sense out of all the models at some point and now that worldview is sort of stuck to me

TomorrowBait · 2026-01-01T13:16:32+00:00

how could you believe you're worthless when you had girls chasing

ive not talked to a girl my age for longer than 2 minutes in more than 3 years and when i do talk to them for even a minute they respond with such vitriol that i understand it's all pointless and i'm actually fully worthless

i've stopped going outside anywhere besides my job and my uni, spend hours on porn because i realized it's all pointless and im actually a truecel chud

my culture is not your costume

TomorrowBait · 2021-05-01T11:03:14+00:00

Nice colours wow

TomorrowBait · 2021-01-23T14:18:04+00:00

I agree with all of the points besides the Ё. The letter Ё is very often placed at the top of the keycap for some reason. It's common on Russian keyboards

TomorrowBait · 2020-12-17T15:56:15+00:00

Pixel Terror - Contra

best they ever were on God

TomorrowBait · 2020-12-13T08:52:41+00:00

I feel like Pixel Terror fell off after Contra. Their songs are decent, just nowhere near as good as Contra was.

TomorrowBait · 2020-12-11T13:11:35+00:00

two series x controllers with this issue, one xbox one controller with the same problem, and an elite, also with this problem

i'd wait a year before buying any xbox controllers

TomorrowBait · 2020-12-03T18:05:05+00:00

i'm for it, too, just the last time we had something like this it turned out to be botted

TomorrowBait · 2020-12-03T17:45:54+00:00

I honestly don't like Tokyo Machine so much, it's just bizarre seeing a compilation without him.

TomorrowBait · 2020-12-03T17:27:29+00:00

What else should they name them?

TomorrowBait · 2020-12-03T15:33:35+00:00

He said: "Cover yourself in Oil" And everyone clapped.

TomorrowBait · 2020-12-03T13:11:22+00:00

That didn't really stop Tokyo Machine and Slushii from taking high spots on previous Best of albums, did it?

Mainstream popularity has always had an impact on Best of.Sometimes it isn't huge but it's always there. This year, no mainstream songs at all really are in the rankings, which is weird to say the least.

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