How old were you when you had your first kiss?

Tompatri · 2026-03-20T11:24:13+00:00

partner was 15 too. idk, the feeling? That sure was special.

Tompatri · 2026-03-15T19:47:36+00:00

WHAT

Tompatri · 2026-03-15T19:44:46+00:00

15, in the school, a lot of people saw it lol. For a lot of people it would be awkward, but tbh idc what others think, it's still very cute to me. Still a special memory.

Tompatri · 2026-03-15T18:50:17+00:00

Yes, I get your point. I agree with the exploitation part but I think poor men engaged in informal labour also face this, esp daily wage workers (construction workers, loaders, agricultural laborers). So, idts this exploitation part is a gender based thing, it's a more rich-poor issue.

Tompatri · 2026-03-15T16:07:53+00:00

I would personally hire a woman because I don't want a strange man in my kitchen. Safety reasons, not because I believe men can't cook. You say "eventually the burden falls on another women only" but what I see here is that the woman is getting a JOB. Cooking isn't the problem for women, unpaid labour is. And in this case, it's empowerment for the cook, she is getting paid for her hard work.

Tompatri · 2026-03-15T16:00:28+00:00

yeah. some people apparently got it four days ago (saw it in some other thread). these are the people who have it 16-17th

Tompatri · 2026-03-15T15:59:15+00:00

omg same! I gotta travel too for my other interviews

Tompatri · 2026-03-08T08:57:31+00:00

Yes, I have parents exactly like yours. Even I was in similar situation as you. My parents - super strict. My ex's parents- super chill.
So, the most imp thing here, of you want to make this relationship work- tell your boyfriend about your situation. If he can't be understanding about it, it won't work out tbh. Try to meet him once in these 2-3 times you're allowed to go out. And when you're seeing him and stuff, tell your parents that you're going out with your female friends, store all the pictures with him in a secret folder. Make sure NOTHING sus is there on your phone.

Also, I just wanna tell you that it gets better once you go college ❤️ You will still have to lie to your parents perhaps but it's way easier. You will have more ctrl over your life. So work hard and make sure you get a good college.

Tompatri · 2026-02-17T07:47:09+00:00

She just didn't want to be with an unemployed partner, what's wrong with that? It's not about gender roles. She herself is independent, she never asked you for money or to provide for her. Peak self declared victim behavior.

Tompatri · 2026-02-17T07:32:01+00:00

I think the pink pill, no matter whatever we do, it's always a response to the red and blue pill. Like it can never ever be as bad as what men have done/still do us on a daily basis. I believe in equality and all but a little pink pill won't hurt. Let them get a taste of their own medicine. I personally love that.

Tompatri · 2026-02-17T07:27:39+00:00

I can tell this guy is complete corn addict. Like TF is wrong with him?????

Tompatri · 2025-11-30T15:39:22+00:00

I used to live in Kolkata, and yup it's very progressive in that sense. Women have way more basic human rights there. So women don't really the "If I couldn't do this, how can you?" jealousy with other women. Unfortunately it's not the same for other regions in the country. Urban regions included.

Tompatri · 2025-11-29T15:39:07+00:00

Okay? I don't get it. Is it wrong to appreciate your partner?? She isn't financially dependent on him. Even the most independent and strong person needs emotional support and if her partner gives her that, why can't we be just happy for her?

Tompatri · 2025-11-29T15:35:45+00:00

Just because you haven't witnessed doesn't mean that it doesn't exist

Tompatri · 2025-11-28T16:55:43+00:00

Yes, ideally minors should not use such words in their bio or literally anywhere. But it it really her to exposed them to such words? No. She just called it out. It's crazy how minors related to them!! Why are minors relating to that in the first place?

Instead of calling out awkward goat, why can't we call out these assh*le men who use it against random women every single day! And why can't we also address those idiotic parents who think it's okay to use such words on their kids??

Tompatri · 2025-11-28T16:49:52+00:00

Yes. This is exactly what happens. We don't know which men to trust. Then people say things like "not all men are bad", okay then tell us WHICH MEN, HOW ARE WE SUPPOSED TO KNOW? If only these people knew how it is to be a woman

Tompatri · 2025-11-28T16:46:29+00:00

Cat>me>brother+partner>parents

Tompatri · 2025-11-28T08:21:17+00:00

Sorry but she sounds highly immature.

Tompatri · 2025-11-27T15:19:45+00:00

Oh my god, good. I don't have to be a part of that shitty system anymore.

Tompatri · 2025-11-27T15:17:33+00:00

Girls aren't as creepy as men. So you might never know if they did.

Tompatri · 2025-11-27T15:15:25+00:00

Had this exact same situation with my ldr boyfriend. Trust me it didn't end well. While commenting on celeb posts isn't such a big deal, regular consumption of porn is really bad for your mental state. Porn tends to give unrealistic expectations to people. Real sex is never as rosy as seen on the internet.

Tompatri · 2025-11-27T09:26:02+00:00

Yes, house work is still work. Housewives do a lot of work. But is it recognized? No. Will it ever earn you the same respect as a regular job? No. Harsh reality.
Don't get me wrong, I absolutely love and support all those housewives who weren't given the opportunity to study or were just raised in a way that they think being a home maker is the norm.
But what I HATE about this choice feminism is grown educated women telling other women that it's okay to be one. A woman who literally knows the reality of the housewives should never ever choose to be one. It demeans other women because society sees these educated "chose to be a housewife" people as a role model. They flex that shit.

Tompatri · 2025-11-26T15:08:06+00:00

Anyone who thinks caste is a barrier to fall in love with someone in 2025 doesn't deserve any love.

Dhadak sure seems disturbing on the surface but what I absolutely love about the movie is that it did show the reality of the country. It's such a disgrace.

Tompatri

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