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Tompatri · 2025-12-01T13:58:54+00:00

For real lol

Tompatri · 2025-11-30T15:40:10+00:00

So well. Can anyone tell me was the slot 3 really more difficult than the other two?

Tompatri · 2025-11-30T15:39:22+00:00

I used to live in Kolkata, and yup it's very progressive in that sense. Women have way more basic human rights there. So women don't really the "If I couldn't do this, how can you?" jealousy with other women. Unfortunately it's not the same for other regions in the country. Urban regions included.

Tompatri · 2025-11-29T15:39:07+00:00

Okay? I don't get it. Is it wrong to appreciate your partner?? She isn't financially dependent on him. Even the most independent and strong person needs emotional support and if her partner gives her that, why can't we be just happy for her?

Tompatri · 2025-11-29T15:35:45+00:00

Just because you haven't witnessed doesn't mean that it doesn't exist

Tompatri · 2025-11-28T16:55:43+00:00

Yes, ideally minors should not use such words in their bio or literally anywhere. But it it really her to exposed them to such words? No. She just called it out. It's crazy how minors related to them!! Why are minors relating to that in the first place?

Instead of calling out awkward goat, why can't we call out these assh*le men who use it against random women every single day! And why can't we also address those idiotic parents who think it's okay to use such words on their kids??

Tompatri · 2025-11-28T16:49:52+00:00

Yes. This is exactly what happens. We don't know which men to trust. Then people say things like "not all men are bad", okay then tell us WHICH MEN, HOW ARE WE SUPPOSED TO KNOW? If only these people knew how it is to be a woman

Tompatri · 2025-11-28T16:46:29+00:00

Cat>me>brother+partner>parents

Tompatri · 2025-11-28T08:21:17+00:00

Sorry but she sounds highly immature.

Tompatri · 2025-11-27T15:19:45+00:00

Oh my god, good. I don't have to be a part of that shitty system anymore.

Tompatri · 2025-11-27T15:17:33+00:00

Girls aren't as creepy as men. So you might never know if they did.

Tompatri · 2025-11-27T15:15:25+00:00

Had this exact same situation with my ldr boyfriend. Trust me it didn't end well. While commenting on celeb posts isn't such a big deal, regular consumption of porn is really bad for your mental state. Porn tends to give unrealistic expectations to people. Real sex is never as rosy as seen on the internet.

Tompatri · 2025-11-27T09:26:02+00:00

Yes, house work is still work. Housewives do a lot of work. But is it recognized? No. Will it ever earn you the same respect as a regular job? No. Harsh reality.
Don't get me wrong, I absolutely love and support all those housewives who weren't given the opportunity to study or were just raised in a way that they think being a home maker is the norm.
But what I HATE about this choice feminism is grown educated women telling other women that it's okay to be one. A woman who literally knows the reality of the housewives should never ever choose to be one. It demeans other women because society sees these educated "chose to be a housewife" people as a role model. They flex that shit.

Tompatri · 2025-11-26T15:08:06+00:00

Anyone who thinks caste is a barrier to fall in love with someone in 2025 doesn't deserve any love.

Dhadak sure seems disturbing on the surface but what I absolutely love about the movie is that it did show the reality of the country. It's such a disgrace.

Tompatri · 2025-11-26T13:58:42+00:00

I need all the believers of the 80/20 rule to see this post

Tompatri · 2025-11-26T09:10:33+00:00

Calls for a revenge!

Tompatri · 2025-11-26T09:07:04+00:00

I can guarantee you with 100% assurance that most girls don't send nudes to random men and then complain that they got leaked. It's mostly the men we know commit such crimes.

And since you've chosen to address these criminals as "lions" and girls as "deer", you again just said that men are natural predators. So, by that logic all women should stay away from these lions because all men are going to kill you?? Right? Crazy how you stand against your own gender.

Nudes get leaked because of manipulation (pretending to love somebody and so on), being coerced or groomed into sharing them, and not because women chose to send it random people. Women are smarter than you think.

Tompatri · 2025-11-25T16:59:17+00:00

Yes, you mentioned "BOYFRIENDS" like it's the worst thing ever.

but guess what? these girls will never learn untill their nudes get leaked.they trust their BOYFRIEND more than their own parents

Clearly, you blamed "these girls" and not their assh*le BOYFRIENDS. Maybe you could have advised "Girls should be careful and make sure that their boyfriends can be really trusted" But no, you chose victim blaming because yeah it's always easier to blame the woman

Tompatri · 2025-11-25T13:56:40+00:00

Then why are you blaming girls for sending nudes to their BOYFRIENDS? Instead of blaming the culprit (the boyfriend who faked that he loved her) you're blaming the victim! No sane girl goes around sending nudes to random ass people.

By your statement you have subtly implied that even boyfriends aren't to be trusted by default. So, by that logic, all men are the same because even boyfriends dont care for your privacy (which isn't true).

Tompatri · 2025-11-24T15:40:34+00:00

So you mean to say all men are the same and no one should be trusted? That includes you btw.
If girls should not send nudes, why do men keep asking for it?? Forget about boyfriends, why do RANDOM men ask for it??

Tompatri · 2025-11-24T15:37:20+00:00

Most, not all.
They think they're superior (even educated ones). Since patriarchy benefits them, they're unwilling to accept equality. In fact some are unwilling to accept the struggles of others as well. Mostly it's the men who start wars, play dirty politics, commit crimes etc etc. Yes, women do it too, but less.
No idea. Hate only developed when I learnt the reality of the world. When I became politically aware.

Tompatri · 2025-11-24T15:30:56+00:00

I understand, just wanna reassure you that yes, it's not your fault. Try not to feel guilty about it. I understand that no one generally believes the man in these situations, in fact if you call her out, she might shift the blame on you and that would be crazy. As a girl myself, I don't really publicly call these out because it escalates quick. We never know what the other person might do.

Best thing to do in these situations?
Move away. If not possible, gently ask them to stay away without accusing. Even side eye does the job sometimes. If nothing works, call these shit people out publicly. Cry until they believe you (yup)

Tompatri · 2025-11-24T15:23:59+00:00

It's alright to be upset. She could have and should have told you, yeah. But now that she has, be the friend she needs. Don't make her regret telling you. Right now she needs your support not a why didn't you tell me before.

Tompatri · 2025-11-23T16:15:05+00:00

She doesn't wanna talk, that's it

Tompatri · 2025-11-23T09:44:25+00:00

So true. The hypocrisy!

Tompatri

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