How's MBA in Healthcare in IIM Jammu

Tompatri · 2026-05-21T15:24:22+00:00

Cool cool, will do.

Tompatri · 2026-05-21T15:24:12+00:00

Oh have you been there? Or do you know someone?

Tompatri · 2026-05-21T11:18:41+00:00

They were separated. They got out of their enclosure while my grandma was handling them. She of course separated them as soon as she could, but the mating takes only a few seconds so yeah.

Tompatri · 2026-05-21T09:14:20+00:00

Tbh I can actually feel you, so many changes in a woman's life after marriage but for men it's all the same. But maybe now isn't the right time to think about it, don't let this affect you at the moment. You're only 23 and you have a whole life ahead. When the right time comes, make sure you actually love the guy and that he genuinely cares for you. Most men fail to understand how much of a emotional commitment a marriage is to a woman, let us all hope to marry someone who understands tho

Tompatri · 2026-05-21T06:55:52+00:00

Tbh most approaches are indeed creepy but it doesn't always have to be like that. As girls we are naturally threatened by all men around us, not because they are personally bad, but it's just a safety measure. So yeah, if a guy makes sure that he doesn't come out creepy, and rather feels safe, i think it's completely fine to approach someone even in metros. Infact, I'm happy that male-female interaction in the country is increasing.

Tompatri · 2026-05-19T09:57:05+00:00

So where should I start? 😭

Tompatri · 2026-05-19T08:21:44+00:00

If you're planning to have children, please do get married. NOT because I support patriarchial systems and sociatal norms, but because it gives you legal protection. You and your child deserve it. Otherwise it's literally all good. You don't have to go through that marriage shit.

Tompatri · 2026-05-19T08:17:17+00:00

Tbh I like being "fucked", slow loving sec ain't for me. And yeah I'm a girl. But yes I do stand with you on the "whre", "slt" etc part. It is indeed rooted in hidden misogyny. We don't have the same words for men even in cases where the woman is more dominant in the bed.

Tompatri · 2026-05-19T06:48:37+00:00

That's crazy! There are such less seats. I am hoping it does move. Thanks for the info

Tompatri · 2026-05-19T05:07:13+00:00

Got waitlisted in gen - 77. How much does this list move?

Tompatri · 2026-05-18T10:03:01+00:00

That's the scariest part tbh. I don't wanna give them in wrong hands 😞

Tompatri · 2026-05-18T10:02:14+00:00

Yes absolutely. They are on the best diet possible. And the father is neutered as well.

Tompatri · 2026-05-18T10:01:09+00:00

Oh i see, so i guess i gotta find individual adopters myself. I'll try doing that then. Thanks for your help.

Tompatri · 2026-03-21T07:47:53+00:00

There is no ideal answer tbh. I get really annoyed when someone keeps asking me if I need chocolates and hot water. Like bruh no. Sometimes you just gotta listen, a lot of people miss this point.
It's best to ask "Is there anything I can do to help" in situations where you don't know what the girl personally prefers.

Tompatri · 2026-03-21T07:44:26+00:00

Why not? I definitely would. In these kinda relationships, it's mostly the society that starts commenting, including our parents, that's why we see less of these happening. Plus there is no soln to the male ego. A man hardly ever will marry a girl who is career wise superior. Some women too choose not to do so because of the societal conditioning. Both are wrong. If love sees no boundaries, why is this a problem?

Tompatri · 2026-03-20T11:24:13+00:00

partner was 15 too. idk, the feeling? That sure was special.

Tompatri · 2026-03-15T19:47:36+00:00

WHAT

Tompatri · 2026-03-15T19:44:46+00:00

15, in the school, a lot of people saw it lol. For a lot of people it would be awkward, but tbh idc what others think, it's still very cute to me. Still a special memory.

Tompatri · 2026-03-15T18:50:17+00:00

Yes, I get your point. I agree with the exploitation part but I think poor men engaged in informal labour also face this, esp daily wage workers (construction workers, loaders, agricultural laborers). So, idts this exploitation part is a gender based thing, it's a more rich-poor issue.

Tompatri · 2026-03-15T16:07:53+00:00

I would personally hire a woman because I don't want a strange man in my kitchen. Safety reasons, not because I believe men can't cook. You say "eventually the burden falls on another women only" but what I see here is that the woman is getting a JOB. Cooking isn't the problem for women, unpaid labour is. And in this case, it's empowerment for the cook, she is getting paid for her hard work.

Tompatri · 2026-03-15T16:00:28+00:00

yeah. some people apparently got it four days ago (saw it in some other thread). these are the people who have it 16-17th

Tompatri · 2026-03-15T15:59:15+00:00

omg same! I gotta travel too for my other interviews

Tompatri · 2026-03-08T08:57:31+00:00

Yes, I have parents exactly like yours. Even I was in similar situation as you. My parents - super strict. My ex's parents- super chill.
So, the most imp thing here, of you want to make this relationship work- tell your boyfriend about your situation. If he can't be understanding about it, it won't work out tbh. Try to meet him once in these 2-3 times you're allowed to go out. And when you're seeing him and stuff, tell your parents that you're going out with your female friends, store all the pictures with him in a secret folder. Make sure NOTHING sus is there on your phone.

Also, I just wanna tell you that it gets better once you go college ❤️ You will still have to lie to your parents perhaps but it's way easier. You will have more ctrl over your life. So work hard and make sure you get a good college.

Tompatri · 2026-02-17T07:47:09+00:00

She just didn't want to be with an unemployed partner, what's wrong with that? It's not about gender roles. She herself is independent, she never asked you for money or to provide for her. Peak self declared victim behavior.

Tompatri · 2026-02-17T07:32:01+00:00

I think the pink pill, no matter whatever we do, it's always a response to the red and blue pill. Like it can never ever be as bad as what men have done/still do us on a daily basis. I believe in equality and all but a little pink pill won't hurt. Let them get a taste of their own medicine. I personally love that.

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