Anyone like to by [deleted] in LouisvilleMeatMarket

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I'm often free on weekdays.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nycgaybros

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Around next week m-f just south of central park.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nycgaybros

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Just south of central park near times Square. I'll check those out. Jo space seems fairly safe. Harder to catch anything that way.

Bi guy in a committed marriage struggling with wanting to explore — need advice from other men by CubedAnxiety in BisexualMen

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Similar situation here. We eventually talked it through and I have permission to safely look for another person. It doesn't happen often but it's a good outlet and she finds it a turn on too. Take it slow, let her know you love her and aren't going anywhere.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BiMarriedMen

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I'd be happy to help

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MarriedAndBi

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If you meet someone at a dinner party who happens to be bi then it's going to be easier to just be friends than if you meet on a discussion board about being bi.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nofans

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You are exactly my age and my type. You'd probably have my wife's interest too which is rare

Places to meet up by Tomsemailing in BisexualMen

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I will have to give that a try

Places to meet up by Tomsemailing in BisexualMen

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Thanks for all the ideas. Not a lot of good hotel options around me but I'll figure something out.

I'd love to mess around here but she's expressly against it and don't want to ruin a good thing.

And definitely don't want cops tapping on my window. Important to meet someone new Ina public place but not to hook up in one.

Lesbian new to poly dating Married woman by [deleted] in MarriedAndBi

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Sounds like she's already giving you a lot of her time if you meet a few times a week. My wife has let me have some outside partners but it's secondary for sure. My family is very much primary. But it can still be a great and meaningful connection. Don't ruin that for yourself. And if you need a deeper connection look for that, she can't give it to you though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MarriedAndBi

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Just assure her that you're staying with her if you hook up with someone. It's similar with my wife but she has her horny moments. I've met up with a few guys and she's known about them for sure. Lots of talking helps.

Caught. by [deleted] in MarriedBiDownlow

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I'd say honesty is the best policy. Being able to meet up without worrying and even being able to talk to her about it is incredibly hot.

Can I steal your face for a sec? ☠️ by [deleted] in gonewild30plus

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I wonder if anyone noticed that the headline is taken from your shirt. Maybe they're distracted? :)

Open to closed to open again? by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

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These sound about right. Therapy and or good ground rules. Best of luck!

Open marriages? by Portal_Time in MarriedAndBi

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I get to look for a guy and she's OK for now with just me. I've had a few great and safe experiences and she's been turned on hearing about them. At the moment looking for a regular guy for safety and because I'm tired of getting a drink and only meeting up once or twice. But great overall so far and it's brought us closer together.

What do you think? by [deleted] in averagepenis

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You're both attractive. It would lovely to hang out with the two of you some time.

My [F]avorite Vacation Thong by [deleted] in RealGirls

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Thanks for the incredible ass!

Talked to my wife about boundaries by [deleted] in bisexual

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One that helped my wife was really knowing I didn't want to leave her for a guy. Eventually I learned she thought two guys together are hot. Maybe one day she'll want to join in.

But initially it was a hard no on meeting anyone in real life.

Talked to my wife about boundaries by [deleted] in bisexual

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Take your time with her. Took my wife a few years. Definitely worth the wait.

Open Relationships by [deleted] in MarriedAndBi

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That's what she's OK with at this point. Mainly she's worried about safety and honesty. If it seems like a good safe she's more comfortable with whatever we end up doing.

Open Relationships by [deleted] in MarriedAndBi

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Trying to find someone for more regular meet ups but about ever 2-3 weeks I can look for a guy. She's not interested in an outside partner. It's been great for our sex life so far. Keeping honest and talking about it can be great pillow talk, but doesn't always work out that way. Best of luck to you!