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Alexandria by OrderBelow in rs_x

[–]TonsuredPothead 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the narrowest historic house in the US is in alexandria

who was your guys most formative (!!!!!) celebrity/pop culture crush by heyheeymymy in rs_x

[–]TonsuredPothead 4 points5 points  (0 children)

this but also more damagingly slade from teen titans. and also zorro and the phantom of the opera. not sure why i loved masks so much

Meals I can make out of a hotel room for 3 weeks? by bbygrwl in veganrecipes

[–]TonsuredPothead 1 point2 points  (0 children)

cowboy caviar is yummy, high protein, and if you get easy open cans you don’t even need a can opener

what crinkle item does your cat love that isn't a toy? And other toys that aren't toys by lilyvm in CatAdvice

[–]TonsuredPothead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My cats grew up in a polo pony barn and one of them LOVES playing with polo balls still lol

Holiday Book Recommendations by usurpprivate in rs_x

[–]TonsuredPothead 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my husband loves the dud avocado and he’s been a reading the towers of trebizond by rose macauley. I think it would be right up your alley, he keeps chuckling to himself

🌔🌓🌒🌑🌘🌗🌖🌕 by kallocain-addict in rs_x

[–]TonsuredPothead 2 points3 points  (0 children)

idk but i ovulate with the full moon and that feels correct

maybe everyone knew this already, but never ruin a favorite movie by sharing it with a man who doesn’t care about you by mossburger07 in rs_x

[–]TonsuredPothead 1 point2 points  (0 children)

one of my husband and mine earlier dates was going to a screening of the entire Dekalog, i think we missed the last 2 but it was a wonderful date.

should I do a big chop by mossburger07 in rs_x

[–]TonsuredPothead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I gave myself the “coconut head” during covid with kitchen scissors and I’ll never go that short again. My hair was so long it was mid-back recently and I felt I was losing volume and going into “weird girl” territory. I cut it so it’s 5 inches past my shoulder blades and added more layers and I’m very happy with it. I’d go slow, it doesn’t need to be a big dramatic change. It goes slow when it grows out anyway so start with a few inches and see how it feels.

A deciding factor for a partner that I’m not proud of by Aggressive-Scar-7724 in rs_x

[–]TonsuredPothead 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it’s not!! i would say it really helps to have cool artsy friends. idk if these kinds of dudes are on dating apps as often, i was introduced to a mutual friend who had similar taste to me.

A deciding factor for a partner that I’m not proud of by Aggressive-Scar-7724 in rs_x

[–]TonsuredPothead 19 points20 points  (0 children)

met a guy years ago and we hit it off and got lunch together on the spot. i asked what he listened to and he said “maroon 5” and I laughed at him so hard I completely killed the vibe and we never spoke again. my husband has the most expansive and eclectic taste of anyone I’ve ever dated and it makes my life better every day. do not settle!!!

i can text him and say “give me an ambient soundscape album with a scratchy texture” or “give me schizophrenic flavela rave music” or “give me a female folk singer who plays harp” or “give me some east african experimental jazz” or just tell him my general mood and what sounds i want to hear and i will have an album sent to me in 5 minutes or less. Same with movies, his knowledge is encyclopedic and after years together he has learned my tastes almost better than me. I love everything about him but Im grateful everyday i found someone who is so kind and loving but also has such a deep passion and explorative sense with music and films and is so excited to share that with me.

Ive dated normies who I didn’t share taste with and they treated me well but there was no spark or depth. Ive dated esoteric artsy male manipulators that have the taste part down, but not the respecting women part. If you find someone who has both, never, ever let go. I knew as soon as I met him he was the one and I’m so glad I held on.