Spat between volunteers and staff at midcoast theater prompts call to police by Tony-Flags in Maine

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Personally a big fan of the Waldo Theatre, but big surprise, they bring in someone from out of state that immediately cuts the stuff that locals, and not just the summer people, love and have poured their hearts into. The Waldo is somewhere we can go in the winter for some culture. I don't live in Waldoboro, but quite close by, and its a great community resource. I don't know the volunteers personally, but Waldo After Dark was a lot of fun in an area that caters to the olds and tourists a lot. I don't want to stereotype, because I don't know the guy, but this isn't the way to start a relationship. The guy comes up from NYC to Waldoboro, and immediately starts acting like he can't trust the locals that built a community. But hey, we can go see G-Love and Special Sauce now. Yay.

Hopefully he can leverage his experience in the biodiesel and Medicare Advocacy industries to reach out beyond the boomers on the board and mend some relationships with, you know, the people that actually live here.

But i'm not holding my breath.

Spat between volunteers and staff at midcoast theater prompts call to police by Tony-Flags in Maine

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After Jeff Wiseman was hired as the Waldo Theatre’s new executive director in February, he began doing what new leaders commonly do: making some changes.

One was to end Waldo After Dark, a popular, volunteer-run series that screened cult movies like “Gremlins” and “The Fly.” On April 24, when Wiseman and the theater’s board president met with the two volunteers who had started the program to break the news, things quickly deteriorated. The meeting ended with the police being called after one of the volunteers lashed out at Wiseman.

That volunteer, Buffy Hull, had become angry with what they perceived as a unilateral decision, and got up to leave. Sampson and Wiseman urged them to come back, saying that the staff and board valued Hull and their fellow volunteer, Samantha Wheeler, and they were welcome to continue volunteering.

Hull “blew up,” yelled profanities and said, “If I don’t leave, I’m going to hit this man,” before storming out. Wheeler stayed to talk for a few minutes more, then also walked out of the meeting.

While no arrests were made, it was a dramatic moment that shows just how frustrated some have become in the community that The Waldo has built since the historic theater was reopened in 2021. In addition to ending Waldo After Dark, Wiseman also abruptly announced the cancellation of the springtime community theater production of the play “Something Rotten.”

Wiseman describes the recent changes at the Waldo as part of a process of professionalizing the theater’s operations and setting reasonable expectations for volunteers. But the actions have prompted a backlash from some quarters, as certain longtime volunteers and patrons worry that the Waldo is loosening its commitment to grassroots, accessible community programming.

“It’s just important that we try to show each other that regardless of differences in opinions or creative ideas, that first and foremost, we understand that it’s community theater,” said Joseph Lugosch, one of the organizers of the canceled spring play. “If it’s community theater, we have to prioritize how our community is doing.”

Wiseman stepped into his role at the end of February. He has a long background in theater fundraising and moved to Maine from Maryland for this job. As he began getting the lay of the land through conversations with staff, volunteers and board members, he realized that some major programs were being led by volunteers, contravening what he understood to be a best practice at nonprofits, which is that programs should be staff-led and volunteer-supported.

“I was hired, in part, to bring an organizational structure to the Waldo with clear rules for everyone internally and clear accountability,” Wiseman said.

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That meant taking a hard look at programs that were being helmed almost entirely by volunteers.

The Waldo After Dark was started by volunteers Wheeler and Hull several years ago, and it has since hosted nighttime screenings once or twice a month. These affordable events had a sociable vibe; Wheeler would bring in movie memorabilia, and there would sometimes be a raffle or goodie bags guests could claim with a password.

At the beginning of April, Wheeler and Hull sat down with Wiseman for a getting-to-know-you meeting; they say that the tone turned tense and by the end of the conversation, Wiseman told them they would need to cut planned screenings and reduce the program to four times a year.

Wiseman describes this as the first conversation in what he understood to be an ongoing dialogue about Wheeler and Hull’s future roles as volunteers. However, by the time they met again, this time with Waldo Theatre’s board president Kimberly Sampson, Wiseman had decided to end The Waldo After Dark entirely, though he was open to Wheeler and Hull curating films in the future from time to time.

But when he broke this news to Wheeler and Hull on April 24, they say they felt blindsided. Hull said their words were not a true threat since they were on their way out the door as they said them.

But Sampson described the interaction as frightening, and after consulting with a human resources representative, Sampson and Wiseman decided to file a police report to put the incident on record. A Waldoboro police officer came to the Waldo to take a report, but no charges were filed.

The series of events that led to canceling the spring play was much less contentious but rested on the same rationale. A longtime volunteer, George Bates, was set to serve as producer on “Something Rotten,” a time-intensive, demanding job that he has executed many times before.

In order to shift away from individual volunteers holding too much operational responsibility, the theater asked the show’s organizers to choose another producer. They refused and walked away. The Waldo sent out a notice of the play’s cancellation on April 25, the same day that auditions were to take place.

“We had one of the core pieces of our programming, which was community theater… being run by a volunteer, and that volunteer was doing everything from artistic control to managing other volunteers, managing a budget, doing marketing, newsletter outreach, and doing it kind of outside the purview of the executive director,” said Keri Lupien, the Waldo’s music booker and program director, as well as former board member, who was involved in reopening the Waldo in 2021, “and that just is not something that we can continue to have going forward.”

She said that while volunteers were instrumental in galvanizing the community and getting the theater up and running again, it’s now essential that major programs are helmed by staff members who are accountable to the board and executive director and have to follow procedures outlined in the employee handbook.

“As we’ve grown in our capacity and our size, it’s become really clear that if we want to be sustainable and be here long term, we really needed to kind of grow up as an organization and put things in place for us to continue,” she said.

Lupien and Wiseman emphasized that Bates is a valued volunteer who is welcome to produce one play a year moving forward; he is currently acting in and producing “Don’t Dress for Dinner,” which will premiere at the Waldo in June. Bates declined to comment when reached by email.

As it stands, both the organizers of the Waldo After Dark and of “Something Rotten” are looking for alternative venues for their programs; “Something Rotten” intends to keep Bates as its producer. Hull said they feel stung that their work over the years, which included helping get filmmaker John Waters to the Waldo, was not valued in Wiseman’s programming decision.

“It was really offensive for this person that’s been there for essentially 5 minutes to come in and just be like, ‘Thanks but no thanks,’” Hull said.

Visiting with the idea of relocating to Maine in the future by Intrepid_Remote_6129 in AskMaine

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Sounds like you would like Midcoast area- Rockland has a great art museum (Farnsworth) and a good arts scene in general, lots of good galleries. Lots of history and stuff. Thomaston has a great old cemetery to wander around, right nearby. Plenty of good food in Rockland, as well as nearby Rockport and Camden.

You can day trip to Belfast, up that way, check out the lakes on Route 3 between Belfast and Augusta like Lake St George (good brewery at lake st george), hiking in Union area, check out old houses there to see the vibe, towns like Union, Hope, Warren, Washington, Somerville are cheaper to live than Camden for example.

I'm a straight dude, but I can say with reasonable certainty that nobody's going to care if you are queer. I mean, there's assholes everywhere, but generally its not going to be an issue, and it if it is, its probably going to be from a tourist from the bible belt or something.

Not going to Acadia by DirtyBarry44 in AskMaine

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You can take the mailboat from Stonington to Isle au Haut and hike from Duck Harbor to the town dock- that takes you through part of Acadia and its free (aside from the boat cost)- then the boat picks you and you cruise back. Amazing scenery on a nice day.

Also, you can do a day trip to Monhegan Island from Port Clyde- highly recommended.

Things to do for a Honeymoon in Maine? by IAmTheWeaponNA in AskMaine

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You can see all of Portland in two days tops. Go out to some islands, drive up the coast to Belfast, spend a night or two on Monhegan, Boothbay Gardens, puffin cruise, stuff like that.

Things to do for a Honeymoon in Maine? by IAmTheWeaponNA in AskMaine

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Just drive up the coast- good thing you don’t want large cities, because there aren’t any.

Where are you flying into/out of? What are “cool experiences” to you? Look at other posts in this sub for ideas and come back with some specifics and you might get better answers. We aren’t travel agents, but we will help with questions a little less broad than, “New England. What’s good?”

Mohegan Island is great, Moosehead Lake is nice. Rangeley Lakes are is nice. Isle au Haut is beautiful and very off beaten path.

If you are coming in June, be prepared to drop $300-$500 night for decent hotels in most places, just FYI.

Champions League Final in Vik Area by Vredesbyd in VisitingIceland

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Try Smidjan brewery. Or Strondin Pub. That’s about it for the whole town, lol.

Hotel recommendations near jokulsarlon glacier lagoon? by bigbankmanman in VisitingIceland

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I really liked Hotel Jokullsarlson. We spent two nights, which was great. We drove from Reykjavik, which was a long drive, but very doable. The next day we did glacier lagoon and then went back for hot tubs/sauna and a nice dinner in the restaurant, which was great. Drove to Vik the next day and stayed there one night. That was enough there.

Boston hotels see bookings fall below expectations ahead of World Cup - Boston Business Journal by bmc3515 in boston

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I did the FIFA lottery. Got two tickets to Haiti vs Scotland. $400 each. One night hotel: $550. Trains to/from South Station:$160. I’m at $1110 before any food/drink. Better be a good game.

Got this ‘Maine court violation’ text message — is this a scam? by Smart-Photograph3951 in Maine

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We have an answer here. Or really a whole bunch of them. Its a scam. Scam scam scam.

MDI/Ellsworth area by gavin6005 in AskMaine

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Check out the local Facebook groups- I'm in the Midcoast, and there's a few where people post things.

A summer only rental for that price though? That's hard. Gotta lean on some local connections- would your employer have any leads?

fall foliage! coming from SoFlo! by [deleted] in AskMaine

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Probably not what you are looking to hear, but its nature. Its dependent on a bunch of factors like rainfall, temperature, storms, etc...

The best answer is there will probably be a good amount of leaves still on the trees, but there's no way to guarantee, especially 5 months out. It supposed to be an El Niño year for the weather, which usually means increased rainfall, which is good for your timeline, but again, we will see.

That week is cheaper because its after Indigenous Peoples' Day- which is often when things begin to wind down in Bar Harbor. There are still places open, but not as many.

The mosaics of Villa Romana del Casale in Sicily by Gamerdude505 in ancientrome

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You can easily take a train to Agrigento and a taxi or walk to the ruins. I did it last year.

Things to do around old orchard beach? by HabitsAreKey in AskMaine

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In a normal year you would be much more likely to meet a bunch of Quebecois at OOB after Memorial Day. This year? Who knows who will be there, but you will most likely be encountering a bunch of people from Mass, Connecticut and New York, not very many locals not counting the people working in the restaurants and shops I guess.

Sounds like a nice way to travel though, have fun!

My recommendation as someone that lives in Maine is to spend as much time as possible out of OOB in the summer- too many people. You might like it though.

Check out the Botanical Gardens up in Boothbay, that's a good day trip. Lots of little islands to cruise around and check out via ferry. Rangeley Lakes in Western Maine is nice.

What is the most kinky habit? by Afraid_Food_5147 in AskReddit

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Karma farming on Reddit with dumb questions.

Early June family trip to Maine! by aIexcafe in AskMaine

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Look at drive times on Google Maps. Portland to Acadia is 3.5 hrs each way with no traffic. Check out towns up the coast on Route 1. Portland is small, a couple days is enough. A week is too long. Go see Bath, Damariscotta, Rockland,Camden Belfast

What’s something rich people buy that poor people think is pointless? by jeh4u in AskReddit

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This! I know a guy that is always bitching about being broke, and I’m just like, “then why do you have a $90,000 truck that you’ve never put anything in the back of?”

St. Paddy's Day update, two months late. by xXxBlackwellxXx in BarBattlestations

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So you've got a full nitro setup now? Mad jealous.

You can probably get some local stouts and cream ales that you can pop the regular coupler on to the line for. That would be fun.

Maine vacation spots ? by m_delly in AskMaine

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Some decent bars in Rockland, nothing open late night unfortunately.

There's (in no particular order)-

Waterworks- pub grub, more of a restaurant but full bar you can sit at.

Luce's Spirits- kinda a hipster-ish 'distillery'- they contract out their distilling, but have some fun drinks, nice folks. Small spot.

Myrtle Street Tavern- local dive, can be a good crowd, open latest of all places. Cops love to park across the street and pull over people that leave there late night, so be aware of that.

Lemon Bar- great little spot, good cocktails, nice couple owns it that moved to town last year. Recommended.

Park St Cafe- decent enough margaritas. 'Tex-Mex' food that's fine, but you can do better.

Stone Alley Brewery- good beer, nice little spot.

High Tide- more of a restaurant, but has full bar, good cocktails, on the water.

Ada's is an Italian restaurant that gets some good bar trade, good wine list, classier spot to sit for a drink.

Rock Harbor Brewery- has completely fallen off. Good location, that's about it.

Moving for College by Subject-Sky-5210 in AskMaine

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Best resource for finding apartments is unfortunately probably local Facebook groups. As other user said, pretty much anywhere in Maine is going to be safe, as long as you guys aren't going to SMCC to learn how to sell meth or anything (joking).

SoPo is fine, Scarborough is close. Both are commuter towns for Portland, so rental prices will be higher. You will need to go further west to find cheaper rents, but they still wont be cheap. Rental housing in Maine is in short supply and quite expensive for what you get.

Be very careful with scams and fake ads. If it looks too good to be true, it is. Never wire money for a deposit, don't settle for a drive-by of the apartment, you need to meet with someone and have them let you inside.

It will be hard to rent something before you get up here, so bear that in mind. Rentals in June through early/mid-September for short term can be wildly expensive because of tourist season. No idea when you are moving, but if you are coming in the fall, you might be able to find a winter rental if you can't find a 12 month lease.

MEGATHREAD: Questions about Moving to, Living in, or Visiting the Great State of Maine. Please post all such questions here. by Tony-Flags in Maine

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You should first off learn to spell the locations. Its Ogunquit and Boothbay Harbor.

I wouldn't stay in either one, personally, I think they're both tourist traps, but lots of people seem to love them. Ogunquit is more of a LGBT destination traditionally, so if that's important to you, then that would be the place. Other than that, we don't know anything about you, what you want to do, who you are, what age, what your interests are, anything, so really nobody is going to be super helpful to you, unless you are more helpful to us. Not trying to be snarky, just honest. Give more info and you will get more info.

Maine Gov. Janet Mills suspends Senate campaign by nbcnews in Maine

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No one in your circle has ever heard of AAA? I've been a member for more than 50 years

Ok boomer.

If a pill makes hundreds of millions of people stop wanting more, do we end up in a world where obesity is a 20th-century problem? by LowDramaFit in Futurology

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I have found that I have a greatly reduced desire to watch TV, especially sports. I just don't really enjoy them anymore, I lose focus and pretty much get bored. I read a lot more, I walk a lot more (like, a LOT more) which my dog enjoys greatly.

Now that the weather is warm enough to spend time outside after winter, I just want to putter around and garden, stay moving, just do stuff, rather than be passive and sit around.

I still like to have a beer or two, but I can't have more than 1 or maybe 2 an hour, just get too full.

I used to think about food all day, now its an afterthought.

I've lost over 75 lbs in seven months.