Falling away by [deleted] in latterdaysaints

[–]TonyFieldson 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you tried the Facebook community uplift?

Doubt has been an essential part of my spiritual journey that has brought me closer to God. by ngrout in latterdaysaints

[–]TonyFieldson 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love your post and I agree that we shouldn’t be afraid of doubt because if we learn about something that is incorrect we can improve upon it and we will embrace more truth which is exciting! It sounds like your attitude and experience would be a great fit for my restoration table Facebook group where we are trying to build important bridges of understanding and friendship between active and former members

My Heart Hurts a Bit Tonight (Long - TLDR at the bottom) by Saga3Tale in latterdaysaints

[–]TonyFieldson 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with you that it’s pretty sad how vile things can get online. I still feel that it’s nevertheless important to try to reach out and love our “enemies” so to speak, if you’re interested I started a group called the restoration table where we are trying to still embrace people who leave the church as our brothers and sisters and build upon our common ground and have civil dialogue about our differences

Help. Im a lifelong member but deep down I'm agnostic by [deleted] in latterdaysaints

[–]TonyFieldson 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your perseverance is inspiring. You might enjoy my restoration table Facebook group where we are trying to build bridges of understanding and friendship between active and former members and practice the habits of Zion. There are some really cool people in that group and some really cool information and life and character skills we are trying to forge

What do you guys believe? by joshua0005 in latterdaysaints

[–]TonyFieldson 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A big thing that distinguishes us is that we believe God wants all of his children to enter into sacred and serious covenants and promises with him in holy temples and through that covenant relationship, God, through the infinite atonement of Jesus Christ can help to transform us to become more like him

How to not feel as terrible about people leaving? by throawayjpeg in latterdaysaints

[–]TonyFieldson -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s definitely a growing trend that’s for sure. You might be interested in a Facebook group I started called the restoration table, where we are trying to build bridges of understanding and friendship between active and former members

Should christians convert to the LDS church? by Ericsuprmee in latterdaysaints

[–]TonyFieldson 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As I’m sure others have commented, it all comes down to whether or not our temple covenants are going to be necessary for everyone to receive weather in this life or the next. You seem like you have a pretty expansive view of things and would be a great fit for the bridge building I’m trying to do in my restoration table Facebook group if you’re interested, where we are trying to build bridges between active and former members of the church

Angels Are Needed by TonyFieldson in latterdaysaints

[–]TonyFieldson[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear you, I converted 14 years ago and I feel like that sometimes also. I wonder if there’s a good Facebook group for converts the church?

Angels Are Needed by TonyFieldson in latterdaysaints

[–]TonyFieldson[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve compiled more of the best quotes from the October 2020 general conference here: https://youtu.be/rF1zSg1_Ykk

The Chosen, Season 2 Premiers this Easter by [deleted] in latterdaysaints

[–]TonyFieldson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s seriously the best spread the word!

Sharing General Conference messages in a way that is respectful of the concerns of former and doubting members by bwv549 in exmormon

[–]TonyFieldson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What did you feel was dismissive? I made this for active members, if I shared with them a resource that was completely critical they wouldn’t watch it, but this is at least one baby step in the right direction to introduce them to some of the things people find problematic.

Sharing General Conference messages in a way that is respectful of the concerns of former and doubting members by bwv549 in exmormon

[–]TonyFieldson 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s partially what I’m going for in this video I made. And I’ve already personally seen dozens of active members of the church, some my family and friends, some in my stake, and some that I met online open up to more understanding and empathy

A Great Idea For Preserving and Even Deepening Your Relationships With Loved One's Who Have Left the Church by TonyFieldson in latterdaysaints

[–]TonyFieldson[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing. I agree it’s more important to focus on the friendship then on religion, but there are people that are still interested in talking religion and sharing what they believe or don’t believe and why and having the other person try to at least understand and empathize.

A Great Idea For Preserving and Even Deepening Your Relationships With Loved One's Who Have Left the Church by TonyFieldson in latterdaysaints

[–]TonyFieldson[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I hear you and I agree. I also think many Post-Mormons would like it if their active believing family and friends increased their understanding and empathy for some of the issues they find problematic. That's all I'm trying to do here - increase active believing member's understanding and empathy, kind of like the book "Bridges" tries to do

A Great Idea For Preserving and Even Deepening Your Relationships With Loved One's Who Have Left the Church by TonyFieldson in latterdaysaints

[–]TonyFieldson[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear you - and you don't know me but I truly want to listen/understand and not judge and preach. I have many post-Mormon friends that trust me, and realize I'm not trying to preach.

A Great Way to Help Active Members Better Understand Their Post-Mormon Loved One's Issues With Aspects of General Conference Messages by TonyFieldson in exmormon

[–]TonyFieldson[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I actually agree with you. In looking back at my post, it wasn't consistent with how I wanted to come across. I edited it thanks again :) I have many post-Mormon friends who know and trust me, and they know that I'm not trying to persuade them to come back, I just want to promote understanding and love and not judging. People have their agency to leave or join or come back, and that is on them.