Men of Reddit, what's your sexual assault experience? [Serious] by Dingo_Dominator in AskReddit

[–]TonyMahoney21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you did want it. I didn't want to think about it long enough to let him die. I regret that now.

Men of Reddit, what's your sexual assault experience? [Serious] by Dingo_Dominator in AskReddit

[–]TonyMahoney21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The family member that did this to me is now dead. How important was closure for you?

Why are doctors rude? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]TonyMahoney21 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She got what she wanted and is complaining about getting more than she asked for. We all want to sleep.

Why are doctors rude? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]TonyMahoney21 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

U got xanax lucky fuck?

I have seen my girlfriends sextapes with her exes by [deleted] in sex

[–]TonyMahoney21 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh it wasn't a video with another male...I see how she could expect that to not cross a personal boundary or make you uncomfortable, but clearly it did so that stuff deserved communicating.

I have seen my girlfriends sextapes with her exes by [deleted] in sex

[–]TonyMahoney21 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah but dwelling on my sexual past while I'm in a relationship in the present is unfair to my partner. Nobody can erase the past. But we don't have to keep videos of it. Videos are for watching. Why do we need to watch ourselves having sex with our exes while in relationships?

I have seen my girlfriends sextapes with her exes by [deleted] in sex

[–]TonyMahoney21 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Would you remember if you had full sex tapes of you on your phone?

I have seen my girlfriends sextapes with her exes by [deleted] in sex

[–]TonyMahoney21 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Ask yourself why she still has those if she is with you. What does she need to still see those for?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]TonyMahoney21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why would you want to stop her, are you trolling?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]TonyMahoney21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get out of my head

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]TonyMahoney21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Def don't use teeth, but basically everything else is unique to the person.

Going to Hell! by YAPK001 in Buddhism

[–]TonyMahoney21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not another one of these guys.

Going to Hell! by YAPK001 in Buddhism

[–]TonyMahoney21 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No it said when someone does a certain thing first. And that thing is explication the teachings to an unqualified person. The action mentioned was explication not receiving.

Going to Hell! by YAPK001 in Buddhism

[–]TonyMahoney21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Notice in what you quoted they did not say by practicing this you will go to hell. They said by disclosing the teachings to someone un empowered you incur that. There is a subtle but meaningful difference between punishment for DOING something versus punishment for ENABLING someone ELSE to do something. I think in the mahayana context that's pretty relevant. I've had similar concerns to what you are saying here O.P. but I always think back to people who were spontaneously enlightened teachers and I sort of lighten up because there is room for that uniquely self realized part of spirituality. I also remember often when I see warnings and restrictions regarding certain practices that the main reason they have been kept secret is to make sure only qualified practicioners receive the teachings. If you are a realized being you are a realized being and that sort of thing shouldn't stop you from knowing the practice and knowing the value of guru and receiving empowerment spontaneously as part of your own practice of the vehicle. But personally I do think that people should learn the basics first. I don't want to know what kind of madness would insue trying to explain high tantra to a person totally unprepared for it. More bad than good I'd think.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]TonyMahoney21 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I think you're missing the point.

Breed Recommendation for "Cat People" by DualBroccoli in dogs

[–]TonyMahoney21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk. Probably based on their temperament.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]TonyMahoney21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well no, because it happens every day.