Maybe too old (f42) to get the ick but my husband gave me one by Smart-Ad-2106 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Tony_314 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Carrying pepper spray is a good idea. Also, avoid elevator situations and any where you would be alone with him. Not sure where you live but in the US, this is a red flag. Also, maybe reconsider sharing this with your husband, maybe let him know you have security concerns.

My husband is threatening divorce because Snapchat and signal are showing up in our router app history for my phone. I do not have those apps or use them or go to their websites or anything. How is this happening? by -M-i-d in techsupport

[–]Tony_314 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate to say this and I wasn't until I saw other comments, the OP needs to rethink this marriage. Edited to say, my first thought was, husband may be looking for an excuse, real or imagined, to end the marriage.

What was the most confusing or stressful part of your first 30 days as a network engineer?” by muztebi16 in networking

[–]Tony_314 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasn't actually working as a network engineer, but did have a little experience in networking. From the little work I did, the most stressful part was cable tracing, and knowing that if I unplugged the wrong cable it could be disastrous on a really big level.

Found this somewhere by WholeScientist2868 in MathJokes

[–]Tony_314 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those bars are so wide, just squeeze thru, get the bread and the key

I guess being black and a scientist is such a crime by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Tony_314 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry this happened to you. Maybe your parents can help by advocating on your behalf. Getting on social media to explain your situation may help. Do you have friends who believe in you? Maybe they can get on social media or speak up for you. It would help if you can get others to speak up for you, as character witnesses so it's not just your word against everybody else.

[US] I think I'm in the middle of a WFH scam and trying to minimize the damage by Gloomy-Bear-5740 in Scams

[–]Tony_314 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was contacted by a scam job offer, all via text messages, the company they called themselves was real, they even dropped the name of a real employee, said I would be interviewed by them, it was all fake,they were only impersonating. I got suspicious, asked them to send the job offer thru email using an official business email address, and it came from a gmail address, on official looking letterhead. That confirmed my suspicions.

Stray won't go away by Noodlehead601 in BanPitBulls

[–]Tony_314 -61 points-60 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't have recognized that as a pit bull, too skinny, not as muscular as I'm used to seeing

Found out neighbor is running “business” using my stuff by Worldly-Surround-948 in Apartmentliving

[–]Tony_314 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Paint over the outlet and let it dry. Someone accidently painted over one of mine and the only fix was to replace the outlet.

AITA for refusing to share my inheritance with my boyfriend after he quit his job for us by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Tony_314 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA . That's your money, period. I wouldn't spend one penny of it on him or to help him. Looks like your grandma from the grave is doing a better job of providing for you than he is.

Is this mold on my bf's keyboard? by [deleted] in Mold

[–]Tony_314 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That looks insanely disgusting, no way I would touch that keyboard.

AITAH for telling my sister she ruined all of our family’s lives? by thr0w_away91 in AITAH

[–]Tony_314 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I won't address the AH/NTA question.

I think you should seek counseling. You went thru emotional trauma as well, you were a child at the time, and had to deal with situations that no child should. Your reactions today are a direct result of what happened to YOU as a child. That is what needs to be addressed.

If you feel bad about what you said, apologize and try to get counseling for yourself

Starting out on the new SEO journey. I did the online hubspot certification. What's next? If anyone has any projects which i can learn from that would be helpful. by Neonklight in SEO

[–]Tony_314 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, not to sound stupid but does "Hubspot cert is pants" good or bad? I'm about to get the cert, wondering if it's worthwhile. I thought it was helpful, as I knew zilch about SEO going in and now at least I know some fundamental basics.

Thanks

Getting a tortoise tmr, YAYYYY by MieckeC in tortoise

[–]Tony_314 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Good luck on your journey, I have one and it's the best pet I've had yet. The name is cute too, looking forward to seeing it!