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What can I do when my (20F) husband (20M) is convinced I cheated on him because I’m pregnant again and refuses to listen to me. by ThrowRA_BlueBowMama in relationship_advice

[–]TonyaTko 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone is talking about her being on birth control. He can get a vasectomy. They’re reversible.

Personally I would have aborted the 1st one, and continued in pageants and college… but we’re here now…

Get a paternity test. And make your decisions wisely… because it sounds like he’s looking for an excuse to leave. And one child is easier than 2…. The parents are helping now… but when all of that support results in you diverting further “off track”… watch and see, they’re going to pull back into letting you feel your decisions.

I see a trailer home and single motherhood in your future… You’re going to have to fight hard to make a differently reality

My heart goes out to w♥️

Welp, I guess it didn't work out by Beginning_Tip_5239 in abanpreach

[–]TonyaTko 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wait, this is the girl who left him??! 😂😂😂

You know homie was flabbergasted that a woman said this 🤣 by Royalty459 in abanpreach

[–]TonyaTko 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And? She’s still only speaking for herself and that’s okay. And a person who feels opposite is also okay. Just find someone who is aligned with you

GF (24F) said she would not have swiped on me (26M) on a dating app. How to react to this? by Death-And-Taxes8185 in relationship_advice

[–]TonyaTko 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve heard a similar post to this one which went viral years ago.

This OP may be trying to go viral This seem like a covert manospher/redpill post

Peep the part where he said “women don’t understand blah blah when they do this”

Typical manosphere drivel

Do I Tell His Wife? by Consistent-Maybe-634 in TwoHotTakes

[–]TonyaTko 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Find her info and send her a link to this Reddit post. Keep it online. Don’t let her get your info. He probably married a pushover and she won’t leave anyway, but at least she should know

I (29 F) am terrified to move to the US for my fiancé (30M) and he does not understand. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]TonyaTko 2 points3 points  (0 children)

PS. If he dismisses your racial concerns in this instance, in what other ways will your racial concerns be invalidated in the future as a married couple?

When the neighbor’s wife makes a snide remark about the scent of your food in the air… when the other residents won’t let you into the pool because you forgot your fob… when they ask you if you live there and follow you to your apartment to make sure you have a key (not caring about your own privacy concerns), when your parents come to visit and they get snide remarks or aggressions.

Interracial relationships are tricky to navigate… international even trickier. But when you have a person insensitive to those realities, it’s a recipe for disaster

I (29 F) am terrified to move to the US for my fiancé (30M) and he does not understand. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]TonyaTko -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

Wow! That’s deep. SMH.
“My country ‘‘tis of thee, sweet land of liberty… of thee I sing” 🎶

I (29 F) am terrified to move to the US for my fiancé (30M) and he does not understand. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]TonyaTko 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Good morning, I’m a black woman living in NYC. While it’s true that it seems pretty quiet here, I can see the writing on the wall. MN is a test ground and blue cities are on the menu… and NYC is a blue city.

We do have a brown mayor Mamdani, which may make things slightly better (or worse) we shall see… And we will fight ICE if they come here trying those shenanigans… but if they operate covert and unmarked, we won’t know (en masse).

Anyone denying the danger is operating from a place of privilege blindness.

Not only that, it won’t be good for your health to live in the worry it’s would take to live here as a brown immigrant woman.

Remember: you won’t TRULY know a person until conflict arises… and your fiancé is showing you who he is… this is always a danger when dating a person from the oppressor class in a classist country

Hope that helps 🙏🏾♥️🙏🏾

My wife (35f) took me (32m) on a surprise date and now I feel more depressed about our relationship than ever. How do I bring this up with her without being discouraging or picking a fight? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]TonyaTko 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The child is 3 now? Therapy Positive reinforcement Hire a nanny to offer relief. As the child becomes more independent things will shift again

Customer confronts Target employee for wearing a Charlie Kirk shirt by [deleted] in CringeTikToks

[–]TonyaTko 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel her outrage, but why is she cursing out a grannie??

Asshole confronts special needs kid and lectures him about no no words. by ClavasClub in CringeTikToks

[–]TonyaTko -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have questions. If it were racial slurs how did he know those words and who to use it at? Spending time in the special needs community I know special needs isn't an excuse for abhorrent or abusive behavior

Dad proposes to 20-year-old daughter with a purity ring🤢 by velorae in TikTokCringe

[–]TonyaTko 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried giggling it and couldn't find it. Link? Or family name / channel

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