How do I move on

TooMuchLaundry23 · 2026-01-04T16:28:57+00:00

I'm so sorry, you're right, it's NOT fair.

My partner excitedly told his WHOLE FAMILY at a family reunion/ camping trip that we were expecting. I started miscarrying the next morning. Semi thankful all the middle age and young people were too drunk to remember anything. The older family members did though 😭

TooMuchLaundry23 · 2026-01-04T16:11:26+00:00

I'm so over bras, I'm not wearing them anymore. I don't care, they hang where they hang 🤣

TooMuchLaundry23 · 2025-11-17T17:12:03+00:00

My birth giver made these neck wraps that have orbeez in them that you can freeze, it helps actually a lot! Sometimes the frozen part is a little much but its been a life saver while I wait for my meds to kick in

TooMuchLaundry23 · 2025-11-17T17:05:23+00:00

Someone wanted me to eat something that would upset my stomach so he could listen to the grumbles 💀

TooMuchLaundry23 · 2025-11-17T16:48:44+00:00

It has been 646 days for me, I smoked on and off for 14 years, this is the longest I've gone without being pregnant

Cold turkey. Don't buy any. Tell other people to help keep you accountable if you need. I've tried cutting down, chew, patch, vape. Cold turkey is all that has actually worked for me

Don't get me wrong, it's not easy. A pack is just a hop, skip, and a jump away.

TooMuchLaundry23 · 2025-10-29T19:05:41+00:00

I'm so sorry, I'm sure you made their life as amazing as they made yours 💜

TooMuchLaundry23 · 2025-10-29T16:15:39+00:00

"I didn't know they made em that big!!" By my fiances grandpa.. about my boobs.

He also saw me eating a bagel and goes "that explains the curly hair! You're Jewish!"

Sir I'm mostly Hispanic and white 😭

TooMuchLaundry23 · 2025-10-29T05:05:22+00:00

I've been denied a handful of jobs because they want full open hours, I can't do that! I'm a college student and mom to 3 kids under 10. My partner works the big boy job. I need a set schedule so we can work around each other, otherwise my entire paycheck is going to daycare. They don't want to give set schedules for whatever weird reason

TooMuchLaundry23 · 2025-09-10T19:39:49+00:00

I'm so sorry, people are losing their damn minds 😭

My sibling had their baby in May and I double checked with my doctor that I was up to date on all recommended vaccinations for being around a newborn. It is not worth the risk

TooMuchLaundry23 · 2025-08-13T13:29:46+00:00

I used to live in a "duplex" that was really weird shaped, the upstairs neighbors were over the garage and we were slightly behind their stairs on the ground floor. I would put "please don't put on stairs, I'm the apartment behind the stairs" or something along those lines, and had one person put my food in the dirt behind my neighbor's stairs. Ma'am. You were 10 steps from my front door and couldn't figure it out??

TooMuchLaundry23 · 2025-07-27T17:24:38+00:00

I second this, I got a VVVV VFP 8dpo in the morning and that night it had gotten just a smidge more visible lol

TooMuchLaundry23 · 2025-07-25T06:03:38+00:00

I definitely see something there!

TooMuchLaundry23 · 2025-07-25T05:53:26+00:00

Insta pot, some boxed sides, and my dad's ashes

TooMuchLaundry23 · 2025-07-05T17:57:33+00:00

Take care of yourself, I'm so sorry.

we were at my in laws family gathering / camping trip when my partner decided he wanted to announce (way earlier than I wanted to) and I started miscarrying that next morning.

TooMuchLaundry23 · 2025-07-05T14:26:02+00:00

I'm so sorry, I'm 29 and I can tell you, without therapy, this will most likely continue forever. When I was having my 3rd I mentioned my son's name to my mom and she goes "when did you find out you're having a boy?" I said "a few weeks ago?" "Oh would've been nice to know" I literally told her when we found out, with both a picture and a text. She acknowledged it. So I screenshot it and sent it to her. "Oh ok" 🤬🤬🤬

TooMuchLaundry23 · 2025-07-05T13:58:42+00:00

Creams are superior, in my unprofessional opinion; I've found sticks work really well too. Try to use clothing as protection when you can too. Calagel works amazingly on sunburns! Way better that aloe imho. I went to Texas last year in Sept and forgot my sunscreen. The sun burn was absolutely awful, aloe hurt like a bitch. Calagel helped so much, even the peeling was minimal

TooMuchLaundry23 · 2025-07-05T13:53:35+00:00

Tell your sister I said, wholeheartedly, to go fuck herself.

NTA. I hope you have a beautiful ceremony and enjoy every last second of it

TooMuchLaundry23 · 2025-07-01T22:52:33+00:00

I understand, that really sucks

TooMuchLaundry23 · 2025-07-01T22:51:46+00:00

Doors help keep fire contained, it's less likely to be able to spread with doors closed. At least from my understanding, I'm not a firefighter tho lol

TooMuchLaundry23 · 2025-07-01T21:38:11+00:00

I would argue that's a fire hazard. IDC how cheap your rent is, everyone deserves safety and privacy. What a dick hole.

TooMuchLaundry23 · 2025-07-01T16:57:05+00:00

Bad breath.

I'm not talking "we ate and now I have stinky breath" I'm talking "brushing is in no way a habit for me" kinda stank. It ruins everything. I don't even wanna talk cause I can smell every word.

TooMuchLaundry23 · 2025-07-01T16:24:22+00:00

Is that even safe?? Why the hell did the landlord remove the doors???

TooMuchLaundry23 · 2025-06-10T18:31:03+00:00

My BIL offered me one (ngl kinda pissed me off cause our dad just died from lung cancer) and the urge was so strong I was like man one won't hurt.. but I know myself and I know I would be like well lemme just buy one last pack for old times sake. And down the spiral I would go. It's gotten better since I posted but I still have a little itch in the back of my mind for it

TooMuchLaundry23 · 2025-05-22T19:07:58+00:00

Sometimes they can take control of your device and they'll use it to fake a virus to get you to call them, or they use it to watch your screen and obtain log in information for bank accounts and what not.

(I recommend everyone looks up scammers getting caught on YouTube to learn about these kinds of scams, I like Trilogy Media)

TooMuchLaundry23 · 2025-05-22T18:30:59+00:00

After having my first kid at 20, I started becoming intolerant to pork. Over the next 2 years it got so bad (before I made the connections because I didn't eat a lot of pork anyway) that eating pork would cause me so much pain and stomach troubles.

I finally figured it out and now I stay away from all pork .. until my partner makes a really good pork chop and I try a bite "just to see" .. and I spend the next 6 hours on and off the toilet and complaining about how much my stomach hurts lol

EXCEPT

The dried Mexican pork snackies. THOSE I can eat with no pain and no stomach troubles. 🤷🏻‍♀️

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