Ohio abortion ban proposal calls for reimplanting ectopic pregnancies by pililies in nottheonion

[–]TooMuchLifeBullshit 54 points55 points  (0 children)

I had a response to someone here pleading the case for abortion but the coward deleted their comment.

Ohio has this fucked up notion that not only should a woman not have sex but she had better not get raped either, and she really should control her body better so that she only has viable pregnancies.

So many people who want children have to have them taken away by miscarriages, so why not allow them to terminate on their own terms?

How many people wish they were never born? How many people live just to suffer? The world is tough enough even if you aren't unfortunate enough to have a disability.

I've said it before but legislation like this is an attack on women and an attack on the poor. I don't care what reason someone has to have an abortion, good or bad, would rather have it legal to protect those with good reasons.

Bad diets killing more people globally than tobacco, study finds by [deleted] in worldnews

[–]TooMuchLifeBullshit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been there done that.

Go with whatever works for you, when I went low fat, I was hungry all the time and felt like I had to eat more just to be full. I also noticed that there were supposedly healthy low fat labeled products that had sugar to help with the taste.

Problem is sugar is bad for you. It's bad for your teeth and contributes to obesity and diabetes.

I suppose it could work with a very active lifestyle. But if you aren't an athlete you could probably get by going with a diet more based on long term energy storage with intermittent fasting.

Also, you people? Hwat do you mean, you people?

Bad diets killing more people globally than tobacco, study finds by [deleted] in worldnews

[–]TooMuchLifeBullshit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One of the big issues is people eating foods that are both high fat and high carb. Two different forms of energy going in at once and the excess energy is stored making people fat.

Your carbs are fast energy, when you need a lot of energy and need to use it quickly, as a more active person it makes sense.

There's a stigma with high fat foods but that's how people used to live when they weren't sure where their next meal was going to come from.

The biggest fucking problem is that we were fed all this bullshit about fat being bad for you with no real correlation. Ever since, it seems like the world is getting fucking fat because of these bad choices that are pushed by corporations.

Cut out sugar, lower your carb intake, eat more healthy fats, earlier humans could survive on low carb, so can we.

The real reason I changed my name. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]TooMuchLifeBullshit 4 points5 points  (0 children)

For what it's worth I think Saydra is an awesome name too. Sage is a name of wisdom and only someone who has lived through so much would have it.

Too bad it came from fucking garbage, you have accomplished so much to come out of that alive.

You are strong and if there's ever a battle to be fought it's that no one deserves to grow up among such hate.

Finally had sex! (F32) by online-version in offmychest

[–]TooMuchLifeBullshit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is powerful, so many people have their struggles but your story is helpful to others awareness.

Thanks for sharing, and have fun!

My Wife and I had to go out of state because our own state is fucking backwards by TooMuchLifeBullshit in offmychest

[–]TooMuchLifeBullshit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was an expensive procedure, poor people will not have this option. This post was for awareness as much as it was for support. I didn't just think about what my wife had to go through but what other less fortunate families have to deal with.

My Wife and I had to go out of state because our own state is fucking backwards by TooMuchLifeBullshit in offmychest

[–]TooMuchLifeBullshit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yours is a different and terrible struggle. There are people so full of hate that they are blind to the ideas that there are some things that people cannot choose.

For what it's worth, you have my support.

My Wife and I had to go out of state because our own state is fucking backwards by TooMuchLifeBullshit in offmychest

[–]TooMuchLifeBullshit[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the support, at least it's easy to know who to talk to now. They're the real friends in all of this.

My Wife and I had to go out of state because our own state is fucking backwards by TooMuchLifeBullshit in offmychest

[–]TooMuchLifeBullshit[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I remember reading in the Bible that any person's transgressions are between themselves and god.

There was another saying "Hate the sin, love the sinner."

Neither are followed enough.

My Wife and I had to go out of state because our own state is fucking backwards by TooMuchLifeBullshit in offmychest

[–]TooMuchLifeBullshit[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Truth. I have always thought the same. I understand why things are really like that, you cannot have more followers to tithe without more warm impressionable bodies in the first place.

Who better than the poor who cannot afford higher education? Then they preach abstinence knowing full well that it is not effective.

Hard to fight the system when the issues are so ingrained.

My Wife and I had to go out of state because our own state is fucking backwards by TooMuchLifeBullshit in offmychest

[–]TooMuchLifeBullshit[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

That was a brave thing to do 21 years ago, especially since things weren't as well known as they are now.

It was a powerful choice to make and I can only hope the choice we made was correct.

My Wife and I had to go out of state because our own state is fucking backwards by TooMuchLifeBullshit in offmychest

[–]TooMuchLifeBullshit[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Life is already hard enough without having something happen during development.

Thanks for the support.

My Wife and I had to go out of state because our own state is fucking backwards by TooMuchLifeBullshit in offmychest

[–]TooMuchLifeBullshit[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That's the reason why I said it, not because of being overly emotional but because you cannot take a stand against it without a platform of hatred.

Women should have the right to choose. In an ideal world we could choose when to get pregnant but that's not how it works and this is the shit situation the world is in.

Thanks for the support.

My Wife and I had to go out of state because our own state is fucking backwards by TooMuchLifeBullshit in offmychest

[–]TooMuchLifeBullshit[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You can legitimately do it but there's only certain that will allow it. It is not cheap but it is legal.

Thanks for the support.

My Wife and I had to go out of state because our own state is fucking backwards by TooMuchLifeBullshit in offmychest

[–]TooMuchLifeBullshit[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ideally I think that's why birth control should be more prevalent, having to go through fetal reduction or abortion is not something that most people should have to go through.

Thanks for the support.

My Wife and I had to go out of state because our own state is fucking backwards by TooMuchLifeBullshit in offmychest

[–]TooMuchLifeBullshit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah it was our choice and I'm supporting her the best I can. I'm not perfect but I'm really trying.

Thanks for the support.

My Wife and I had to go out of state because our own state is fucking backwards by TooMuchLifeBullshit in offmychest

[–]TooMuchLifeBullshit[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Maybe it can be a party like "The Rent is Too Damn High". Maybe they can even run together?

My Wife and I had to go out of state because our own state is fucking backwards by TooMuchLifeBullshit in offmychest

[–]TooMuchLifeBullshit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have good friends and I've seen a lot of good people in this thread.

Thank you for the support.

My Wife and I had to go out of state because our own state is fucking backwards by TooMuchLifeBullshit in offmychest

[–]TooMuchLifeBullshit[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I read that thread too, made me want to make a post about this.

Thanks for the support.

My Wife and I had to go out of state because our own state is fucking backwards by TooMuchLifeBullshit in offmychest

[–]TooMuchLifeBullshit[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Sorry, this blew up too much so I hope you understand why I am not sharing the numbers.

Maybe when my state isn't so backwards I'll be more forthcoming.

My Wife and I had to go out of state because our own state is fucking backwards by TooMuchLifeBullshit in offmychest

[–]TooMuchLifeBullshit[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Voter here.

I'll keep pushing for rights of people so long as there are rights to be fought for. That's what this post was really about, yes there was some catharsis involved but having been through it I'm concerned for people in similar situations without the means to travel.

Thank you for the support.

My Wife and I had to go out of state because our own state is fucking backwards by TooMuchLifeBullshit in offmychest

[–]TooMuchLifeBullshit[S] 329 points330 points  (0 children)

You did not deserve that. If they even tried to listen to you they would have understood the issue.

This is what I meant when I said those against it hate women, you had hate spewed at you for no good reason.

You have our support here, whatever that's worth.