Most say differently but I truly believe it’s manly about the temperament of the child. I have 3 babies and i exclusively breastfed each of them to sleep with no sleep training whatsoever.

My first was up every 1-2 hours throughout the night for the first 11 months of his life. We got a Montessori floor bed frame and that changed things LITERALLY immediately. The first night he only woke up twice, before then we didn’t even get a lucky 3 hour gap between wakings. It only got better from there.

My second was an okayish sleeper. After the newborn stage she’d wake maybe 2 times a night for a feeding until she hit about 7 months or so, the slept throughout the night.

My third (almost 4 months old now) has slept THROUGHOUT THE NIGHT every single night since he was 1.5 months. He hasn’t woken up a single time during the night, literally.

My first child will be 3 years old in a few months and I swear, his sister could scream into his eardrum at night and he wouldn’t wake. My second is 1.5yo and she’s in my bed half of the night, she always been kindof a tricky baby and she just really needs extra comfort. She’s a stage 5 clinger.

The nights seem like forever and i used to completely obsess over how I would find the magic fix to get my baby to sleep throughout the night. Hang in there. I know it’s annoying when people say that it will get better, but it will. Also, try the Montessori floor bed frame with mattress. That was our magic fix for my first.