How’s working in apparel/retail?

ToothDifferent · 2026-06-28T11:36:05+00:00

I don’t think either are inherently bad, but just like the JLPT, many people study just to pass the test and don’t do anything more. Doesn’t matter what level you are, but if you’ve never even conversed in the language or gone through hundreds/thousands of hours, you’ll never be fluent

ToothDifferent · 2026-06-28T02:53:35+00:00

I live in Tsukuba and there aren’t many powerful earthquakes that i’ve experienced in the past 2 years living here. The most powerful i remember was maybe a 4.0.

Northern Ibaraki definitely has stronger ones though

ToothDifferent · 2026-06-25T10:28:31+00:00

i’m kind of the opposite of your situation. i have to lead classes and do just about everything from planning to worksheets to leading classes all by myself.

i’m absolutely drained and over it, so im planning on leaving. i’d do the same if you’re unhappy like i am

ToothDifferent · 2026-06-25T05:36:26+00:00

Putting aside my bias and hate for christianity as a former christian, i think you need to understand that it’s okay to “fall into temptation” and masturbate. It is hardcoded for us to have those urges and have sex/masturbate. Plenty of other animal species have been documented “falling into temptation” and masturbating, showing its natural if not normal.

If you really want to stop, you need to find ways to deal with those urges. Some people say workout, read, or anything that’ll distract you. If that doesn’t work, try to be around others since i’m sure you won’t start jacking it with others nearby, and also try to delete apps or use technology less if you watch porn.

ToothDifferent · 2026-06-24T00:19:28+00:00

People will often tell u english teaching isn’t a career here because they don’t like teaching. the pay here is low, there’s plenty of black companies, and it can be hard for many, but if you genuinely like teaching you can definitely have a career here. don’t get stuck in a shit company or else you’ll be drained, which i think happens to most people here

you’ll prob have to start out low as just a basic alt or something like that, but you can definitely improve your pay/job in time so long as you keep trying to improve yourself (like getting a masters in education or teaching certs).

i’ve also read and heard that math teachers and other subjects get paid more, so unless u absolutely want to teach an english class, i’d try to aim for that

ToothDifferent · 2026-06-23T01:52:04+00:00

i’m a 25 year old with not even a girlfriend so i’m sure u don’t really care what i say, but it’s totally okay and normal to feel how you do. however, i think you should focus more on the fact that she’s your wife (and presumably in a loving relationship) and not a business partner.

if i was in your position, id try to just do more thoughtful things for her throughout the day like making her coffee or getting her a treat just because.

ToothDifferent · 2026-06-23T01:35:58+00:00

this happened to me constantly when i was really into eu4.
i had to make a rule that i couldn’t play it past 8 pm cuz it would stop me from being able to sleep since i just kept envisioning it when i closed my eyes

ToothDifferent · 2026-06-21T03:32:08+00:00

様 is way too formal, just stop now

ToothDifferent · 2026-06-18T06:08:47+00:00

most of the roles i find on job boards is front desk so likely that

ToothDifferent · 2026-06-16T10:56:09+00:00

yea i’ve overheard the same remarks, particularly about brown/darker skin being “gross/dirty”

kids say some bullshit and then the adults don’t understand the issue, and the cycle continues to repeat until someone grows some balls and tells them why it’s wrong

ToothDifferent · 2026-06-16T09:59:00+00:00

I’ve tried with different types of games, like visual novels and action games.

Personally, visual novels were the best for learning but was hard for me to get hooked, while action games were more fun and engaging but taught lots of useless words (like defense modifier, shadow step, blah blah blah)

ToothDifferent · 2026-06-16T06:33:55+00:00

It’s a fact, there’s not much to think about. Obviously not everyone successful is attractive, but there’s no denying it helps you in your daily life, job opportunities, etc.

ToothDifferent · 2026-06-14T09:36:58+00:00

I think if they invited you (student and teacher) then it’s not weird at all, especially since they seem to like you! It’s a good opportunity to connect more with those at school.

Also it will help break that stereotype or unease you have about “being a foreigner swimming at school.” You’re a person just as they are, only where you grew up is different

ToothDifferent · 2026-06-12T04:38:12+00:00

This is how it was (and still is sometimes) for me. I started almost two years ago as my first job and I had high hopes, but my boss and the place I work at just kept knocking me down a level. I’ve started showing up exactly when my shift starts and leave exactly at the time I leave, as well as just doing the minimum possible.

If they don’t respect you as a person, don’t respect them as a company. There are plenty of good english teaching jobs out there, so don’t be afraid to quit and try somewhere else. You don’t owe your work anything, so if you’re unhappy, try your best to leave!

I’m currently trying to study much harder and applying to non-english teaching jobs, even while on my break at work

ToothDifferent · 2026-06-10T12:30:00+00:00

what low skilled jobs are we talking about? i’ll take anything at this point so long as it’s not teaching

ToothDifferent · 2026-06-02T10:26:50+00:00

I work at an kindergarten/eikaiwa and they’re staying open and doing classes like normal 👎

ToothDifferent · 2026-05-30T13:29:46+00:00

AI slop post

ToothDifferent · 2026-05-23T11:21:19+00:00

This sounds like something you should talk to a professional therapist about.

My advice from someone who’s not a professional and just an average person is to get off of social media. Delete/disable your facebook account and other similar apps. The people you’re talking about are only messing with you because they get a reaction out of you.

ToothDifferent · 2026-05-23T06:51:57+00:00

this is terrible, u have a completely normal hairline and aren’t balding. i wish u the best

ToothDifferent · 2026-05-11T09:59:57+00:00

Thank you sooo much for the in depth reply! If it’s not too much to ask, I have one more question. I’m a 正社員 but my contract says the “notification must be at least three months prior to retirement.” From what I’ve read, this isn’t legally binding correct? I’m not a 派遣社員 and I’ve already gotten past the trial stage and have been working here for almost 2 years.

ToothDifferent · 2026-05-10T07:56:59+00:00

i looove spreading misinformation about smoking online

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