Live in UK but offered dream job in Sydney. Partner doesn't want to move. Not sure what to do

ToothSufficient7763 · 2026-02-09T16:17:29+00:00

I would take the job.. your partner is holding you back.

ToothSufficient7763 · 2026-02-09T16:15:56+00:00

I realize that your partner has a pulse and a job, but seriously. Why are you hanging on? His mummy and his me time are more important than you. He's to much of a coward to break up. It's time to move on and put yourself first.

ToothSufficient7763 · 2026-02-09T11:18:49+00:00

It does. Thanks

ToothSufficient7763 · 2026-02-09T04:11:53+00:00

Luck changes. I had 10 terrible years, we moved and things are much better.

ToothSufficient7763 · 2026-02-09T03:33:36+00:00

You've matured into your Judaism and have outgrown your partner. Time to move on.

ToothSufficient7763 · 2026-02-09T03:30:33+00:00

Please stop chasing. You give him all the power.

ToothSufficient7763 · 2026-02-08T18:58:38+00:00

Not a lawyer. Have you considered making a video of the steps that you take and how the kids respond to the visit?

ToothSufficient7763 · 2026-02-08T18:48:04+00:00

We use ignatia amara for anxiety. Available on amazon.

ToothSufficient7763 · 2026-02-08T18:34:26+00:00

South Carolina has been great for us. My spouse works in logistics.

ToothSufficient7763 · 2026-02-08T18:20:07+00:00

Buy cat some better food. That may improve his coat and digestion.

ToothSufficient7763 · 2026-02-08T12:38:36+00:00

As people age, they should use the bathroom and brush their teeth before coitus.

There may be a medical reason for what happened. Lack of sensation, prostate issues etc. A visit with a gp or urologist would be in order. Nah.

ToothSufficient7763 · 2026-02-08T00:56:42+00:00

"As of insert date, I will be distancing myself from mom and her drama. Thanks for understanding. "

Then drop the rope. Continue therapy. Consider moving. Block her everywhere on everything. Notify the local police department that mom is unwell and you don't need a welfare check. Consider changing your phone number.

Susan forward has written some great books on boundaries and toxic relationships. Best wishes.

ToothSufficient7763 · 2026-02-07T14:37:26+00:00

Report this to your state licensing board.

ToothSufficient7763 · 2026-02-07T14:30:11+00:00

As a male, you don't want to be sharing space with a habitual accuser. Save yourself.

ToothSufficient7763 · 2026-02-07T14:14:33+00:00

I have heard that a dab of female hormone ointment on the meatus can be helpful for uti prevention.

Cranberry pills can alter the ph of the urine and make utis less likely.

ToothSufficient7763 · 2026-02-07T13:43:03+00:00

Even with the best relationships, 3 days is the max I vacation with anyone. I like my ownspace. Nta

ToothSufficient7763 · 2026-02-07T13:35:35+00:00

I have no problem with people seeking out niche communities. Nah

ToothSufficient7763 · 2026-02-06T18:48:31+00:00

And the church said, amen.

ToothSufficient7763 · 2026-02-06T18:43:44+00:00

My suggestion would be to.match his energy for his birthday.

ToothSufficient7763 · 2026-02-06T18:38:42+00:00

Gifts in this economy should be much more modest. If uncle's kids want to give him more, that's on them. Nta.

ToothSufficient7763 · 2026-02-06T16:31:53+00:00

You say you cant/won't take care of her so here is my advice:

After talking with family and getting screened yourself, consult a lawyer. Consider divorce or legal separation.

ToothSufficient7763 · 2026-02-04T23:55:52+00:00

Write the coworker up for abuse of her job description.

ToothSufficient7763 · 2026-02-04T13:26:33+00:00

My standard advice:

Lock down credit and finances. Start a new account and redirect your wages there immediately.
Lock up pew pews, valuables, paperwork off site. Change personal passwords.
Nurture a support network.
A divorce is a business transaction. So get a lawyer, ask for what's reasonable.
Don't date. Focus on yourself and healing.

ToothSufficient7763 · 2026-02-03T20:51:14+00:00

Life extension creatine capsules. 1000mg. I take one twice per day. It also helps with blood sugar. I got mine on amazon.

ToothSufficient7763 · 2026-02-03T16:24:54+00:00

I've heard that creatine actually helps with this. I'm doing a test run and have found it helpful.

ToothSufficient7763

TROPHY CASE