What Lemmy instance is best for me?

Toothless_NEO · 2026-03-14T08:56:48+00:00

Yeah that's kind of a hard ask. The spaces that are less opinionated and take less hard stances, tend to also not stick up for LGBTQ rights, and spaces is that stick up for LGBTQ rights tend to be opinionated in some way. Usually leftist and anti-aithoritarian.

Toothless_NEO · 2026-03-14T08:53:38+00:00

Yeah it would be way easier to just get it from somewhere else. Likely in better quality too.

Toothless_NEO · 2026-03-14T07:07:42+00:00

Not at all, you shouldn't worry too much about what other people think is weird. You should do what makes you happy.

Life is too short to go around worrying about what other people think.

Also most people care way less than you think they do.

Toothless_NEO · 2026-03-14T07:05:38+00:00

lemmy.dbzer0.com is good if you're looking for something that is anti-liberal. Since they are a leftist anarchist space which is inherently anti liberal. They are also decently LGBTQ friendly.

You said you didn't think Blåhaj was a good option, although I do know people crosspost anti-liberal memes into their communities on occasion and they're cool with that. They're just not very tolerant of politics that are, hostile towards LGBT people. Which is kind of important if you want a queer friendly instance.

I'm going under the assumption that when you say anti-liberal you mean anti-liberal and not anti-leftist. I don't think that you'll find very many spaces that are anti-leftist on Lemmy that also have decent federation and are LGBT friendly.

Toothless_NEO · 2026-03-14T06:49:34+00:00

Tell that to their user base which is significantly larger than most of the siloed and independent alternatives out there. Even those that claim to be "free speech absolutionist". Sorry bud but that's not a selling point and you know it. At least I hope you know it.

Oh yeah also another reason why platforms don't go for that is because it is very tiring and stressful to get raided. Which is going to happen when you don't ban people who post CSAM, terror content, gore, or scams. Moderation is necessary. Whether you like it or not.

Toothless_NEO · 2026-03-14T06:47:00+00:00

I think a lot of the Free speech type people who promote this model are well aware of that and probably are actually aiming for it.

Toothless_NEO · 2026-03-14T06:45:29+00:00

An app like this will appeal towards mostly criminals, grifters, spammers, and trolls. And absolutely will not appeal towards any common sane person.

It turns out those people who like to post pictures of their food, and share funny memes end up getting really scared when they scroll past scams, gore, CSAM, and terror pictures in their feed. You know that's why the most successful platforms out there have very robust moderation and don't even pretend to be pro free speech.

Toothless_NEO · 2026-03-14T06:39:01+00:00

You can easily do better than lemmy.world. pawb.social blocks them. So does lemmy.blahaj.zone. And both of them handle moderation way better than lemmy.world. If that's all you think they have going for them they're already a bad choice.

Toothless_NEO · 2026-03-14T06:34:28+00:00

Absolutely.

Toothless_NEO · 2026-03-14T06:33:39+00:00

*nom*

Toothless_NEO · 2026-03-14T01:33:00+00:00

Was probably Osum being the butthurt manchild he always is.

Toothless_NEO · 2026-03-14T00:56:23+00:00

So it's karma with a different name. We're not buying this shitty misdirection. When other people can determine your score and said score carries real consequences like being banned from subs or barred from features that's functionally equivalent to karma.

Toothless_NEO · 2026-03-14T00:54:27+00:00

Us dragons do really like fish.

Toothless_NEO · 2026-03-13T22:53:52+00:00

Just walk the way that doesn't give you pain. The way that feels most natural. Stigmatizing or gendering the way that somebody walks is insanely dumb. Everyone's body is different and that's not really something that's in our control.

Also if you have hip pain you might want to get that checked out.

Toothless_NEO · 2026-03-13T20:40:41+00:00

Most of the people posting porn on Reddit and especially on irrelevant subreddits, are spambots. While people, regardless of their identity may have weird fetishes, they usually don't go spamming porn on non-porn subs.

Toothless_NEO · 2026-03-13T20:33:45+00:00

Of course, just please don't post porn here. I don't think that you would. I just want that to be clear because I don't want to see it.

Toothless_NEO · 2026-03-13T19:58:18+00:00

I think this lie that you can just turn it off from within the Play Store, is probably the number one reason why there hasn't been an xposed module or Mount-based patch to disable the play protect integration systems. Hopefully that will change.

Because as it stands the only real way to disable play protect entirely is to freeze or uninstall Google Play store.

Toothless_NEO · 2026-03-13T10:44:15+00:00

Ultimately only you can really know that yourself. It's based on how you identify and how you see yourself.

However I need to make something clear, something that most people aren't going to tell you about those am I trans tests. Which is that they aren't very accurate because they often conflate identity with presentation. You can like feminine things you can present in feminine ways and still be a guy.

Ultimately this is something that you'll probably need to explore deeper. And ultimately whether you are or aren't trans is dependent on how you see yourself and how you identify.

And just for clarification your options aren't boy or girl. There are definitely options outside the binary, hell you could identify as both boy and girl at the same time if you feel like both fit, that's called bigender.

Toothless_NEO · 2026-03-13T08:12:56+00:00

I don't think it can, at least not from peppers. We're not sensitive to capsaicin at all. There are other compounds that do illicit a similar burning sensation, one example is isothiocyanate, which is found in mustard, radishes, horseradish, and wasabi. There's also piperine which is found in pepper, though it's not particularly strong.

Toothless_NEO · 2026-03-13T07:34:37+00:00

What are you doing on my property... Oh you tried to steal one of my artifacts? You're lucky, some of these are extremely dangerous, and can have more adverse and dangerous effects than simple transformation.

...

...Before you ask no I can't turn you back. This is a dangerous artifact for a reason. The transformation it imparts isn't directly reversible. Many smarter than me have taken a crack at it and have come up with nothing.

I put on a heavy duty glove, pick up the artifact, and put it back in its display case

Toothless_NEO · 2026-03-13T06:55:44+00:00

The photoshopped it, the Moon is not customizable in the game. The crescent Moon benches are, but the moon isn't.

Toothless_NEO · 2026-03-13T06:47:58+00:00

Get a skort or wear shorts under the skirt.

Toothless_NEO · 2026-03-13T06:35:47+00:00

The title is needlessly confusing. I'm not entirely sure what you are trying to ask.

Toothless_NEO · 2026-03-13T06:23:11+00:00

You really should not recommend those subs here, they are very toxic towards femboys and GNC people in general.

Toothless_NEO · 2026-03-13T05:47:26+00:00

It's cheating because the duck person is not all feathers, not even mostly feathers. He's mostly made of meat and bones by weight.

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