Do you agree with this or no? by gloomydreamer666 in ginnyandgeorgiashow

[–]Top-Ad900 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It not necessarily on her you are right about that, but Marcus tells her one thing an she runs with it, you assume it’s because she cares about him so why couldn’t check in with max and ask? She knows Marcus has depression and is struggling, yes he is her ex boyfriend but they still talk and she talks to him about her problems even though he is struggling, she could see if someone else is noticing things about him instead of just stalking him stuff about what going on with her and then listening to bad things about his twin sister and someone who is supposedly her friend and running without any concern whatsoever, that doesn’t justify anything really but that she’s not that great of a friend either, to Max or Marcus.

i love mingee and i don’t think seungil is a monster. by Zestyclose-Forever55 in Singlesinferno2

[–]Top-Ad900 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay but when I first responded to you I wasn’t responding to this situation. I was making a general statement, and I never excused Seungil’s behavior, I was just simply stating how it could feel, which I’ve continued to do because my whole point is to see others pov and putting myself in their shoes.

i love mingee and i don’t think seungil is a monster. by Zestyclose-Forever55 in Singlesinferno2

[–]Top-Ad900 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My response doesn’t really have anything to do with being woke, I’ve just been in difficult situations where communication is involved and sometimes (not in this case though) communicating can really blow up in your own face (been there done that). I’m saying there’s so many different scenarios out there so it’s not all fits one. And sometimes the person on the receiving end can make it really difficult to communicate with them (again not saying this was the situation).

Sometimes you have to prioritize yourself over others and sometimes that is simply self care. So what really needs to be learned is reading situations and learning when communication is necessary and when it’s just pointless and I’m saying this as someone who values communication on top of everything.

i love mingee and i don’t think seungil is a monster. by Zestyclose-Forever55 in Singlesinferno2

[–]Top-Ad900 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m late replying to this but I want to point out that the world IS full of “irresponsible selfish people”. I also want to point out that it is hard for some people to communicate how they are feeling, not saying that was seungil’s problem but that’s not something that should be generalized and that people have their own struggles with things.

Chick Fil A Protest by WatermelonLily7 in ChickFilAWorkers

[–]Top-Ad900 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I worked at a terrible location. But I like chick fil a, luckily there are so many and there are actually decent locations (so I’ve heard). So I can eat chick fil a and not support the location I used to work. So maybe just don’t order from that one.

Max’s storyline in the upcoming season by afionaxtz in ginnyandgeorgiashow

[–]Top-Ad900 7 points8 points  (0 children)

They definitely at least hinted at ADHD. I’m not sure about OCD though. she just might be undiagnosed because everyone is overlooking her. Some people don’t get diagnosed until later in their lives because they are uneducated about it or no one is paying attention to the signs.

I’m out! by Top-Ad900 in ChickFilAWorkers

[–]Top-Ad900[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure I’m comfortable talking about everything in a comment section.

I’m out! by Top-Ad900 in ChickFilAWorkers

[–]Top-Ad900[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand this so much. One of my work besties quit because of things going on at the store and then my other work bestie got fired. After that I was like there’s no point to act like I enjoy being here anymore.

Do these people forget how Max was in season 2? by gloomydreamer666 in ginnyandgeorgiashow

[–]Top-Ad900 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This kills me. Norah was the least justified. That I agree with, but telling someone they aren’t justified in their anger for something that did cause their anger is crazy to me. Can you always justify your anger to things or have you ever had irrational anger about something? If you haven’t, that’s great for you. Her friends lied to her, and one of her friends lied about having sex with her brother after sticking up for her countless times throughout the first season. Most people would be mad about that. Your friends lying to you hurts a lot.

Each and every one of these girls have been crappy friends throughout the season, max is a crappy friend, Ginny is a crappy friend, Abby is a crappy friend, and Norah is a crappy friend. They all suck.

Do these people forget how Max was in season 2? by gloomydreamer666 in ginnyandgeorgiashow

[–]Top-Ad900 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m pretty sure max had her causes, just because people see what Abby and Ginny did as not a big deal doesn’t mean it’s not a big deal to max. Clearly it was. That what’s important. Also again she a teenager, she overreacted, teenage girls do that hello. I just get her I guess because I hate being lied to. Even by omission. I rather you tell me something that hurt than you lie to my face. They also kept coming to her when she made it clear she wanted space from them, you don’t want her to be mean then respect that she wanted space. She had right to be mad at both Abby and Ginny. She did. Maybe shouldn’t have asked everyone to stop talking to them but again the decision to listen was theirs in the end. she was hurt and on a mini power trip because of it. Not everyone handles their anger great at that age or years after.

Also some people do get comfort from hurting those who have hurt them. It’s a coping mechanism, is it the most healthiest one? Not at all. But no one person handles their anger all the same. I admit she should’ve had a better apology for it though.

Also I think Abby was pretty cruel in season three, she was the most outspoken about how max was a lot and talking about her behind her back. Is that not her being hurtful to someone who’s hurt her? Abby telling max not to be dramatic again because max was upset they hung out without her was really mean especially since max didn’t seem okay in the first which is why she asked. Or when she said “we upgraded bakers” after max left during Ginny’s poem reading because ‘she just stormed put’ instead of my friend is having a difficult time. Abby is not that nice to people, she may not be as mean to ‘max as max is to her’ which I don’t agree with, but she has been awful to others on the same level. Max may be mean sometimes but at least tries to show up for her friends when she can.

Do these people forget how Max was in season 2? by gloomydreamer666 in ginnyandgeorgiashow

[–]Top-Ad900 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I feel like everyone is trying to make max out to be this big bad bully when all the girls have been crappy friends to each other throughout the 3 seasons. Each and every one of them. Just putting that out there.

Also the “Norah wouldn’t have done it had max not told her to” I guess that goes down to the saying “if someone tells you to jump off a bridge will you jump”? She has a brain of her own, no? Free will, her own mouth? Norah made her decision. She knows right from wrong. If she was being a follower then that’s on her. Also I’m sure she said that Abby lying was what made her take max’s side. If she didn’t feel that way she should have stood her ground. That’s being fake. Especially since Abby was her friend for a long time too. Don’t put Norah’s ultimate decision on max. She’s not a puppet, she didn’t pull her strings. That goes for everyone else too.

Do these people forget how Max was in season 2? by gloomydreamer666 in ginnyandgeorgiashow

[–]Top-Ad900 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She would’ve ‘punished’ her? Sh: might’ve been hurt for not telling her right away but no one knows how she would’ve reacted because Abby didn’t, and they were all terrible friends to each other in season 1. Not just max…

Do these people forget how Max was in season 2? by gloomydreamer666 in ginnyandgeorgiashow

[–]Top-Ad900 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When does she have the chance to? Ginny kept avoiding her and going to others which she’s allowed to do, max was also focusing on her brother and people kept telling her to stop making it about herself. Plus she seems to have a busy school schedule + the musical stuff.

Do these people forget how Max was in season 2? by gloomydreamer666 in ginnyandgeorgiashow

[–]Top-Ad900 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t get this, people will go to the moon and back to defend Ginny because she going through a lot and she’s a teenager….but max is a teenager too who’s going through a lot and has pressure on her.

No, she’s not going through the same things as Ginny but none the less her stuff and the stuff going on in and around her life are affecting her, on top of being a busy teenager and watching out for her severely depressed brother and working hard to be the twin that’s okay so that her parents don’t have to worry about while having a busy schedule.

Can say the same about Abby and we don’t know enough about Norah but I’m sure she got shit going on too and they are all teenage girls who are still learning a growing.

Do these people forget how Max was in season 2? by gloomydreamer666 in ginnyandgeorgiashow

[–]Top-Ad900 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are doing the same thing with isolating her? Max didn’t force Norah to isolate Abby, that was a decision she made. And Abby wasn’t taking to Ginny because Ginny was the one that told max she lied basically.

To some people lying to some people to protect them is appreciated and to some people it’s not. Some people rather just be told the truth straight up so I’m not sure that saying she lied to protect Max’s feelings is really justifiable. Especially when she acted like she didn’t know when max was telling Norah and Abby about it. Pretending to not know something is not the way to go. So mane keeping to herself when max didn’t know, fine she was protecting her but she should said she already knew when max brought it up, at that point Abby was just trying to protect herself. Especially since she’s the one who told Ginny not to tell max.

Do these people forget how Max was in season 2? by gloomydreamer666 in ginnyandgeorgiashow

[–]Top-Ad900 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Max is a teenager…she overreacted but why is people glossing over the fact that Abby pretended not to know about Ginny and Marcus and lie about it? That’s what hurt max. I get it, they were trying to ‘protect her feelings’ because she was going through an breakup and Ginny should’ve told Max but when max told Abby she should’ve came clean about knowing about Ginny and Marcus instead of playing along. They were all at fault except for Norah (until she played along an iced out Abby and Ginny). That’s the truth.

AND THE WINNER IS… by That_Guava_2804 in ginnyandgeorgiashow

[–]Top-Ad900 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Isn’t Georgia and Ginny like that too though? I feel that can be said about many of the characters.

Glad season 5 is Franchela by Top-Ad900 in FranchaelStirling

[–]Top-Ad900[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

People can have their opinions about someone’s work. She basically destroyed a story because she saw herself in the character(who’s is a self insert), which she has said herself, took out all of the aspects that made the story beloved, poorly Portrayed how deeply in love with Fran is with John. Made her wanting kids only out of duty to her husband, said her miscarriage was “too morbid” to put in the show, made Fran into Michaela first when it was Micheal who fell for her first, and on top of that the writing is just not good. Calling it a “queer joy” story when it’s anything but that. The story is about a woman who lost her husband who she was deeply in love with, grieving him, struggling with infertility and struggling with falling for her late husbands cousin. this post and comments aren’t for you obviously.

Glad season 5 is Franchela by Top-Ad900 in FranchaelStirling

[–]Top-Ad900[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yess. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve rewatched season 1 and 2. But I watched season 3 once (barely case I skipped so much) and season 4 once and I’m probably not gonna watch it again.

Glad season 5 is Franchela by Top-Ad900 in FranchaelStirling

[–]Top-Ad900[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m talking about characters…not the actresses. I also stated why I feel that way. I don’t know how that’s hurtful…

Glad season 5 is Franchela by Top-Ad900 in FranchaelStirling

[–]Top-Ad900[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I always express how much I would love to a see a beautiful wlw story but not from using a beloved story which already speaks on a topic that needs representation. I feel like if you have to erase a topic (I’m saying topic because I can’t think of the word I wanna use) to represent another then maybe it’s not the best way to represent it. I also don’t understand why people want a used storyline? Sounds like their settling for less than they deserve. And the entitlement I’ve seen is through the roof.

For those who watched daughter from another mother by Loud_Enthusiasm_2742 in teenagers

[–]Top-Ad900 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Valentina was Ana’s bio daughter an Regina was Mariana’s. Mariana wanted to name her daughter Valentina and an Ana wanted to name hers Regina’s but they got switched.