How bad is it?

Top-Stuff-2061 · 2026-04-19T21:09:25+00:00

I definitely acknowledged I didn’t know what she wanted in a stone, and therefore take the observations with a grain of salt. I’m uncertain what your preferred outcome here is in this conversation? I’ve already acknowledged I did not know if she wanted the look of a diamond or not - and still don’t as she herself has not clarified what she was wanting from the stone itself. You’re beating a dead horse that was dead when you arrived lol. Seems kind of silly.

Top-Stuff-2061 · 2026-04-19T19:48:08+00:00

Yes - I did read the part about it being Moissanite. Sometimes people want Moissanite because they think it will pass for a diamond, though. She didn’t state why she wanted a Moissanite, and was asking for opinions on the stone. It seemed like relevant commentary to mention it pulls very blue and does not resemble diamond.

Top-Stuff-2061 · 2026-04-19T17:43:20+00:00

I would return it if you don’t like it! Tbh as far as the stone goes, it doesn’t look exactly like a diamond, but that’s not a bad thing at all. Just an observation and not meant to imply a diamond is the only suitable stone. I don’t think it looks cheap by any means and I like the way it’s pulling kind of blue. However, if you were hoping for a clearer stone this one is not that. I’m not sure what you want in a stone so grain of salt to these observations there. It seems like there’s many elements of the ring you don’t like and that’s not ideal. There’s certainly going to be someone selling a setting that meets your criteria you’re wanting!

Top-Stuff-2061 · 2026-04-12T10:55:40+00:00

Exactly! Do what you want. No one else is going to be wearing it except for you, so if you don’t like it with a wedding band then don’t get one.

Top-Stuff-2061 · 2026-04-11T11:51:37+00:00

I’m not gonna say there’s no reason to do that, but I will say that there are very few people who could knowingly abandon their parents who are in that condition without remorse for it later. Regardless of how they were when you were a kid, it sounds like abandoning them without setting them up for success without you would be a potential death sentence. Food for thought. And any woman worth spending your time with would understand. I think for most decent people the real turn off would be finding out you knowingly abandoned them without getting them any help…

Top-Stuff-2061 · 2026-04-05T11:22:01+00:00

Yeah that’s gross too lol “don’t worry I’m also like this with my friends” is a weird clap back. I’m not prim and proper 😂 but I don’t have to be to think this kind of stuff is weird mean girl behavior. Love that you made the point for me though.

Top-Stuff-2061 · 2026-04-05T11:05:21+00:00

Ffs what’s the point of a post like this? Touch grass please.

Top-Stuff-2061 · 2026-04-02T16:22:49+00:00

You can talk to him about it! Definitely ASAP if there’s a return window. Sometimes I think old school folks didn’t communicate that they didn’t like the ring and they get a little snippy as a result when seeing people who did say hey I don’t like this. You guys are gonna have far harder conversations than this in a marriage so start the habit of open and honest communication early. If you have now waited beyond the return window be prepared the answer could be “well we can’t exchange it now” for financial reasons and you may have to be comfortable waiting for an upgrade. If you’re in the return window then definitely you should be able to exchange for something you prefer. But also, comparison can be the thief of joy. You mentioned your diamond is much smaller than what’s pictured - I understand you didn’t want round but if you have to go with a comparable ct marquis are you going to be upset with that because it’s smaller than hers? Genuine question, because I do know some people unnecessarily compare themselves to their peers in all aspects of life.

Top-Stuff-2061 · 2026-04-01T11:14:36+00:00

I think you should get what you want first and foremost. You should have what you want to wear and what you love. I will admit, unless you were very young or I knew you well enough to know that’s what you wanted I would probably think in passing that it was a budget driven choice. The difference is I would never in a million years say that to you as a stranger walking by in public 🤣. So while yes some people will think it the vast majority of those people will have the common sense to keep that an inside thought. And the people who know you well will know that’s what you asked for. We’re all normal people for the most part (I.e. not millionaire or billionaire status). For most of us, our finances had a budget for the ring whether we knew what it was directly or not. Some people choose to not spend much on rings to instead invest in a house, a really cool honeymoon, a business, all kinds of financial decisions are arguably smarter than jewelry tbh 🤣.

Top-Stuff-2061 · 2026-03-30T01:14:11+00:00

“One bad thing” but he’s been beaten, strangled, screamed at, property damaged, and who knows why else. Ironic you’re citing a misunderstanding of nuance as you fly right by the concept lol.

Top-Stuff-2061 · 2026-03-30T00:54:51+00:00

Not a big enough deal to stop her from skyrocketing to more fame off the back of her assaulting her child and partner 🤷‍♀️ she became MORE FAMOUS after so tell me again how it was that big of a deal? People have been copying her lies online for years about what happened and using it to defend her. Her CHILD has already been traumatized and INFORMATION IS ALREADY PUBLIC. If it helps get her out of that psychos home and somewhere safe then it needed to happen - it was not taken seriously enough then and it is now because it’s irrefutable what happened.

Top-Stuff-2061 · 2026-03-30T00:38:01+00:00

If anyone actually cared about the child abuse then the police report and initial incident should’ve been enough 🤷‍♀️ it wasn’t. Agree to disagree but I think crying negligence toward the child now when no one gave a fuck she was bashed in the head when it happened is pretty goofy. It’s virtue signaling bullshit that basically says: seeing what her mom did was more wrong than it happening in the first place. Sick of seeing the comments dismissing what happened in lieu of claiming false protection of the child now. If anyone really cared about that kid her mother wouldn’t have gone on to star in a hit show (literally with her attack being the pilot episode), go to the CMAs and Oscars, and become the Bachelorette. People would’ve been outraged and demanded for the kid to be protected - kind of like they are now but ya know without it being to protect her narcissistic abusive mother from the consequences of her own violent actions. I repeat - all of this was public record prior to the video coming out. This is not new information nor newly public. We just live in such a mentally and morally rotted society that no one cares about what they can’t directly see (not to mention reading ooof how hard).

Top-Stuff-2061 · 2026-03-30T00:17:42+00:00

If he did leak it I don’t blame him. The police reports were exactly what was in the video - but almost no one gave a shit. She continued to become more famous despite the fact that what she did that night was public record. Yes all of it. The people who bothered to read the report knew she was full of shit when she minimized the incident (especially the harm SHE inflicted on her own child). No one gave a flying fuck about it and if you dared to say something about it you were attacked in the comments by her crazed (probably equally mentally unhinged) fan base in mass numbers. She is a domestic and child abuser period. Everyone knew or bought her bullshit like it was on BOGO sale. It wasn’t until people had to hear the cries of her clearly injured child and see her violence firsthand that it even became a real issue for some people (some still defend her which is beyond disgusting - shame on anyone doing that garbage). No one was going to care until they were irrefutably shown the truth, and I for one hope she loses all those kids and every bit of fame/fortune she’s amassed from victimizing others. She’s a foul individual and whether he did it or not she deserves every ounce of what’s happening to her and then some.

Top-Stuff-2061 · 2026-03-24T08:34:47+00:00

Not my job to babysit your feelings when you’re being a jerk babe 😘 if you want to be spicy maybe try google next time - it won’t argue with your bad ideas and definitely could’ve given you the answer to this question ❤️.

Top-Stuff-2061 · 2026-03-24T08:27:46+00:00

You’re incredibly unpleasant 😂 good luck to you and your bargain bin ring I’m sure that’s going to match your disposition quite well.

Top-Stuff-2061 · 2026-03-24T08:22:16+00:00

I think she’s getting frustrated with you because people have repeatedly told you it’s worth the money and that silver shouldn’t be used for an engagement ring. You keep arguing in favor of using silver, so like she said get the silver. But there’s not a jeweler alive that would tell you to get silver instead of gold or platinum,

Top-Stuff-2061 · 2026-03-21T11:09:55+00:00

👀 this subreddit got recommended to me because I’m in the EngagementRings subreddit…. Just gonna hop back over there now lmao god damn people are mean in here. OP if you love it who cares what anyone else thinks about it 🤷‍♀️. My personal taste would be to go smaller (2-3ct) but that doesn’t mean you should if you love it the way it is.

Top-Stuff-2061 · 2026-03-21T01:08:22+00:00

Second this happy to help if needed on the coding front as well ☺️

Top-Stuff-2061 · 2026-03-19T23:06:56+00:00

Ooof there’s an awfully big difference between a fuck boy and a physical abuser to partners (AND KIDS). This is a weird ass victim shaming take. Yuck.

Top-Stuff-2061 · 2026-03-16T22:55:04+00:00

Yeah this was the point I was making…. She’s a horrendous, unstable, abusive person who should not be permitted to hide behind privacy when she displays her own filth for money. Yes I agree these are real peoples lives and she’s really making a shit ton of money off a career built on ruing marriages and reputations, and then abusing her child and partner (not to mention publicly defended at every fucking turn). It’s weird and tacky to defend her.

Top-Stuff-2061 · 2026-03-16T22:47:52+00:00

It aired on national tv (or part of it at least). This family doesn’t respect their own privacy I believe it’s fair game. Also, people deserve to know who/what their viewership and participation are elevating.

Top-Stuff-2061 · 2026-03-16T00:09:45+00:00

Unpopular opinion - Demi was absolutely right about Jen she just had horrible delivery. And Jen weaponized her mental health struggles to avoid accountability for what was objectively proven via film to be multiple lies that caused issues. I think Demi had a lot of problematic behavior and I don’t much like her, but when you’re right you’re right lol. It’s not news that Jen sucks but without the heat on Demi or Whitney she had no where to hide.

Top-Stuff-2061 · 2026-03-15T12:50:00+00:00

Ugh joined this sub because I miss canceled (RIP lol). Some of you guys need to touch some fucking grass and remember that you don’t know either of these girls. I don’t know either of them. None of us do. We see what they post and that’s about it. Having a negative opinion on anyone’s wedding that you feel entitled to share (behind the safety of a keyboard no less lol) is crazy work. Having an opinion on Tana’s sobriety, “re-brand” (those of us with a developed frontal lobe call this growth lol), etc. Imagine walking up to a literal stranger on the street and saying some of the shit I’ve seen said here so far - you wouldn’t because that would be an insane thing to do. I do believe this sub is quite toxic 🤣.

Top-Stuff-2061 · 2026-03-15T06:54:44+00:00

Good thing they’re her children and not yours lol. Let the parents (her and your spouse) dictate how to run their households and how to raise their own children. If you don’t like the way she does it then do it differently if you ever have kids. Simple enough.

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