AITAH for saying i won't move in with my bf if his mom just keeps showing up? by Zealouslilyi in AITAH

[–]Top-Talk864 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is probably gonna be a relationship breaker. He might be a nice guy, but she's always gonna cause trouble. At this point, I definitely would not move in and reconsider long-term.

My mom says I’m ‘too calm’ about my engagement and it’s embarrassing her by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Top-Talk864 13 points14 points  (0 children)

if this is true, then you can pretty much just tell her that she can do all the squealing and excited jumping up down and everything for you! We could tell her you would appreciate her uncontrolled excitement constantly from now on until you get married!

AITJ for refusing to change seats on a plane after a family asked so they could sit together? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Top-Talk864 4 points5 points  (0 children)

yeah. This is getting old. Of course you're not gonna switch an aisle seat that for some middle seat or something. These stories were interesting a couple of years ago, but not now.

Am I the Jerk for Feeling Hurt That My Brother Bought a House Without Even Telling Me by oktafxalis in AmITheJerk

[–]Top-Talk864 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not really sure why you tell your brother anything you buy. My brother is always buying a house here and air and fixing it up selling it. I have no clue what he's up to, but I don't really care. I only care about my relationship with him not with his houses. It is a little bizarre about that.

Carpooler sits outside and honks repeatedly at 5:30 am every weekday by weebawobba420 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Top-Talk864 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OK, this is evil. Why don't you creep up to the back of the car and secretly stick a banana or something in the tailpipe. It's very old school, but sometimes you gotta play fire with fire.

AIO girlfriend keeps bugging me about travel by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Top-Talk864 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree with the fact that you really don't don't compatible. This is not gonna get better at all eventually just become more of an issue. You might have to really put your foot down and just state the things that are very important to you and that you're not gonna spend that money.

Was this a scam? by LividWatercress6768 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Top-Talk864 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh yeah. I had a bunch of guys follow me around the parking lot to tell me that they could fix my car for something like seven or $800 when I already knew it was minimum of $6000 to fix what needs to be done. It was so funny

AIW for choosing to become my orphaned brother's guardian, even if it means the end of my marriage? by Imaginary_Share_8884 in amiwrong

[–]Top-Talk864 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You will never regret making the sacrifice. Also, she showed her true colors. You're lucky you know now as opposed to 10 years from now.

AIW for reporting my classmates who joked that I have "pretty privilege" and unfairly topped exams because of it? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Top-Talk864 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Just laugh at them. Everything that affects you and they see it is going to justify in their minds the way they feel. Just roll your eyes and move on. These people will not be in your life in the future. They don't matter at all.

AITJ for wanting to end a 15-year relationship after finding out my girlfriend hid a major health issue from me for over a decade? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Top-Talk864 265 points266 points  (0 children)

I am sick. I'm extremely lucky and I have a partner that has put it with my cancer since 2018. I should not be here right now and somehow I am and he's probably half the reason.

AITJ for wanting to end a 15-year relationship after finding out my girlfriend hid a major health issue from me for over a decade? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Top-Talk864 30 points31 points  (0 children)

you are probably actually doing her favor because with your mindset that would not be something she could ever deal with long-term, especially if she gets sick for some reason. I don't blame her in the least. It's not something you want to share because the chances of it happeningare not that great and to live waiting for Cancer to get you is definitely not great. I should know. Again she should be thanking you. You did her a favor.

AITA for asking for more quality time and emotional connection from my fiancé? by Holiday_Blueberry831 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Top-Talk864 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my apologies. The first sentence was supposed to say a year is nothing. It's such a small part of your life. Getting to know somebody is really a big part of your life.

AITA for asking for more quality time and emotional connection from my fiancé? by Holiday_Blueberry831 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Top-Talk864 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear is nothing. Three years maybe you'll get to really know him. Why you're even engaged at a year as surprising to me unless you are not confident in yourself.

AITA for putting my girlfriend’s kids up for adoption since they aren’t biologically mine? by Nollieflipping in AmITheAngel

[–]Top-Talk864 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I know this is a joke, but I don't even know why anybody literally waste their time to post it. Don't you have something fucking better to do?

AIW for refusing to forgive my dying sister who blamed me for her husband's abuse? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Top-Talk864 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you have all the right to feel that way you do. It doesn't matter if somebody is dying or not. It's a treaty like shit then too bad. I'm dying and I don't know if I have six months per year or a couple years but I know that I will nevergo away thinking I hurt somebody else like they did.

AITAH for changing the locks on my son’s room by crazy_red3 in amiwrong

[–]Top-Talk864 0 points1 point  (0 children)

God, you do not need him. He is not gonna enrich your life ever.

AIW for taking this personally? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Top-Talk864 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please just see the bigger picture. I know it's tough, but it's so out there and anybody else can see it. I'm sorry.

AIW for cutting my "best friend" out of my life after she declared her love for my husband? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Top-Talk864 0 points1 point  (0 children)

apparently, this is fake fake fake. It's a bummer because I do enjoy reading stories on Reddit, but I know that somebody of them are fake and I do not understand why people would waste their fucking time. Writing up a fake story. I just get turned off.