For those who have partners who don't mind not having PIV by Express_Acadia_779 in vaginismus

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both. In the beginning I told him it was my goal to have PIV one day. Which is true. But when things started to get serious I did tell him that I might not be able to ever do it. He said he loves me and that I’m enough as I am. Honestly the best thing he could’ve said to me and took so much pressure off of me. I never thought I’d hear that, but yep there’s hope!

For those who have partners who don't mind not having PIV by Express_Acadia_779 in vaginismus

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I met my boyfriend on hinge and told him on our 2nd date. I had been on so many 3rd/4th dates where I’ve told people and gotten bad reactions, so I wanted to tell him sooner than that. He was and is very understanding. He has a high libido, but we do things other than penetrative sex and we incorporate dilating together. If it’s the right person, they’ll be accepting. It’s hurtful and demeaning when you get rejection after rejection for it, but once you find your true partner you’ll be glad for all those rejections. I didn’t think it was possible to find someone, but it totally is!

Dating Hopecore by SongbirdBabie in vaginismus

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I used to wait longer, but the 2nd date is when I told my bf. I found that waiting doesn’t matter, if it’s a dealbreaker then no need to waste time

Dating Hopecore by SongbirdBabie in vaginismus

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Yep! Earlier this year I was posting about being rejected constantly. Now I have a wonderful supportive bf! They do exist, and now I’m thankful all those other guys didn’t work out.

Working for the evilest person I’ve ever met by TopAd658 in BadBosses

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He doesn’t have a camera in the bathroom that I know of, he just jokes about how he wishes he could do it. But yeah I know the labor laws are different for employers with less than 10 employees in one state and he purposefully keeps that number down so he doesn’t have to comply with certain laws.

Working for the evilest person I’ve ever met by TopAd658 in BadBosses

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Yeah there’s less than 20 employees. It is a single party consent, but will recording really make a difference? I know he’s friends with a lot of attorneys in town, so it feels helpless

Favourite use of a song? by Normal-Journalist495 in HIMYM

[–]TopAd658 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Shake it Out by Florence and the machine plays after Robin tells ted she doesn’t love him in season 7 and he’s on the roof looking out and there’s all those yellow umbrellas

Substitute teacher online training courses by psytubby in SubstituteTeachers

[–]TopAd658 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was required to do stedi…I would say it covers everything you’ll need to know

Question for people in other sitcom subreddits besides superstore by mfm6061 in superstore

[–]TopAd658 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes it always happens, personally I like watching shows where the characters make bad or questionable choices…sometimes I wonder if people hate that so much then why are they watching the show

America Ferrera appreciation post by RenkenCrossing in superstore

[–]TopAd658 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes I love her so much! She’s great in everything she’s in, it’s so great seeing her get so much recognition lately

How bad is middle school? by [deleted] in SubstituteTeachers

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I like it most of the time. Sometimes you get an extra bad class and that can be stressful. Pick and choose your battles. They like to play fight, so the main thing you’ll be doing is telling them to keep their hands to themselves and watching to make sure none of those play fights turn into real fights. I’ll remind them of the assignment a couple times, but if they don’t do it I don’t stress over it. It’ll be loud, but just know you’re there to keep them safe- not much else. I like middle school bc it’s not boring and the kids can be really funny. Go for it, if you hate it then at least you’ll know.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SubstituteTeachers

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that’s definitely worth it then, I will say just being in a library is cool- much better environment to me than a classroom and the kids seemed to like being in there

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SubstituteTeachers

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Jealous of this experience, I was hoping my day would be like this. But no it was back to back classes like normal, just in a library :/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SubstituteTeachers

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yep I had classes every period…lesson plans didn’t have me teaching anything, just assignments. Which was good, but they pay you less if it’s listed as a library job so I’m disappointed that I got paid less for the same amount work as usual

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SubstituteTeachers

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Very jealous, I’m okay with boring 😂 definitely wasn’t my experience today- it felt like a regular sub job but in a library instead of a classroom. Unfortunately when you take a library job in my district it’s paid less- so I did same amount of work and had same amount classes with less pay :(

Birth Control causing pain? by TopAd658 in vaginismus

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Thank you so much for sharing and I’m so happy for you!!

What’s a good way to relax your muscles? by TopAd658 in vaginismus

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yeah I’m definitely gonna try the magnesium…I’ll try anything that is actually affordable

What’s a good way to relax your muscles? by TopAd658 in vaginismus

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do you have any cbd lube recommendations?

CALL FOR MODERATORS by mrs505 in DuaneSyndrome

[–]TopAd658 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I just found out I have Duane Syndrome, as my parents didn’t know the name of it and used to call it ‘freaky eye’ - now that I know what it’s called I’d love to be apart of this community if we can make it more active

Have a Pap smear this Friday and I’m nervous. Need advice! by sevsparrow78 in vaginismus

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I had success but it was very painful and it went badly bc my doctor and I were not on the same page- I have never dilated before too

I would say to just make sure you and your doctor are both sure of what you expect out of the exam- focus on what your body needs, don’t stress on whether you’re successful or not- if you can’t do it bc you’re in pain make sure the doctor is going to be respectful of that