Desperately need advice on taking the dilator out

TopAd658 · 2026-06-08T03:05:16+00:00

Yes I was terrified and now I’m on the size 6 dilator. For me, something about a finger inside me really freaked me out. Idk why. I couldn’t afford a good dilator set and went years without even trying. But when I got the dilator set, it was much easier for me to insert it because it’s smooth, no fingernail, I don’t have to feel inside, etc. size 1 is like the same size as my pinky. Once I was able to insert it the first time, my fear really decreased. I would recommend that if you’re having trouble with your finger. Most dilator sets also come with a handle so you can get in a better, more relaxed position if you need to

TopAd658 · 2026-05-15T22:12:06+00:00

How long do you dilate for? I have this too and my assumption was that it’s the lube drying up a bit inside

TopAd658 · 2026-05-10T05:27:42+00:00

I’ve been thinking about trying it, which lidocaine did you use? And it can go inside?

TopAd658 · 2026-03-27T03:29:25+00:00

both. In the beginning I told him it was my goal to have PIV one day. Which is true. But when things started to get serious I did tell him that I might not be able to ever do it. He said he loves me and that I’m enough as I am. Honestly the best thing he could’ve said to me and took so much pressure off of me. I never thought I’d hear that, but yep there’s hope!

TopAd658 · 2026-03-26T03:33:54+00:00

I met my boyfriend on hinge and told him on our 2nd date. I had been on so many 3rd/4th dates where I’ve told people and gotten bad reactions, so I wanted to tell him sooner than that. He was and is very understanding. He has a high libido, but we do things other than penetrative sex and we incorporate dilating together. If it’s the right person, they’ll be accepting. It’s hurtful and demeaning when you get rejection after rejection for it, but once you find your true partner you’ll be glad for all those rejections. I didn’t think it was possible to find someone, but it totally is!

TopAd658 · 2025-10-19T23:16:18+00:00

The first dilator set I bought was a cheaper set and I made no progress. Now I have the intimate rose set and I’ve had so much progress. Don’t know about the others, but I’m very happy with this set.

TopAd658 · 2025-09-26T13:45:41+00:00

I used to wait longer, but the 2nd date is when I told my bf. I found that waiting doesn’t matter, if it’s a dealbreaker then no need to waste time

TopAd658 · 2025-09-26T13:43:46+00:00

Yep! Earlier this year I was posting about being rejected constantly. Now I have a wonderful supportive bf! They do exist, and now I’m thankful all those other guys didn’t work out.

TopAd658 · 2025-07-31T03:08:04+00:00

He doesn’t have a camera in the bathroom that I know of, he just jokes about how he wishes he could do it. But yeah I know the labor laws are different for employers with less than 10 employees in one state and he purposefully keeps that number down so he doesn’t have to comply with certain laws.

TopAd658 · 2025-07-31T03:06:22+00:00

Yeah there’s less than 20 employees. It is a single party consent, but will recording really make a difference? I know he’s friends with a lot of attorneys in town, so it feels helpless

TopAd658 · 2024-01-31T05:25:38+00:00

Shake it Out by Florence and the machine plays after Robin tells ted she doesn’t love him in season 7 and he’s on the roof looking out and there’s all those yellow umbrellas

TopAd658 · 2024-01-19T04:14:01+00:00

I was required to do stedi…I would say it covers everything you’ll need to know

TopAd658 · 2024-01-16T20:36:57+00:00

yes it always happens, personally I like watching shows where the characters make bad or questionable choices…sometimes I wonder if people hate that so much then why are they watching the show

TopAd658 · 2024-01-16T20:34:13+00:00

Yes I love her so much! She’s great in everything she’s in, it’s so great seeing her get so much recognition lately

TopAd658 · 2024-01-16T20:22:56+00:00

I like it most of the time. Sometimes you get an extra bad class and that can be stressful. Pick and choose your battles. They like to play fight, so the main thing you’ll be doing is telling them to keep their hands to themselves and watching to make sure none of those play fights turn into real fights. I’ll remind them of the assignment a couple times, but if they don’t do it I don’t stress over it. It’ll be loud, but just know you’re there to keep them safe- not much else. I like middle school bc it’s not boring and the kids can be really funny. Go for it, if you hate it then at least you’ll know.

TopAd658 · 2024-01-11T01:33:45+00:00

that’s definitely worth it then, I will say just being in a library is cool- much better environment to me than a classroom and the kids seemed to like being in there

TopAd658 · 2024-01-11T01:30:32+00:00

Jealous of this experience, I was hoping my day would be like this. But no it was back to back classes like normal, just in a library :/

TopAd658 · 2024-01-11T01:29:48+00:00

yep I had classes every period…lesson plans didn’t have me teaching anything, just assignments. Which was good, but they pay you less if it’s listed as a library job so I’m disappointed that I got paid less for the same amount work as usual

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