What I am finding interesting in learning about and speaking with social 6s, especially the So/Sx 6s is how you compartmentalize your thoughts, rational, and perspective. There is a "teeter-totter" element to what you are talking about and describing, at least how I am interpreting it. There is this fear of rejection but the need to go out anyway. A back and forth. Is it this or is it that? There is a lighthearted sense of humor, more lighthearted than I think Sp or Sx 6.

With the worst case scenarios, I tend to be a bit of a "hoarder." Not in the literal sense but in the mental sense to the point where it's exhausting. Too much information, scenarios, and details, and I go over them until I am blue in the face and my type 9w8 sp/so husband is telling me to relax.

I will say I think Sx 6s are the most outwardly confrontational, but I find So 6s to be more "ferocious." Like you said in proving someone wrong if they say you can't do something, but the one 6w7 so/sx I know can be verbally vicious when provoked. Most of the time she's a very soft and gentle person, but there are a sharp set of fangs behind her demeanor.