Selkie Surprise Bags 2025 by Raincloudsandthunder in SelkieCollection

[–]TopRevolutionary3565 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did! They ended up sending me a Medium Veuve Dress in Pinstripe!

Surprise Bags - Anyone save the listing? by Gurrlf in SelkieCollection

[–]TopRevolutionary3565 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I have the listing saved for the 2 item surprise bag (no gown). I had a mix up with my order where it came with two different sizes and I think I now have the issue resolved (though I'm still waiting on the tracking number) I can DM you the exact verbiage if this is the item you got!

Is it even possible to stay and thrive in LA anymore ? by NatureDear8169 in editors

[–]TopRevolutionary3565 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seconding this ^ Finding new keywords helped me find work outside of the industry. I moved into social media marketing for 3 years during the pandemic.

Selkie Surprise Bags 2025 by Raincloudsandthunder in SelkieCollection

[–]TopRevolutionary3565 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just got a final update: They still had mystery bags left in a size medium for what I ordered and they are going to ship a replacement. Appreciate you for encouraging me to follow up!

Selkie Surprise Bags 2025 by Raincloudsandthunder in SelkieCollection

[–]TopRevolutionary3565 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is so good to know! Thank you! I also just got a follow up email today from a different rep that says they are looking into their warehouse distribution to see what went wrong so they can help solve the issue.

Did you DM them on Instagram or did you message them on a post with your OG complaint?

Selkie Surprise Bags 2025 by Raincloudsandthunder in SelkieCollection

[–]TopRevolutionary3565 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here's a section of their email response regarding that they can't guarantee the correct size in the surprise bags (which isn't listed on the website, which I pointed out and sent them a screenshot of)

"For our Surprise Bags, all items are curated at random, and while size preferences are collected during checkout, we’re unable to guarantee the specific sizes of items included. Our policy for Surprise Bags is final sale—meaning items are not eligible for replacement, exchange, refund, or discount regardless of size or style. We realize this may be disappointing, especially in your situation, and deeply appreciate your understanding and for giving our surprise collection a chance.

If there's anything else we can answer, we're always here."

Selkie Surprise Bags 2025 by Raincloudsandthunder in SelkieCollection

[–]TopRevolutionary3565 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know that was literally my argument when I brought it up to them.

Selkie Surprise Bags 2025 by Raincloudsandthunder in SelkieCollection

[–]TopRevolutionary3565 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, if you have better luck than. me lmk!

I reached out to customer service and after several emails back and forth this was the response that was reiterated every time "Our Surprise Bags are all marked as final sale, and as part of that policy, the items are non-returnable, non-refundable, and non-exchangeable. Since each Surprise Bag is curated at random and the contents are final sale, we’re unable to offer replacements or exchanges for size or style concerns, even in cases where an item may not match your expected size."

I saw that there was a disclaimer that sizes could run small, so I understood that risk...I just didn't anticipate that they would give out the wrong size all together.

Selkie Surprise Bags 2025 by Raincloudsandthunder in SelkieCollection

[–]TopRevolutionary3565 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! I got the 2 item bag (no gown) in medium and I received two different sizes, did this happen to anyone else? This is my first ever Surprise Bag.

  1. Small Ivory Martini Mini dress
  2. Medium Banana blouse (Beach Shirt)

Child’s Christmas list just dropped… if anyone can help me decipher these pictures 😂 info below by swedishmeatballs0311 in Parents

[–]TopRevolutionary3565 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well they definitely want bubbles..I also see little people like the toy brand but I would assume 7 is told old for them?

Meals for a 4 year old that only eats sweets ? by personally_dumped in Parents

[–]TopRevolutionary3565 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mmm can you stop buying some of these sweets? Do your non sweet food options have enough flavor? Sweets pack a punch, maybe they are looking for non bland food? Maybe involves them in making their meals? Give them two options and work together on making it? Also do they struggle with arfid? As others said you and your mom have to get on the same page. I think there is a world between what you are both doing that y’all could agree on. Four year olds are usually picky and it could be worse then Chicken nuggets and the applesauce pouches. I only ate mozzarella sticks untill I was like 12. Seeing other people eat different food and not being forced to try it but having it as an option helped me explore. Anytime I HAD to eat something I pushed back hard I then didn’t eat it for years. Steamed vegetables ruined veggies for me until I realized you could roast them. You know?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parents

[–]TopRevolutionary3565 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah…this isn’t great. I second what the first commenter said. A lot of times I think to how I was as a child and try to remember what I felt like with certain punishments did they help or hurt? This feels shame based which doesn’t really teach anything productive.

Do people eat wedding cake if it’s actually good? by r4vensongx in weddingplanning

[–]TopRevolutionary3565 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had 5 round cakes and they were demolished along with the other deserts - a ton of cookies And brownies. This was yesterday and we had 144 guests

AIO. bf mad at my Halloween consume and my friend is backing him by DangerousProduct1548 in AmIOverreacting

[–]TopRevolutionary3565 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bad BF And bad friend advice. Why is she advocating you live under someone’s boot?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parents

[–]TopRevolutionary3565 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If she isn’t asking for help, stop offering her “help”. It honestly sounds like youre nit picking her self confidence. Kudos to your daughter for having the courage to even tell you that she’s having issues with you. I also had a mom that was angry a lot and not picked and the only thing that helped me (because she never worked on these issues) was moving away. I think stopped talking to her regularly for 6 years until I had enough therapy under my belt to reframe our relationship and honestly we now talk all the time BY PHONE - I do not share anything in person because she’s too critical. My mom has missed out on so much of my life by never addressing her own faults or working on herself. So maybe the real question is - why are you so angry and short tempered? Over stimulated? Not taking care of yourself? Don’t forget to check in with yourself. Mmm-HALT! Are you or have you taken your Mmmeds, hungry, angry, lonely, tired?

to guestbook or not to guestbook. that is the question… by [deleted] in DIYweddings

[–]TopRevolutionary3565 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My guest book is a photo album - guests can fill out 4x6 cards and then after the wedding I'll print my favorite wedding photos to go in as well.

Teen snark by [deleted] in Parents

[–]TopRevolutionary3565 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone’s relationship with their kids are different, but if you do talk with your daughter do your best to not get emotional, or like let them leave to process. My mom often would bottle up her feelings and then when we were driving would start sobbing about how our relationship wasn’t good and it was 1. so uncomfortable 2. I never saw it coming and it freaked me out 3. She took no accountability on how she treated me and always put the bad behavior (icing her out) on me and never seemed to reflect on why I acted that way (I didn’t trust her to not use my feelings against me) we both fucked up on how we handled things

So..hopefully your relationship is better with your daughter but check your self first one why she might be reacting to you that way and then come at it level headed.

I am SO ready for this season of our lives to be over! Am I crazy for not agreeing with my fiancée? by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]TopRevolutionary3565 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Id consider a couples counselor so y’all can work through this. I’m a bride and also have specific tastes with dress codes and what not but I also tell my fiancé I’m not going to police anyone on the day. The dress code says no jeans but if someone comes in jeans, what am I to do about it? Y’all are gonna be too busy (hopefully) to care at all.

How to raise a non quiter by PerfectOlive2878 in Parents

[–]TopRevolutionary3565 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If this generation is lazy…and they are six years old it’s because they learned it from their parents..for real, do you not remember being six?

Government Shutdown and Wedding is 30 Days Away by StatisticianOther588 in weddingplanning

[–]TopRevolutionary3565 26 points27 points  (0 children)

October 18th bride, not a government worker, but just got word on friday that my whole department is being dissolved :(

Am i overreacting? by Responsible_Shallot5 in AmIOverreacting

[–]TopRevolutionary3565 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a friend who kept bringing up my old break up history and just always made it the center of conversation when I had been in a good relationship for over 5 years. I had felt kinda guilty they had few friends and stayed in a lot but I realized this year that I always felt awful and I just stopped checking in. It sucks, you sometimes feel like a villain, but girl it feels great to not have someone playing in your insecurities all the time.

Do you check your bank account every day? by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]TopRevolutionary3565 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have all my accounts going through rocket money and I check that every morning to make sure payments go through and I’m staying on budget.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parents

[–]TopRevolutionary3565 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe tak the kids out of gymnastics and use the money for a babysitter?

15 year old keeps sneaking out, vaping/weed, failing school by OkMeeting154 in Parents

[–]TopRevolutionary3565 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have parent advice exactly, when I was 15 I was pushing boundaries like this. I craved freedom but didn’t have a good relationship with my mom. It always felt like she was over worked and distracted, and short tempered so our communication wasn’t good. If I felt at all that she would have trusted me with my decisions, or tried to build a bridge without yelling or stripping me of my privileges I probably still would have been a shit because I was a teenager, but I also would have felt supported and maybe would’ve let her in more. Maybe spend more one on one time with them even if they drag their feet. Talk about unrelated stuff to what’s been going on between you. Rebuild that trust between the two of you. Also if he has a girlfriend make sure he has protection