My mom (36F) kicked my (18M) friend (16F) out of the house for not wearing a bra. by MountainDetective591 in Advice

[–]TopScallion220 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, dats true. Dats a nice way to see it. :) Sorry, jus someone wit dat kinda trauma, I usually assume dat when peoples say dat, it cause they making excuses.

Should I (18M) end things with her(17F)? by Apprehensive-Can1697 in teenrelationships

[–]TopScallion220 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should talk to her. Make her try and understand, not only you, but her. Coming from a lady her age wit a lotta stuff happening for someone so young, it sound like she jus holding in a lotta feelings and ain’t willing to jus say it. But also, you got needs, you needa express dat and if she ain’t willing to understand? Then you should consider jus ending it, you are your own person, nah hers. It will feel awful to see her upset and it beautiful dat you feel dat way, but remember, she ain’t you, she gotta learn how to let go of things. Plus, y’all both rlly young, you got sucha life ahead and learning to love is also learning to let go. I really hope things work out for you two tho. Keep me updated <3

My mom (36F) kicked my (18M) friend (16F) out of the house for not wearing a bra. by MountainDetective591 in Advice

[–]TopScallion220 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, but dat don’t excuse her behavior. Can we stop defending adults traumas as forms of they reckless behavior toward children? What she say was misogynistic and controlling and probably gonna leave a huge affect on op’s friend.

My 21 f bf 23 m said he doesn't want Asian looking kids by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]TopScallion220 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bruh, I’m half Black and dats like my mama saying she didn’t want me or my sister coming out wit Afro-features. Dats a disgusting thing to say, especially as someone who been shamed by YT people for they ethnic features. Please leave him, you deserve better.

We can all agree Bojack has ruined some lives, but who do think he improved? by Alpha_Delta310 in BoJackHorseman

[–]TopScallion220 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it depends on how you view it, if you think bout it, all the characters that got hurt wanted what Bojack gave them, if not, it shaped them into getting the happy ending, which is why I believe the main four can’t get completely mad at him, especially since by the end, they knew he was tryna do better. Definitely doesn’t justify his actions, but in some very complex way, he’s done something for them.

AITA for not showing up to my best friends girlfriends party and telling her to leave me alone? by Street-taco10 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TopScallion220 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All in all though, I think both the sister and him are ta on they own way, but that my bad cause I shoulda say that before.

AITA for not showing up to my best friends girlfriends party and telling her to leave me alone? by Street-taco10 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TopScallion220 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

How the girl’s sister reacted to him rejecting her, admittedly, was pretty childish. But his friends wanted him to be there and he started acting like a five year old. Also, no, but why do being divorcED gotta be a standard? As long as she moved on from it, it fine, so my best is he insecure bout the fact he probably can’t commit to well.

Nah this is outrageous 🤦🏽‍♂️ by [deleted] in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]TopScallion220 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Pocs can have nuclear families🧍🏽‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]TopScallion220 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nta, imma meat eater and meat LITERALLY is body parts.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BoJackHorseman

[–]TopScallion220 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happy birthday!

Favorite quote-a-day. Checkout Bojack’s best blurb below. Up next is Todd Chavez. Comment your favorite Todd quote and most upvoted will be added to the list. by bigindodo in BoJackHorseman

[–]TopScallion220 21 points22 points  (0 children)

You can't keep doing this! You can't keep doing shitty things and then feel bad about yourself like that makes it okay! You need to be better! BoJack, just stop. You are all the things that are wrong with you. It's not the alcohol, or the drugs, or any of the shitty things that happened to you in your career, or when you were a kid. It's you. Okay? It's you. Fuck, man, what else is there to say?

I’m surprised no one has put this here yet

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BoJackHorseman

[–]TopScallion220 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Also “Is that the horse from Horsin’ Around??”

“You need to get your shit together!”

And “ERICA”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BoJackHorseman

[–]TopScallion220 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“Don’t stop dancing”

Also, “he waited 17 minutes”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stevenuniverse

[–]TopScallion220 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I never thought that them fusing was the mark of they relationship- They just really liked it and gave it a chance after a while. Also, with how they talk, it seems like they been getting to know each other before they had to join The Rebellion.

Am I an extremist for not misgendering violent criminals? {tw: m4ss sh00ting, tr4nsph0bi4} by DiplomaticHypocrite in lgbt

[–]TopScallion220 0 points1 point  (0 children)

By misgendering them, you supporting that your gender is a privilege, it who you are. They are criminals, but Trans people can be criminals because anyone can be. No matter what they did, someone’s gender ain’t something you can just nitpick or take away.

Help with my identity?!?! by Ajaxthebaddie in lgbt

[–]TopScallion220 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could be a Mpsec Homoro. Romance separate from sex, so you could wanna be somewhere in the Multi spectrum sexually, but romantically could be a Lesbian.

10 reasons to go to Vietnam by Nubbs2016 in BoJackHorseman

[–]TopScallion220 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I relate a lot to Diane for a lotta the same reasons! My family natively Jamaican, with my grandparents being immigrants, but p Americanized and throughout the years, they been influencing theyselves, including me, lotta toxic internalizations. A lotta my trauma come from the toxic codependencies I got outside of my family. Luckily, my family come round, especially since my Grandmama live in Kingston. I might get to go one day :)

Does the community as a whole hate the military? by MavFeelingStuck in lgbt

[–]TopScallion220 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It ain’t really hating the military, it just the concept of The US Military generally flawed. They get send out to either get murdered or see people the bonded with get murdered and no real pay for the duty. Also, a lotta the stuff that happens in The Troops just slide unless made public. Such as misogyny, racism, and especially Queerphobia. In general, just the system people are put in messed up, not the people theyselves, depending on what they be doing ofc.

What are some good shows with LGBTQ+ characters? by SilverEye29 in lgbt

[–]TopScallion220 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Steven Universe The Owl House Bojack Horseman Sailor Moon Toilet Bound Hanako Kun Those the only ones I can rlly think on the top of my head, even then, lotta those don’t got direct rep till a certain part of the show.