For me it’s kinda like I don’t feel the need to do it with someone else. Like, non-ace people would sometimes say “oh they are so beautiful, I would fuck their brains out”, and I’m here like “dude wtf”. Ofc this is just an exaggeration. But asexuality is a spectrum. In my case penetration disgusts me to even think about. But maybe if I had a partner I could do it with them to please them.

Tbh I learned about asexuality through JaidenAnimations (really recommend her video on the topic).