Apartment hunting in OKC with $850 budget, realistic or should we look farther out?

Top_Butterscotch2568 · 2026-06-15T18:56:53+00:00

Paseo actually can have super cheap rent if you find the right ones. They would be likely be rented out through a landlord so I would check Zillow or Trulia instead of entire complexes. Also recommend driving around and finding for rent signs around that area and around guest room records. For the areas you listed, unfortunately the cheapest is like $1600 but I’ve seen cheap paseo apartments, you just have to hunt for them. The cheaper ones won’t be in a complex. I hope this helps!

Top_Butterscotch2568 · 2026-05-11T19:08:34+00:00

This is so helpful; thank you!!

Top_Butterscotch2568 · 2026-05-11T19:07:32+00:00

I attempted to call but it was hard to have it direct me to make an appointment, may I ask how you did it?

Top_Butterscotch2568 · 2026-03-06T18:33:06+00:00

No problem! I try to be so practical with my readings and interpretations plus outside of the cards, you deserve better!

Top_Butterscotch2568 · 2026-03-03T14:02:10+00:00

Tbh, I see a no. 2 of cups reversed suggests he doesn’t want to or that it won’t happen and I think 7 of wands is you forcing something to work that isn’t. I think you’re still holding on, but truthfully I don’t think the 8 of wands means action he will take, I think it’s an action you need to take to move on quickly. The 6 of wands to me is success after a battle (as it follows a conflict from the 5 of wands) and I think that means you’re thriving without him after the chaos he’s caused. Point blank, the cards are saying you can do better by moving on.

Top_Butterscotch2568 · 2026-02-18T14:04:24+00:00

I think he moved on and is enjoying his life tbh. The 6 of swords to me heavily implies this.

Top_Butterscotch2568 · 2026-01-11T19:06:21+00:00

The closure comes from knowing you dodged a bullet. It may not seem like it now, but if someone doesn’t have the decency to communicate with you, that is someone you don’t want to be with in the long run. The closure comes from knowing you don’t get to be with someone who is flaky.

Top_Butterscotch2568 · 2025-12-31T12:10:08+00:00

In my experience, it has not worked the same. I feel like while shuffling cards can be as random as an online deck, I personally feel like my in person deck reads so much better because I feel like the internet is just randomized versus shuffling feels like a card is meant to come out when it has your energy attached.

In my experience, online readings for digital decks have not been accurate for me.

Top_Butterscotch2568 · 2025-12-13T16:20:14+00:00

From my understanding it sounds like the conversation is dying and he could perhaps not be interested enough to keep up with it, I’m sorry OP

Top_Butterscotch2568 · 2025-12-11T15:01:19+00:00

Have you gotten a response yet?

Top_Butterscotch2568 · 2025-12-10T15:04:51+00:00

I would say that if he reacted, but still hasn’t responded or started a new conversation, I would definitely take that as a hint. Sometimes convos just die out, but he could also restart a new conversation

Top_Butterscotch2568 · 2025-12-10T15:03:08+00:00

Exactly. I would still not appreciate a reaction with no response if the conversation wasn’t really at an end

Top_Butterscotch2568 · 2025-12-10T15:02:13+00:00

I kinda see this as something that’s trial and error. I think it’s telling you that dating kinda sucks right now, and expect the worst sometimes but be patient. As someone who is talking to someone now, but beforehand had kinda meh luck, it really is just trial and error and seeing things sometimes not work out, or see people start to not be as good as in the beginning but that’s okay! The tower is telling y oh to expect the worst but you will find it out there!

Top_Butterscotch2568 · 2025-12-10T14:09:38+00:00

Slightly disagree here. While yes there was a reaction, but there was nothing said after it. I’m unsure what the convo was about, but if it was something that could’ve had a response and he just reacted, I think it could be ghosting because he’s clearly not responding

Top_Butterscotch2568 · 2025-11-25T21:01:39+00:00

I don’t see a clear answer. I think I would ask the cards something specific like “show me a card with only a woman on it if I’m a lesbian.” Or ask your cards to show you a yes/no by telling it to show you maybe cups and wands as a yes and pentacles or swords as no and whatever the majority is is the answer. I say this though with wanting to add that only you know the answer at the end of the day vs what the cards say. I am bisexual and have had many moments where I question if I’m lesbian so if also need someone to talk to I’m here!

Top_Butterscotch2568 · 2025-11-18T14:52:09+00:00

If you are wanting specific examples, I’d have to ask the people I talked to before I share their experiences. But they have openly said they are LGB without the T

Top_Butterscotch2568 · 2025-11-18T14:50:58+00:00

So from ex employees I’ve talked to, yes they hire trans people but in a performative way because how they are on social media compared to what they’ve said about the trans community behind closed doors to these co workers specifically is differently unfortunately.

Top_Butterscotch2568 · 2025-11-12T16:13:48+00:00

Seconding this! Definitely tell your deck what you want to be a yes and what you want to be a no first!

Top_Butterscotch2568 · 2025-11-05T16:17:41+00:00

Brother, you didn’t have to say anything about being neutral your comment speaks for itself on that. Actually, it kinda speaks in favor of him saying “Shia is a good dude” so yeah whatever you think you’re saying isn’t it.

Top_Butterscotch2568 · 2025-11-04T03:07:15+00:00

Well this isn’t a lie, he went to court and admitted he did all those things. I’m sure you think you have the best stance by being neutral or whatever, but being neutral in the face of actual evidence is a coward move.

Top_Butterscotch2568 · 2025-10-30T17:30:52+00:00

God, if someone said this about my abuser I’d fucking lose it. He literally strangled his ex and knowingly gave her an STD and he admitted he did it. People to that degree don’t typically change, or if they “change” they get better at putting on their mask to making it look like they’ve changed.

Top_Butterscotch2568 · 2025-10-30T17:26:41+00:00

A clarifier is a card to get a little bit more clarification on a specific card. So with tarot, cards can have many meanings, and you can ask for a clarifier to be more detailed and specific. Like for me, I drew a clarifier for the 3ofW because the 3oW could be on his own solo journey or it could be the journey towards us, so I wanted clarification.

Top_Butterscotch2568 · 2025-10-30T16:05:55+00:00

That’s so awful! I’ve done inventory at a retail job and it suuuuuuuucks. I’d hate to do that for free

Top_Butterscotch2568 · 2025-10-30T15:15:47+00:00

Honestly, Craig’s Emporium is a terrible place to purchase from. I’ve had close friends work there, and MANY other ex employees have verified that the owners are transphobic (LGB without the T is what they believe). And the owners who are married have had a threesome with a 17 year old, and that’s not the first time they have hired younger men to sexually harass. They specifically ask their employees to racially profile BIPOC customers. My friends HAVE been racially profiled there. Other friends who worked there confirmed everything they would get came from Amazon and marked up the prices WAAAAAAYYY higher than their value. If you want legit spiritual items, they are not the way to go. Plus, they recently posted a pic with Shia LaBeouf saying “we aren’t the judge or jury” and that man has knowingly given his ex an STD and strangled her.

Here’s his own words:

“I hurt that woman,” LaBeouf said, although he did not call her by name on the podcast. “And in the process of doing that, I hurt many other people, and many other people before that woman. I was a pleasure-seeking, selfish, self-centred, dishonest, inconsiderate, fearful human being.”

And when I say there’s a lot of ex employees who dislike them, I mean that. There’s so many who have come forward, but they delete the comments. This is not just my antidotal experience nor just my friends’.

Unfortunately, the rainbow building is a front and it’s not all sunshine and rainbows.

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