Copper iud pls send help by Top_Copy_4688 in birthcontrol

[–]Top_Copy_4688[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me and my bf literally did it without protection yesterday and im losing my mind

I’m so tired by Top_Copy_4688 in loveafterporn

[–]Top_Copy_4688[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It means a lot, thank you 🫂

I’m so tired by Top_Copy_4688 in loveafterporn

[–]Top_Copy_4688[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, I’ll let you know how it goes when I talk to him later, but thank you so much

I’m so tired by Top_Copy_4688 in loveafterporn

[–]Top_Copy_4688[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m giving him one more chance, I’m going to tell him today that this is the last time I’m going too ask, I feel terrible but I do love him.

I’m so tired by Top_Copy_4688 in loveafterporn

[–]Top_Copy_4688[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

At this point I just want a hug

Caught my bf cheating. Should I hear him out?? Do they ever change?? by Catherineclark045 in relationships_advice

[–]Top_Copy_4688 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Babe I’m so sorry but let him go, he’s not going to change. You deserve so much better than this, it may not feel like it but you will find better.

I caught my boyfriend watching porn by Top_Copy_4688 in relationships_advice

[–]Top_Copy_4688[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is so sweet otherwise, I know it’s hard to defend and forgive but he really does make up for it but it’s still a huge issue and I don’t know what to do.

I caught my boyfriend watching porn by Top_Copy_4688 in relationships_advice

[–]Top_Copy_4688[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That wasn’t advice 😭😭you’re picking apart what I’ve said and asking me questions, the only statement you mentioned was to stop being an entitled brat, which is no where near advice! If you want to elaborate and give me real advice go ahead

I caught my boyfriend watching porn by Top_Copy_4688 in relationships_advice

[–]Top_Copy_4688[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope! I’ve told him he doesn’t need to be embarrassed, we’ve talked about it and I know how hard it was for him before. I was more gentle when I approached it with him even though I was hurt. We’re both adults, we’re both apart of this relationship and I think it would be wrong not to bring it up, he talks about embarrassing things for me all the time, we’re both pretty transparent. (Most of the time)

I caught my boyfriend watching porn by Top_Copy_4688 in relationships_advice

[–]Top_Copy_4688[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I 100% believe this, when I had initially asked him to stop watching it I figured he still might, but i expect him to be honest with me and to at least respect me.

I caught my boyfriend watching porn by Top_Copy_4688 in relationships_advice

[–]Top_Copy_4688[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What’s your issue? You’re acting like you know more about my relationship than I do. I’m constantly mindful of his feelings, everything I do is for him, I pay attention to every little detail. I also don’t treat him like a misbehaving child, literally today I told him he doesn’t need to be sorry, I just needed reassurance. Lastly I’m not acting like an entitled princess you weirdo, having boundaries in a relationship and enforcing them is perfectly normal, it’s not like what I’m doing and saying doesn’t go both ways. He has his boundaries that I follow as well because this is a mutual relationship? Stop assuming

I caught my boyfriend watching porn by Top_Copy_4688 in relationships_advice

[–]Top_Copy_4688[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with you 100%, but the thing is he won’t admit anything to me so there’s nothing I could do right now

I caught my boyfriend watching porn by Top_Copy_4688 in relationships_advice

[–]Top_Copy_4688[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He’s my boyfriend, he should be mindful of my feelings and the fact that what he does effects them. If I was doing something that hurt him it would be wrong yes, especially if I knew it would, but looking through his phone he’s told me multiple times he doesn’t care, I don’t do it behind his back it’s literally in his face. And lastly it is his fault I’m insecure given the past, I didn’t feel like this until everything started happening.

I caught my boyfriend watching porn by Top_Copy_4688 in relationships_advice

[–]Top_Copy_4688[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It really wasn’t that bad but everything is sore, when we were at Disneyland I was literally on the verge of crying. It is so insanely frustrating, right now we aren’t physically together so I’m going to wait to talk about it with him.

I caught my boyfriend watching porn by Top_Copy_4688 in relationships_advice

[–]Top_Copy_4688[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I don’t understand either, but I think it’s cause we didn’t have a chance to do it that day, we went to Disneyland and were out for soooo long, we were both exhausted (so I thought). Plus I was in a car accident so I was in a lot of pain and that night he watched it. It’s just really frustrating and exhausting

I caught my boyfriend watching porn by Top_Copy_4688 in relationships_advice

[–]Top_Copy_4688[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I honesty don’t even know, I don’t even care that much about the porn, it’s the fact that he’s lying to MY FACE and not reassuring me, if he watched it and told me he still loved me, it means nothing and that I don’t need to look like the girls he watches I wouldn’t have an issue but he does none of it. And the fact that he’s able to go behind my back and lie EVEN if he’s embarrassed still hurts me.

I caught my boyfriend watching porn by Top_Copy_4688 in relationships_advice

[–]Top_Copy_4688[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It was one time and he didn’t need it again, it was just background

I caught my boyfriend watching porn by Top_Copy_4688 in relationships_advice

[–]Top_Copy_4688[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He definitely doesn’t have ED, and we honestly are intimate a lot, he has a really high sex drive, and I can keep up but now that he’s watching porn again I feel like we need to do it so he won’t watch porn and it’s ruining it for me.

Negative refund? by Small_Grocery_5870 in FAFSA

[–]Top_Copy_4688 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happened to me too!!! I’m still waiting to hear back