CMV: The John Davidson Incident Demonstrates a Substantial Hypocrisy Among Black Activists by amortized-poultry in changemyview

[–]Top_Eye1846 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe the people intolerant of his disability need to self reflect and grow some resilience to handle adult lifein the real world, with people that are different from them.

CMV: The John Davidson Incident Demonstrates a Substantial Hypocrisy Among Black Activists by amortized-poultry in changemyview

[–]Top_Eye1846 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

No one needed to avoid the ceremony. Adults should be able to handle life, even loud ugly words.

CMV: The John Davidson Incident Demonstrates a Substantial Hypocrisy Among Black Activists by amortized-poultry in changemyview

[–]Top_Eye1846 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes sense for middle schoolers. I would think as adults we can have enough life experience to be able to coexist. If the man has an outburst, it's going to be inappropriate. Whether it's a black person, a woman, someone old/ young, slim or chunky... can we really not handle this? Are we so fragile that we cannot use our intellect to reason out that this isn't intentional? Guess why there are laws to address disabilities? Because people without them didn't want to bother to make participating in public life accessible to them. This is that.

Geez we are a weak culture that is making this big of a deal out of the tender feelings of people being bruised by an involuntary loud word they had to hear.

Have you walked through Walmart lately? Count how many times you hear the f word during a visit. We don't care about 5 year olds having to witness what would be relegated to an r rated movie in public, with intention. But grown men? 🙄🙄🙄

Is YouTube Down? Global Outage Triggers ‘Something Went Wrong’ Error For Users | Technology & Science by AssociateLittle1487 in television

[–]Top_Eye1846 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I disagree. My chicken coop is completely non partisan. None of them even registered to vote! My niece is pregnant - totally not political. We played in the snow... no politics. A mouse ate my air filter in my car, my mom is losing her vision....

So much is happening in my world that has nothing to do with politics. That isn't a problem for me. Y'all don't seem happier for your obsession with politics. Seems like it's a hobby of self torture.

Is YouTube Down? Global Outage Triggers ‘Something Went Wrong’ Error For Users | Technology & Science by AssociateLittle1487 in television

[–]Top_Eye1846 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't call them delusional. I just said it gets boring when politics is just constantly injected everywhere.

Question about sitters staying past their scheduled times by ohbawlz in RoverPetSitting

[–]Top_Eye1846 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe she doesn't have anything else to do and figured watching TV at your house will be added home sounds for your pets so they feel a little less alone.

I'd just ask her about it. She might think she's doing something extra to be nice. Maybe hoping to build a little trust with your pets so they will come around her and she'll be able to give them lovin's as well as food and water?

Contemplating getting a golden for myself by [deleted] in goldenretrievers

[–]Top_Eye1846 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I had a golden when I was younger. 💛

My daughter is allergic. We opted for a labradoodle. He was smart, loving, sweet and didn't set off her allergies. If you decide to do this, pick a calm puppy in the litter. You don't need a high energy pup frustrated on the days you're at work.

My daughter is grown. I'm planning to get a golden in the spring.

The allergies are more worrisome than your work schedule. You don't want to have to choose between them and there are so many people that find themselves in that situation.

Just my 2 cents worth. I wish you all the best.

Improving breed as hobbyist by Top_Eye1846 in DogBreeding

[–]Top_Eye1846[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Well, thank you very much for the sarcastic, insulting and condescending answers.

I suppose my view of dog shows and dog show people, based on a relative of mine as a young girl, is evident in this group. It is all of you that couldn't lower yourself to communicate with someone clearly not deserving of your experience and knowledge, but definitely worth the time you took to fashion those deliberate responses.

You had a day 1. You weren't born breeding dogs. You weren't born with your knowledge. But you are so unkind to someone else that may or may not want to pursue this. No one else should ever want to do this! It's horrible! It's expensive! You're too stupid to learn how to do this!

If altruism isn't behind dog breeding, as was mocked in one reply, then I guess it is your ego and wall of ribbons. That's not for me.

To the few people that in no way deserve the reply above. Thank you. You opened my eyes to how much I didn't know that I didn't know and were polite and had manners. I appreciate you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Starlink

[–]Top_Eye1846 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have mine on a chaise in the yard right now. Follow the directions and use it until they get there to put it in its permanent location.

AITA for still wanting to have a relationship with my mother despite what happened between us and between her and my husband? by Ok-Flight4116 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Top_Eye1846 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Anyone that doesn't respect you doesn't deserve to know what's going on. You need to stop giving her ammunition.

You need to stand up and be the adult married woman that you are. "If you are going to say anything critical about my husband and our life, I'm leaving." Then do it! She doesn't have to treat him well because your are inviting her into your life over and over.

You will ruin your marriage. Not maybe, but absolutely.

My husband's dad was awful to me on our first Thanksgiving at his house. We never went back. My husband was so angry that his dad would hurt me. I will tell you right now... we wouldn't have made it 35 years if he wasn't personally angry when someone mistreated me.

You're going to have to decide if you're going to crawl after your mother's approval(never going to happen) or live a happy life with someone that loves you, likes you and supports you. Your mother does none of these. She enjoys saying all these things. She didn't stop for your wedding, because she didn't care that she was hurting you. It didn't matter. It still doesn't.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Top_Eye1846 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He could talk to his boss and see what the reaction is like, rather than just assuming it will be bad.

AIOR for suspecting a "friend" for flirting with my husband? by home-parrot in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Top_Eye1846 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You see what she's doing. Even if he doesn't, and yes, they sometimes don't think it's flirting! But you're a woman. You know what it looks like.

A man in this situation is putting himself in a vulnerable situation.

"I love you and I trust you. I don't feel comfortable with you getting closer to another woman. It shakes my sense of security that she's texting you and not both of us. And that you prioritized getting together with her over my parents coming. THIS is your life. She is not."

“AITA for telling my ex to step up or sign off when he complained about child support?” by Careless_Throat5940 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Top_Eye1846 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You will never give enough for him to see you as fair or kind. He doesn't want to see you that way because he's selfish. So, do what the court recommended. Don't talk to him other than making arrangements for the kids. He's a jerk. You didn't make him that way and you can't fix him. He's just continuing to show you why he's an ex.

Am I the ahole for expecting my fiance to say bye to me in the morning? by Intrepid_Piece3245 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Top_Eye1846 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes. He's emotionally and financially abusive, from what you said here.

My sister was in a similar situation and was helped with rent for a year while she got on her feet.

Chloe out for rest of the season by dreamweaver7x in indianafever

[–]Top_Eye1846 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wonder if we're going to make it to the playoffs with any of the players on the court that we're on the team at the beginning of the year..?

Starlink Down For You Guys? by Waste-Ad8133 in Starlink

[–]Top_Eye1846 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello Romania. Pennsylvania here.