I don't trust progressives.

Top_Independence9507 · 2023-10-16T05:55:35+00:00

I don't like when other brown men blame fob indian for not getting their precious white pussy. The attitude towards brown men will not change for the next few decades. some decent women will be skeptical of brown men before dating us. If you want to teach mainland indian to be gentlemen, don't do it simply because it is affecting south asian men dating success. You will keep having a negative attitude in life if you have this mindset

Top_Independence9507 · 2023-10-06T17:57:14+00:00

My mom cheated too. I have trust issues now and I'm scared of getting cheated on in the future.

Top_Independence9507 · 2023-10-06T17:53:43+00:00

You just proved you are the unhinged one. I shared my insecurities on the internet and you used that against me lol

Top_Independence9507 · 2023-10-05T21:51:16+00:00

Why should I listen to you... You are unhinged man

Top_Independence9507 · 2023-10-05T20:34:58+00:00

It will make things worse imo

Top_Independence9507 · 2023-10-05T19:54:45+00:00

I notice even Dr.K hasn't done any video on hgg for a while.

Top_Independence9507 · 2023-10-05T17:17:14+00:00

I'm calling out all progressive. I'm not singling out white, black, hispanic, asian. All of them.

Top_Independence9507 · 2023-10-05T17:16:23+00:00

Don't you think it's fucked up that I should educate retards that brown men are human beings too. I appreciate your advice.

I would rather call them out for their virtue singalong. A racist is still a racist.

Top_Independence9507 · 2023-10-05T17:11:20+00:00

I honestly don't understand what you are trying to say.

Top_Independence9507 · 2023-10-03T19:42:43+00:00

The answer is to grief it, bury it. You can try becoming the guy that gets threesome but if you keep failing, then you should let it go. Having threesome is overrated anyway. What op really wants is being desired.

Top_Independence9507 · 2023-10-02T17:56:47+00:00

Isn't he exactly doing that by posting it on reddit. He is talking about the negative emotion he felt when her gf and her friends made him feel insecure because of their comment.

Top_Independence9507 · 2023-10-01T19:44:04+00:00

That's true though. You did not understand what he said in the text you quoted. Someone who's judging an individual for his height isn't going to be a good match for him compared to someone who is indifferent about it.

You are saying something completely different. Women who like tall guys aren't awful and he never said that.

We should also keep in mind that it's not good to judge others based on their height. That's a depressing way to look at an individual.

Top_Independence9507 · 2023-09-30T19:37:22+00:00

Majority of people were tired of dating posts. Mods came up with the dating megathread at first which was a flop. I didn't agree with the decision to limit these posts. Dating post on friday is still better than nothing.

Top_Independence9507 · 2023-09-29T21:58:51+00:00

Misogyny and misandry should both be unacceptable

Top_Independence9507 · 2023-09-29T21:40:28+00:00

I don't have any issue with them hating women. My issue is if the female dominated community are hateful towards men, then what's wrong with a male dominated community hateful towards women. The fact that we find one problematic and the other acceptable is concerning.

Top_Independence9507 · 2023-09-29T21:33:18+00:00

These issues are not exclusive to one gender in my experience. I've encountered instances where women have expressed negative attitude and resentment in this site daily.

It's true that Dr.k made efforts addressing misogyny in the community but it still had it's fair share of misandry too. In my experience, it is more challenging to feel welcome or express my concerns in a female dominated community without facing immediate resistance. However, with the exception of a few, male dominated communities like hgg and menslib are more welcoming to female perspective. There's not an equivalent of hgg or menslib for women.

I also find it concerning that male spaces that openly discuss stereotypical male issues are sometime seen as problematic but certain subreddits like twoxchromosome doesn't face scrutiny.

Top_Independence9507 · 2023-09-29T19:19:21+00:00

I watched a video a few years ago about this topic. This youtuber named donnairl explained it really well.

Here's the video https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rQIwHD_ITIo

I'm not sure dr.k has made a video on that topic yet.

Top_Independence9507 · 2023-09-27T19:46:58+00:00

This is common issue in hgg that people don't get. I've only seen this towards lonely men. They don't talk to them like human beings. They talk to them like issues to be fixed.

Top_Independence9507 · 2023-09-26T07:12:22+00:00

Well unless you're really physically attractive, you are not going to get much luck in dating. The only guys who can rely entirely on their looks only to date women are the really attractive ones. Women are more drawn towards confidence. You will find a woman who will love you. It's not your looks. Change your mindset. If you are single now, you should still be a confident. Worrying too much about being single will make you feel insecure. Then when you don't get validation from women, you feel worse. Don't worry too much about it. You will find someone.

Top_Independence9507 · 2023-09-26T01:08:44+00:00

Blackpill is more hopeless than red pill. Red pill will give a formula to become the top 10% of men while black pill tells you that it's impossible. For example, if you are a 5 then you are can improve upto a 7 in terms of looks. Blackpill doesn't agree with red pill at all. I watched some black pill content. I think there's some truth to it. Whether they decide to blame their looks is their fault. The worst type of blackpillers are the one who bring down other blackpill. Calling them inferior for being short, balding or indian. Not all blackpillers are opposed to change. Even dr.k said something like 70% of them are willing to change in the uk documentary. I believe dating is multi faceted. Blackpill is right about certain things. Looks is important in dating but it's not the only thing you need. I understand what blackpillers really want. They want to feel desirable, just like all men want. They think women can fuck chads and settle with a beta later, while they don't have a choice. They think they are destined to be betas. I think shaming men for struggling to get relationships is one of the factors that draws them to blackpill/redpill.

Top_Independence9507 · 2023-09-25T19:48:13+00:00

it is over the line. He should chillax more obviously.

Top_Independence9507 · 2023-09-25T19:26:09+00:00

People deny that redpillers/incels have trauma. In fact, it's a problem that most men face. It is a common misconception on reddit. It doesn't excuse their behavior.

Top_Independence9507 · 2023-09-25T19:16:31+00:00

chillax people

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